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NO !!! virgins gurls are damaged goods and damaged goods belong back to the shelf take tht whor bak to her family and ask 4 ur money back let the adoons recycle her contaminated clitless kunt
theres this dude from Canada who found out on his wedding nite that he bride kooochie was bigger than the ozone layer he divorced as soon as he woke up
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i have always being against the test drive , but lately i been thinkin its not a bad idea after all
gedoboy,
how about the Grizzly bear that was Hibernating inside her koochie while masturbting on soft porn?? is that conclusive enough evidence 4 u that her koochie has seen play time with the big boys?
This is an important quality to be sought in a wife.
I heard there is a Hadith that says
“Seek (in marriage) virgins, because they have more fertile wombs, sweeter mouths, less slyness, and are easier to be satisfied with little wealth” (At-Tabarani, verified authentic by al-Albani)
“Marry virgins! They have sweeter mouths, more fertile wombs, and are more satisfiable with little”. (Ibn Majah, verified to be hasan by al-Albani)
Of course its very important --I didn't know that they have sweeter mouths and less slyness.
You know its funny how you guys speak of marrying a virgin girl, are YOU GUYS virgins???
If the answer is no, then in the religion YOU CANNOT MARRY A VIRGIN, this goes for guys and girls. Ama follow your religion Somaaliye ama iska aamus, do not speak about religion when it only pertains to your interst. You would see many of them saying that we are allowed to marry four wifes, but they do not know under what circumstances could they marry four wifes, and their obligations to all four wifes, all they take out is that they can marry four wives.
I think the FGM acts as an inhibitor to losing your virginity not due to higher moral standards but just b/c of the pain associated w/ promiscuity and the more apparent discovery of non-virgin status. But as Advocator said, many women (like in Egypt) have themselves sown back up or their hymen reconstructed.
As for the Northern practice of going to a surgeon first, I heard in Xamar women would do that too, at least the ones who could afford to see a doctor.
I agree with the declining standards. I think when people get hung up on virginity TOO much then we lose sight of what was wrong. I strongly feel that a woman's attachment to a man is dependent on how many men she has had sex with. If there are too many relationships I think it becomes more unlikely a healthy marriage can develop.
As for the virginity for virginity's sake, I read some stories about women in Arabia who are scandalous but want to keep their virginity b/c it will be discovered upon marriage.
These women would allow the man to have anal sex with them and perhaps oral sex just to maintain their virginity. So on the wedding night this guy may be happy he's got a virgin, but is she really a virgin?
That's what MIGHT happen if you get too caught up on virginity as a status.
I'm sure there are many girls who are good-natured, God-fearing but just got caught up in 1 or 2 incidents......is it fair for such girls to be put on a lower status than a scandalous girl who says: "You can have everything but vaginal sex with me because I'm saving that for marriage and I don't want to be considered a love"?
I believe people can redeem themselves.
Besides, another point is we have Somali guys running around claiming they're so promiscuous and sleeping around with all sorts of girls, Somali and otherwise.
So if there are so many guys that aren't virgins then how can we expect the majority of women to be virgins? Who are these guys sleeping with?
I don't think all these are banging the few number of dhilos.......
So as a society if the men are promiscuous so too will be the women.[/quote]
Brilliant answer saxib. Somali boys contribute to the downfal of many somali girls. Even more sad to see after they are done with a somali girl, they pimp her to blacks. These are the drug addicted young boys and girls who dropped out of high-school. Dhiig maleh nacaladda. They buy their drugs using somali girls as trade off. Khamrada xataa aaday u cabaan, both young men and young women. Mareyakn waxa joogo waa u dhamaatay badankooda.
