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Zulaika,

How do u define cousin ? Is it a close relation or Rer hebel Hebel nonsense. Are you related to the guy ?

I don't see anything wrong with it once the relationship ends. Its a small world. Move on. UNless the guy was dating your first cousin or sister, what does it have to do with you ?

[quote="Gedo_Boy"][quote="zulaika"]
u don't think he's wrong?..really?? would u do this Gedo?[/quote]


zulaika,

It depends on intention. Did he know she was your cousin and he did it to spite you or something like that?
If it was just a chance encounter & I fell for the girl, I wouldn't backtrack b/c she was your cousin.[/quote]

whatever his intentions are/were...in hindsight..i find it weird coz i'd prefer not to cross paths with the past..but it seems he's carved a path that could collide with mine..lol.

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Zulaika,

How do u define cousin ? Is it a close relation or Rer hebel Hebel nonsense. Are you related to the guy ?

I don't see anything wrong with it once the relationship ends. Its a small world. Move on. UNless the guy was dating your first cousin or sister, what does it have to do with you ?[/quote]

i think u understood it wrong. the guy is someone from my past who is now with my cousin.. understand it better now?

define cousin? ok she's my mom's cousin's daughter. she and i don't talk much..she's younger than me, but i see her during family functions..she was at my aroos...i never invited her.lol.

Zulaika,

U never invited her ? So there is very little of a relation there.

Let it go.

U could have had it worse: Dated the man and his Abti at different times without knowing :)

zulaika,

Well what would you do about it if you found out later that your fiance is a cousin of that dude?

Sulieykha,

It is embarrassing in general...But the level of embarrassment depends on the magnitude of your relationship with the guy...Who broke the relationship? If it was him and you were in love with him, then it will hurt...But if you broke the relationship when he wanted you it can be tolerated..

"she's younger than me, but i see her during family functions..she was at my aroos...i never invited her.lol."

Looooooooooooooooool.

Z,

The guy dumped you and went for your younger cousin which you were jealous of to begin with?? ouch that hurts.

Let i go..esp.. iff you are a married woman..I have seen what jealousy does to women and it aint pretty.lol

zulaika,

Men don't look that deep and don't have all those feelings.

If you break up, they're looking at your sister....let alone 2nd cousin.

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Zulaika,

U never invited her ? So there is very little of a relation there.

Let it go.

U could have had it worse: Dated the man and his Abti at different times without knowing :)[/quote]


i'm not holding onto anything abdi, its all good where i'm @ right now. but don't u think its odd for a man to form ties with meel bari hore laga eryey.lol.

Qarxis. com Zul

Why didnt you put it that way to begin with. looooooooool

You are bothered b/c you are jealous, but he still remains a DOG!

Zulaika,

Take it as a compliment. Something about u & dumarka familiga that brought him back.

So are u related to him in any way ? Same qabiil ? Because if he likes to keep it in the qabiil, you are bound to connect to him eventually

ismahan and cawar,

qarxis waxaa la orankadhaa wax aad ka heshey qof without them knowing.. i'm providing u with this info voluntarily.. does that sound jealousy to u..don't u think i'd tune the story to suffice a jealous woman's whims..if i was as u allege?

huuno, ka yara beydh taas horta, i simply put to you guys a situation i find to be weird. and from your response i think u'd agree with me right? lol..

zulaika,

He probably thought he was doing you a favor by going for your 2nd cousin.....he probably thought that was giving you breathing room.....loool

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Zulaika,

Take it as a compliment. Something about u & dumarka familiga that brought him back.

So are u related to him in any way ? Same qabiil ? Because if he likes to keep it in the qabiil, you are bound to connect to him eventually[/quote]

i'm not related to him(thank God) lol.

[quote="Gedo_Boy"]zulaika,

He probably thought he was doing you a favor by going for your 2nd cousin.....he probably thought that was giving you breathing room.....loool[/quote]

LOL