faraxs, would you....

[Gedo_Boy]

zulaika,

Why would you be wiping our tears? if there is something that made the guy cry the girl is probably crying too

she'd be like: "You're supposed to be comforting me you sorry excuse for a man!"


on the real, most of these guys will cry at one point........but only their special Xaliimo would know about it. That's what a good Xaliimo is supposed to do, conceal her husband's sensitivities and vulnerabilities so he can put on this brave face to the world

[Luq_Ganane]

Zulaika,

This reminds me of that scene from Boys In Da Hood, when Cuban Gooding Junior gets harrased and humiliated by cops, and he comes to his girlfriends house emotional and gets on his knees and she holds his head while he cries. However that was more anger emotion than soft emotion. Anyway, the man cannot show weakness to the woman. A woman looks to a man to be strong, and if the man's a wimp who can't deal with adversity, it will make the woman weaker when she hits catastrophie.

[FAH1223]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Ismahan,

No way, he needs to prove his Hawiyenimo before he gets that mantle.

He has to walk in the paths of great Xawadle men like Sheik Ali Jimcaale

FAH1223,

Ask your father about the Great Sheik Ali Jimcaale (AUN) and his friendship with Abdullahi Ciise (AUN).


Luq,

Warya, this boy need serious dhaqan celiis and to learn Hawiye history. There is no reason for him to go to Sanaag where he could be at risk for reprisal from a whacked out Darood who wants revenge for 1991 even though that person has never been to Xamar [/quote]

sounds good

but uh, you want me to come out of this dhagan celis hating Darod, right?

[AbdiWahab252]

FAh 1223,

No, I want you to be proud of your Hawiye heritage and stop talking like you are Darood.

Think of it as a Hawiye Revival by the River

[FAH1223]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]FAh 1223,

No, I want you to be proud of your Hawiye heritage and stop talking like you are Darood.

Think of it as a Hawiye Revival by the River [/quote]

I never think of myself as a Darod

but disliking Darod isn't and shouldn't be a perquisite in being Hawiye

[+chilli]

The greatest man of creation cried (sws) none off you are brave enough or will reach that point.

[FAH1223]

[quote="+chilli"]The greatest man of creation cried (sws) none off you are brave enough or will reach that point.[/quote]

[AbdiWahab252]

FAH 1223,

Are u related to the great Xawadle leader Shiek Ismacil Jimcaale ? He was a great man whose commitment to Hawiyenimo was never in question.

Learn from your history and stop framing questions as if u were Warsangeli.

"Say it loud, I'm Hawiye and Proud!"

[FAH1223]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]FAH 1223,

Are u related to the great Xawadle leader Shiek Ismacil Jimcaale ? He was a great man whose commitment to Hawiyenimo was never in question.

Learn from your history and stop framing questions as if u were Warsangeli.

"Say it loud, I'm Hawiye and Proud!"[/quote]

I'm committed to Somali people at large, I love all my people, Hawiye or not!

This mentality is not of my abti or whoever, my father implanted this into me. You need to talk to him if you are pissed about it.

And I'm sure you know aabo

[AbdiWahab252]

FAH1223,

Aabo is a strong ProHawiye man once he lives the house and is the company of die hard Hawiyists.

[Luq_Ganane]

^^^

A/Wahab,

I see your still trying to 'Hawiyeize' the kid to no avail.

[FAH1223]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]FAH1223,

Aabo is a strong ProHawiye man once he lives the house and is the company of die hard Hawiyists. [/quote]

yeah right, I been to the coffee shop

they talk about every body..Abgaal...HG...MJ...

[AbdiWahab252]

Luq,

It would be easy if his abtiyal were MJ

FAH1223,

Sure thing. So Buulo Burte, Mustaxil (Eastern Ethiopia), Feer Feer (Eastern Ethiopia) or Galkacyo.

[HELWAA]

[quote="zulaika"]waryaada leave my girl helwaa and her pink karbaash alone yaah.

naayaa helwaa,

ma aniga baad i oraneysaa ninkii i guursadaa xaalkii ba’ay. dee soo miyaadan kutashan adiguba kaad soo xareysaa in aad habiinwalba karbaash la dhacdid?….to see him cry that is

hoogney, wallee inankaa yar trouble dhaaxaa wuu arki.

anyways, I don’t get why farax don’t like to show emotions like that. I mean think about it, u have your xalimo who is readily available to comfort you, say the right words to u, and wipe your tears away...and basically just be there for u.... why keep it all bottled in. I don’t get it..damn your egos,[/quote]


Walaal it depens on sidey dadka okala calool jilicsan yehin...i have seen my father cry mony times of joy afcourse....and i saw my uncle cry when i left Hargeysa..let just say the men in my family are very emotional....waxay ko xiran tahy sida dadko okala raxamd badan yehiin and mashallah allah surrouwnded me with good hearted men.Ilaahy ha ii daayow


ps- I will send you a pink karbaash as wedding present

[SomeGuy]

Helwaa is freak and nasty like any other bad xalimo.

They say "good girls are just bad girls, but not have been caught on red handed doing their dirty things".

This time Helwaa was caught her pants under her ankles!(her hand was on the cooky jar).

"It wasn't me!", she said defensively!.


Luq_Ganaane,

It doesn't matter what your mom told you,man. It is just ain't true!. Mothers tell a lot good-feeling made-up stories to raise up their kids. Children need a lot BS to be told by their moms when growing up. It is part of growing up process as child. it is like "Reer Guraa Raac" stories. In fact, whatever Mom told you should have been the opposite. Therefore, it can be said, you were crying baby and pain in the but when you are infant. And you still cry as a grown up, man!

Thus, whatever mother say to or about her child, is not legally bonding nor could be brought up to any discussion of grown-ups. Period.

Don't ever tell us what your mother told you.Ok?


Someguy