Somali Marriage Procedure...

[*lady_ice_4u2nv*]

its been happening alot these days..DISGUSTING 2 be honest

[Qumanyoo]

[quote]the somali marriage procedure=GET pregnant B4 U marry
shotGun weddins[/quote]

ALIE THO... STILL THO... HEARD THERE WAS ONE CHICK WHO GAVE BIRTH ON HER WEDDING DAY
RUMOURS NOWADAYS ARE TOO MUCH...

-NOTQUMZ-

[_BuFF_GYAL_]

raaa

[Mad_CarteL]

Salaam ppl the info on the website was shia's... but if u dont follow your deen u wouldnt kno the difference u would think is the right way... if u want to increase your knowlege on Islam is in the books from the bookstores in your local mosques or ask a bro/sis where the bookstores is located... If u dont know your deen how u goin to argue with gaalo, yahuud and eithist?

anyways sorry if u yall though its authenic but ppl need to know how to obtain knowledge without being a victim of these type of info which might confuse them in the long run.... That is why u get ppl saying why is everytin Haram... Islam is hard... etc... Anyways Mash'Allah to everyone who has clocked on and has actually posted someting beneficial to those who r living in a jaahil state of mind

May ALLAH increase our knowledge and Imaan insha'Allah
Mash'Allah to "always try to lower your gaze"

[MujahidaFiSabililah]

Asalamu Alaykum

MashAllah, very true Mad Cartel. To seek knowledge you don't just unblindedly say ok I believe it but ask questions. Why is that? What if? What would happen if? You have to be inquisitive and not a blind follower. As you know Islam is going to split into 73 sects so don't be the blind follower and fall in to Jahannam!

Ammen to the du'as brother!

Wasalaam

[TUUG4LIFE]

[quote="MujahidaFiSabililah"]Asalamu Alaykum

Would you give your wali details to a potential spouse who may request it through a friend etc or allow your family to find a potential spouse for you?

Does the Somali Marriage procedure reflect the Islamic way which is no talking even by mobile to the potential spouse unless your maharam is there? (In my observations it doesn't and I definitely ain't going down that road!)

Would you get married after meeting your potential spouse once and just asking each other questions to get to know each other whilst your maharam is present.

Walaykum Salaam[/quote]

DO U MEAN ARRANGE MARRIAGE
AINT THAT HOW BUTTERS
SOMALIS DO IT ANYWAYS

[MujahidaFiSabililah]

Asalamu Alaykum

Would you rather have a pretty girl whose slept around with 10+ guys as your wife, or not as so looking girl who fears Allah and is pure as an innocencent baby?

Ok so that is a steroetype but too give you a view that will make you think and get rid of your opinions that all practicing Muslimahs are 'buttas'.

Think about it and use your common sense, when you see a somali sister covered up and she appears to be ugly? Well she has her hair covered, no make up her figure hidden, so you ar enot attracted to her, can't you se beauty int hat itself?

Wasalaam

[*Nobleman*]

[quote="MujahidaFiSabililah"]Asalamu Alaykum

Would you rather have a pretty girl whose slept around with 10+ guys as your wife, or not as so looking girl who fears Allah and is pure as an innocencent baby?

Ok so that is a steroetype but too give you a view that will make you think and get rid of your opinions that all practicing Muslimahs are 'buttas'.

Think about it and use your common sense, when you see a somali sister covered up and she appears to be ugly? Well she has her hair covered, no make up her figure hidden, so you ar enot attracted to her, can't you se beauty int hat itself?

Wasalaam[/quote]


true indeed, practicing muslimahs are by far the most beautiful even without the make up, revealing clothes etc

[MujahidaFiSabililah]

[quote="*Nobleman*"][quote="MujahidaFiSabililah"]Asalamu Alaykum

Would you rather have a pretty girl whose slept around with 10+ guys as your wife, or not as so looking girl who fears Allah and is pure as an innocencent baby?

Ok so that is a steroetype but too give you a view that will make you think and get rid of your opinions that all practicing Muslimahs are 'buttas'.

Think about it and use your common sense, when you see a somali sister covered up and she appears to be ugly? Well she has her hair covered, no make up her figure hidden, so you ar enot attracted to her, can't you se beauty int hat itself?

Wasalaam[/quote]

true indeed, practicing muslimahs are by far the most beautiful even without the make up, revealing clothes etc[/quote]

Asalamu Alaykum

If only all Somali brothers thought like that!

Wasalaam

[*Nobleman*]

Asalamu Alaykum

If only all Somali brothers thought like that!

Wasalaam[/quote]

most guys if asked would obviously prefer a girl who is uncovered and dresses like cadaan people, laakin if you ask who would you rather marry, they would always say a practicing sister. I always argue with my freinds because they mess about, commit zina or claim they do etc and then expect to have a perfect wife.

[MujahidaFiSabililah]

[quote="*Nobleman*"]Asalamu Alaykum

If only all Somali brothers thought like that!

Wasalaam[/quote]

most guys if asked would obviously prefer a girl who is uncovered and dresses like cadaan people, laakin if you ask who would you rather marry, they would always say a practicing sister. I always argue with my freinds because they mess about, commit zina or claim they do etc and then expect to have a perfect wife.[/quote]

Asalamu Alaykum

Firstly I coudln't help to correct you but you shouldn't refer to uncovered girls as just being whites cause that's kinda racist if you nam'sayin, but cause many Bosnian and Checnyan Muslims are white, I'm sure you was refering to English girls, but it ain't just whites giulty of it so are asians, blacks and chinese.

Them guys are funny really though your friends.

They think practicing pure Muslimahs are fools or unaware of what's happening in society! They don't know we gon' do a 411 check on them and find out everything!

Even if we don't find out something then salaatul istakrah we may be given a sign from Allah to back off and not go ahead!

And Somali guys hate on us sisters when we marry outside of Somalis not that all other cultures are perfect but you know what I mean.

Wasalaam