CoHabitation On the Rise Among Somalis

[AbdiWahab252]

Navy9,

Cool. Very solid advice.

Now lets hope we don't become in laws LOL.

[Navy9]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Navy9,

Cool. Very solid advice.

Now lets hope we don't become in laws LOL.[/quote]


in laws: is she northerner or reer Mudug?

[Leila2007]

Lol @ mambo jambo

Abdi

You need to come clean before nikaax!!!!!!!! That is big new lol

[HELWAA]

Acuudubilaah you cant liv togther before marrige... why would a guy bother buy the cow when he already getting the milk for free.

[AbdiWahab252]

[quote="HELWAA"]Acuudubilaah you cant liv togther before marrige... why would a guy bother buy the cow when he already getting the milk for free.[/quote]

Cause he wants to have calves.

Navy9,

Northerner.


Leila,

LOL, Wanawake ni wa janja ni hakika.

[Leila2007]

Abdi

kwani wewe una attract wanawake wabaya miya!!!!!!.

Nani ana mtoto?

[AbdiWahab252]

Leila,

Nina fikiri nime pata moja mzuri sasa hivi. Lakini nita subiri tu.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n-Di_d1W0bY

[Leila2007]

LOOOOOOOOOOL


Take your time. Kweli umeona maajabu na wanawake huh?

Time for istigara Abdi.......

[MJ-Pride]

I am guilty of this. I just hope nothing serious happens between me and her as I am planning to marry her sometime next year. Its just preview of what to come

[AbdiWahab252]

Leila,

Nina weza ku andika Kitabu: "Hatari Wa Wanawake"

Siku hizi wako wanawake wanayo Bwana lakini wana cheza kama wana.


MJPride,

U will be fine as long as u get her on the pill.

[Koronto91]

[quote="MJ-Pride"]I am guilty of this. I just hope nothing serious happens between me and her as I am planning to marry her sometime next year. Its just preview of what to come[/quote]

Sxb, don't forget to sincerely repent and tell the young lady to do the same before the wedding...that way your marriage becomes accepted!

Conditions for repentence:

1. Stopping the sin.

2. Remorse about the sin.

2. Intention to never repeat the sin (you don't have to say it out loud, just do niyah).

[PINK_BUNNY]

Shame on all of you who are guilty of this.....Talkin openly bout it like it's cool or somethin! I 4 one am conservative.

[garowegal]

[quote="PINK_BUNNY"]Shame on all of you who are guilty of this.....Talkin openly bout it like it's cool or somethin! I 4 one am conservative.[/quote]

looool. true

[biko]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]I am beginning to see an increase of Somali couples living together before marriage. What are the advantages or disadvantages to this ?[/quote]


loool

what kind of focked up question is this sxb?...even if it is on the rise that aint no reason to promote whats aginst our diin iyo dhaqan ba.


but just to answer the question...i have to say there cant be no positive.

what if she gets pregnant and he had a change of heart? and even if they tie the knot after the bun is in the oven, how would that make you feel knowing that your union was haraam?


Ps...for an old school like you who have lived in the west long enough to know whats focked up about it and whats not; you should have been the last person propogating such behaviour.

[AbdiWahab252]

Biko,

I am stimulating discussion on what I have observed. Personally, I am a conservative and would never want to live with a woman 24/7 for weeks, months on end unless she was my wife.

There was a time that this woman I was seeing suggested it. I thought she was kidding. Last thing I need is Mama AbdiWahab to pay a surprise visit. She would have beaten me up with a wooden spoon like I was 9 years old.

About pregnancy, I take ample precautions and if it happens, then its time to man up.