Child Molestation - Why is this considered social taboo?

[Basra-]

Asli u r not alone. Even Lionheart aka Qansa aka Wareer was molested as a child. The thing is: Somali molesters are in plenty, no doubt about that! looool Talking about it, doesn't solve anything. Even, "I", a strong supporter of psychology nonsense, would not recommend that. I believe Silence is golden, not to bother is much better. It makes us uncomfortable talking about it, just as sex is overall a taboo subject in somalis. Especially, if the molester is a respectable pillar of your family or community. The moral story should be: watch your children. Do not have children if u can't watch them and protect them. Asli blame it on your disgusting parents walaal, my sympathies and condolencies. :) loooooooooooooool



Side Notes: I do believe it is better for girls to be molested than boys. To molest a boy is far more damaging than to a girl. A girl psychology make up is one day to have sex through her vagina.So the molestation is just an early practice. As Asli wrote above-she found it "pleasurable and peaceful". (O.K. i sort of understand the 'pleasurable' part since-- u know- she is speaking from experience. But i dont get the 'peaceful' part???Even in the midst of the best hot passionate sex-- one ---one normal person would not describe it as 'peaceful'.When i do Yoga, i experience peace. Anyway...whatever--my point it ) For a boy-the act of molestation is unnatural.The Psyche of the boy is damaged not to mention his fuuto. The whole deal is vastly unpleasant. Can we have a chorus of ''uuffff' please? lol

[Enlightened~Sista]

basra how old are you?

[Basra-]

Enlightened sista--why is my age-essential?

[Enlightened~Sista]

coz u act childish.

[Basra-]

Enlightened sista-- enlighten me - how did i act childish? lol

[Basra-]

Enlightened sista i can't help feel that u are also Asli! loooool

[Enlightened~Sista]

waayoo? just because im showing support and you're making a mockery out of what this sister had to go through..? even suggesting that the victim should remain shtump about it and not tell anyone??

what if that paedophile were to strike again..why would u want to take that risk? name n shame them i say!! and isolate them as if they have a disease! and if they attack any child kill them!

qosolka iyo dhikhdhikdana iska dhaaf...wax iskufal this is not alaughing matter walaal.

[precious_dyme]

[quote="xoogSADE14"]Just shoot the fukkers. Whats there to discuss?[/quote]

looooooooooooooooool

[Basra-]

[quote="Enlightened~Sista"]waayoo? just because im showing support and you're making a mockery out of what this sister had to go through..? even suggesting that the victim should remain shtump about it and not tell anyone??

what if that paedophile were to strike again..why would u want to take that risk? name n shame them i say!! and isolate them as if they have a disease! and if they attack any child kill them!

qosolka iyo dhikhdhikdana iska dhaaf...wax iskufal this is not alaughing matter walaal.[/quote]



Enlighten sista save me the whinning walaal-- i am expressing my opinion. This subject is very uncomfortable for us, simple nerved somalis.This is a heavy subject that we DONT need to discuss like we discuss pimples or vimto ok. So save me this --crusade empty talk of yours-- i mean-- if u were 'brave' enough to talk about it-- why did u come under 'Asli" and bring up this subject only come again under "enlighten sista' to fight her battle. I say u r pathetic and possibly deserved to be molested. uufff saqajamed, Now end of this talk ok! Lets talk about happy stuff!


I heard Abdillahi yusuf died. :)

[AsliUK]

It should be obvious to all that this Basra is stunningly ignorant! Fu*ktards like Basra will never be able to personally judge me; but I hope one of her kid one day gets molested at school or at home while she's out partying at "Somali Aroos." I'm shocked and I can't believe I'm being so virulent as I'm usually light hearted! laakin naagtan Basra ah sounds like naagaha somalida oo caruurta midkood markuu their step-father fara xumeeyo yiraahda, "Ceeb, waxaas yaa lagaa maqal, waa aabahaa oo kale, xishood nayaa/waryaa! He pays the rent, gaariga isaga noo iibshay, cuntada isaga noo gada, waxaas yaa laga maqal, WE ARE MUSLIMS- Subxana Laah" Allow adaa u maqan tan iyo waxay dhashay or waxay dhali doontaba.

Inta dhibana allah haka furto dhibka ay qabaan. Aamiin!
Enlightened~Sista thank you for your tremendous support and understanding!

[Basra-]

Asli oh cry me a river!! Your mother failed u! Anyways u sound like that GHETTOGIRL from uk-- who rumor has it is a garac.So basically your mother failed u two time! Through garacniimo and allowing u to be molested! looooooooooooooooooool

[S_lander-boy]

Basra you are a heartless individual, she is right you know what if this happens to one of your childeren in school or something?

[Basra-]

S_lander-boy am I??? Well, i think u & asli are more heartless-- u r wishing my children to be molested. What did they do to u?? WHo is heartless now looooooool

[AsliUK]

Horta tan Basra ah waa dokhon baan filayaa, maskiinta waxaa moodaaba in afka aysan xidhi karin!
LOOOOOOOOOOL <-------- bay qalad ka fahantay! naa marka la qoslo iyo marka serious la noqdo bal soo baro xabad lagula dhacyee...

[Heidi_]

A few questions for you: did you ever end up telling anyone that you were molested? And when was this ( during or after the molestation)? What happened to your uncle ( do you still see him, are you on friendly terms etc.)?

Sorry if you've already answered these questions.