Colonel wrote:abdisamad3 wrote:^^ sounds like we have one of those salafi married the topic was talking about..

Lilsomali how about the salafi reverts who turn a girl against their father by declaring him jahiil since he's not from the manhaj? Such individuals are far from the teachings of Islam and xalimos who fall for it deserve to be humiliated by their new husband which they only met 4 days ago.
Nobody should turn you against your own father obviously. Being jahil is not something to hate somebody for because the jahil person may be excused for their jahil ways but the one who is not jahil doesn't have an excuse. You shouldn't be so quick to judge others because the Quran says,
"O you who believe! Let not a group scoff at another group, it may be that the latter are better than the former. Nor let (some) women scoff at other women, it may be that the latter are better than the former. Nor defame one another, nor insult one another by nicknames. How bad is it to insult one's brother after having Faith [i.e. to call your Muslim brother (a faithful believer) as: "O sinner", or "O wicked"]. And whosoever does not repent, then such are indeed Zalimun (wrong-doers, etc.). "
( سورة الحجرات , Al-Hujraat, Chapter #49, Verse #11)