Arranged marriages?

[AbdiWahab252]

Ina Baxar,

U mean it is more like a game of cricket.

U never know when it is going to end

[Mystic_Angel]

I am pretty sure you can Ib..

@A/w..

[Ina Baxar]

AW

[AbdiWahab252]

Went to a Banadiri doonitan & nikaax between two Banadiiris:

3 questions were asked:

1. Are you Muslim ?
2. Do you pray ?
3. Who can bear witness that this man prays every day ?


That was it and the daughter was given to the man. Soon we were eating food and celebrating.

Now I would hate to imagine if I was at a Wuuqoyi Landers doonitan and nikaax

8hrs later,..... the process still continues while the guests starve

[*zabah]

arranged marriages is strictly for ugly people..

[Gedo_Boy]

[quote="Basra-"]In a prudential light, arranged marriage worked for me.In hindsight, i was outraged in the beginning, but since i was a 'Baari' daughter--- i ended up gaining alot.HE turned out to be amazing and fortunately -- i got all the duas from my parents. [/quote]



Basra - The Great Fiction Writer.

Me & Yurub are getting a kick analyzing your work inside out, taking it apart

[Mystic_Angel]

[quote="*zabah"]arranged marriages is strictly for ugly people.. [/quote]


I agree habiibti nural cayn.

[AbdiWahab252]

Ugly ?

Never marry for beauty cause that fades.

Plus ugly people try harder to please

[Mystic_Angel]

A/w how in the world do you get turn on by an ugly woman?

[AbdiWahab252]

Mystic,

If an ugly woman can be a provider if I were unable to work or passed away (istaqfurullah), I know my family will be taken care of.

In marriage, its for the long haul. You need someone who can provide, nurture and take care of a family rather than a beautiful person who is unable to do so.

In my experience, uglier Somali sisters are more accomplished, better educated and stand a better chance of being the type of woman I am into.

Interestingly, i had this debate with my homeboyz this weekend. They were all into the looks when marriage comes around while I was focusing on Xalimo's portfolio.

[Biif Baaf]

Whatever happened to marrying a woman for her etiquete, piety, chastity?

A God fearing woman will be good to her husband, her in-laws and her kids.

Piety is a determining factor for me!

[halfoshalfom-614]

my family arranged marriages for all of our girls and boys after all thats how they got married........ we keep it in the family........cos haday is waal waasho u dharbaax cos she is your cousin .......try this line ina abti or ina adeer ma is biyo biyeeysanaaa.........

[halfoshalfom-614]

[quote="Mystic_Angel"]A/w how in the world do you get turn on by an ugly woman? [/quote]


ina adeer badu waa isku wada dhadhan..........hoguna waa hog makala macaana dee

[halfoshalfom-614]

bal adigu cad iyo caano car kala qabo ......................haahey hala kala seexdo

[Mystic_Angel]

halfoshalfrom614 waxbaa ku yara dhiman..btw your name says it all...

@Biifbaaf, goormaa laga tagay sheekadas..

A/w ha idhihin, you are one of those guys who think beautiful girls are almost legaly retarded because of their beauty like some people i know..ehm remember ugly girls can be snobby and dumb as well, can also make bad wives even though naag kasta waa kartida ilahed siiyo regardless of her looks..