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Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 11:50 am
by Cawar
She cant get married without the parents approval period..
Unless..and the reasons were said before..
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 11:54 am
by The_Emperior5
Enlightened~Sista wrote:
and no this doesnt apply to me..actually my older sister.
qofkii amarkii walidkiiisa diida wa ehula naar walidkaga hadaad diidiid awlaadaduna way ku diidayaan adigu
if your parents say noo
then you have to do noo
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 11:56 am
by The_Emperior5
Naaima wrote:Tolstoy wrote:Here is proof that without the approval of a wali (guardian) a girl can not marry:
"No marriage contract can be concluded without the presence of a Wali. A Sultan (authority figure) can act as a Wali for those without one." (see Ibn Majah and Imam Ahmad, Hadith number 1880; also in Salih al-Jaami', hadeeth number 7556.)
there many reasons you can get married without your parents8dad) approval like if they are non-muslim, hadee wiilka ku diidayaan diintiisa(muslim yahay), just to name few
haday wiiilka ku diiidaaan diintiisa u cant marry a gaal in islaam that is a big xaraam naag muslim aa nin gaal aah ma guursan garto xaraam calayk
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 12:05 pm
by precious_dyme
Never I can't possibly do that. I'll be cursed for the rest of my life if I do such thing. Besides when my parents say no and give me a good reason, I'll understand them.
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 12:07 pm
by The_Emperior5
if my mum just said i dont like her whats so ever becous hoyaadeed ba xun naag hoyadeed xuntahay iyaduna way xuntahay thats why waan iska diidaya markaas becous mummy baa didday naag horre baan waxa ku eryee
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 12:09 pm
by MJ-Pride
It depends if the girl in question is chaste women or not. If she's a chaste women, she has to get her parents approval. If she's not a chaste women, or she has been married before, she can her own
You always follow your mind, not your heart
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 12:20 pm
by The-Screw
Yes-
0 votes.
No-
10 votes.
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 12:26 pm
by QansaGabeyle
WHen you need someone to babysit your kids, you will have no grandma to take to, so you will have to hire some babysitter who will probably abuse your kids. Being on good terms with your parents has a lot benefits. lol
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 12:46 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Don't do it.
In the end, a man or a woman will leave you but your parents will not. A marriage that doesn't have the blessing of your parents does not last.
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 12:58 pm
by ms.nalia
If your parents love you...they will get over it and come around eventually.....I know mine would....
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 1:38 pm
by WasteMan
if shes marrying a ajnabi then no!
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 1:49 pm
by FAH1223
she is marrying an ajnabi or someone outside of their Qabil
keep it movin, we heard this story before
You're sister will be with dude for a couple weeks and they will file for divorce
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 1:50 pm
by The_Emperior5
do they realy ajanabi that mutch i dont think so
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 1:52 pm
by FAH1223
The_Emperior5 wrote:do they realy ajanabi that mutch i dont think so
Laakin adeer gabar somaali o dhan ajnabi wey jeceshay
Re: Getting married without your parents approval
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 1:53 pm
by Shirib
Marriage without parents approval is doomed to fail