Gatspy wrote:Those things u have mentioned r probably true but to some extent Kambuli, even tho I didn't get the zinna part. In the west we're alittle culture shocked, caadoyinkii lagala yimid Somalia will not cut it here. The Man as the head of the family needs to steer the family to the right direction, if the family is off track by an inch its his fault for letting it happen. This includes even steering his wife cause communication is the key. Even is shes an aroos going party animal, when she sees how much effort his putting in she'll do her best and even out do him. No one gains from a sitting at some mafrish chewing grass for hours. No matter how hard dudes try to deny it, the Man needs to assume his responsibility as a Family man. no excuses.
Well said.
