Secret marriage within the Somalis

[Nabeelah]

To avoid disasters like this, you should know everything about your soon husband/wife to be, including their sexual status.

[AbdiWahab252]

[quote="Nabeelah"]To avoid disasters like this, you should know everything about your soon husband/wife to be, including their sexual status.[/quote]

Well put Nabz.

I would go 1 extra step further:

Test drive & 120 point inspection before signing the lease oops I mean wedding certificate

[muslim-man]

abdi,

you're in search of a hoe not a wife.

[HELWAA]

[quote="COSTA"]Women who are virgins must have a wali when getting married.

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"No marriage is valid without a wali." [related by Ahmed and others and deemed sound by Ahmed, Ibn Hajar and others]
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The Prophet SAAWS said: "There is no marriage without the permission of a guardian." [Sunan of Abu Dawood 2080, Narrated Abu Musa]
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"When a woman marries without the permission of her wali, then her marriage is not valid, not valid, not valid." [Related by Ahmad, Tirmidhi and others. Tirmidhi said, this is a hasan Hadith]


End of story

btw my grandfather was there when my parents got married i am halaal 100% unlike some people in here[/quote]



daam i'm so proud of u tonight COSTA

[Nabeelah]

Abdi, by test driving you are contradicting the whole thing. No?

[AbdiWahab252]

Nabz:

If my wife to be told me that she was not a virgin, I would not care one bit PROVIDED SHE didn't sleep with my homeboyz or relatives.

But if she gives me deceptive advertising & denies me test driving, there will be hell for her to pay.


Muslim-man,


HOE ? Warya, a hoe charges $$$ for services. Most men get it for free, are u being charged ?

[Muslimah*]

Sir thank u thank u thank u 4 the kind words and reasoning i am honestly here crying my eyes out because of the ridicule ppl are giving me wen they dont even know the whole story. i will only tell you wat i can manage to type its currently 4 am and im not even sure if i will make it tomorrow may allah reward you husbands father was there @ the wedding and i now i feel pain worse than cramps. I cant stop myself from crying i think im going 2 hyperventilate. Anyways initially the brother was only there to protect me from anoter man who has been stalking me he is close with my mother he repeatedly comes over 2 my house and abuses me so i asked 4 help from a brother i met @ uni. He stayed over at my house with my mother and my mother didnt like him one bit i fell in love with him and he fell in love with me. It was best 4 us 2 do so because of the threat of the brother staking. the rest of the sotry i will tell you when i can inshallah i am just so sad @ how mean ppl can be. salaam

[AbdiWahab252]

Muslimah,

Honey, keep your head up.

Its your life after all and in the end, everyone will accept your decision.


If u want to be creative, tell your family you are pregnant with your husband's child.

That should shake things up

[muslim-man]

Abdi, you area fu.cking liar, hablaha beenta kadaa man. all you're after is, to bite the cake and do a runner afterwards..

muslima, don't let what people say here get into you walal. Most people chat shit in somalinet.

[AbdiWahab252]

Muslim-man,

Don't depress the sister.

I am telling her that its her life not everyone else's.

The mere mention of pregnancy = Automatic approval of aroos.

[muslim-man]

how am i depressing her when all i said to her is, not to worry about what people in somalinet said about her??


what did she do anyways? i haven't read her thread.

[Sir-Luggoyo]

Muslimah,

You are welcome sis. My mom should've seen this thread, she would never have called me Luggoyo again, in fact she would've been proud of me.



A/Wahab,

I think I should give you the nick Luggoyo, you qualify more to it.

[AbdiWahab252]

Muslim-man,

I hope u & I never get related


Somehow I sense you were in my shoes not too long ago.


Sir Luugoyo,

Warya, who told u my nickname ? I am also known as Abdi Waal.

[muslim-man]

Abdi,

GEELA LABA JIRKA WUU SOO WADA MARAY .

i'm retired, i'm the last person u should worry about sxb

[Unclebin-]

I know a girl who got married to her 'cousin'. Only her parents and apprarently me know this.