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Asalamu Alaikum Nobleman.

I also think it's ridiculous wasting so much money on one night and it's not good to imitate the disbelievers. Think about it, you'll have half naked men & women dancing together, music & white dress, that isn't exactly starting off on the right foot. How can a couple expect Allah (swt) to bless their marriage when they engage in haram? And you'll also start the marriage of on a huge amount of debt which isn't exactly clever. There's nothing better than a simple wedding & segregated gatherings based on gender. I want my wedding to be really simple Insha-Allah. No extravagance, no show, and definately no wasting money. Allah (swt) blessing is far more important than what people will say about your wedding.

how many wedding have I seen ruined because of fighting, how many of them get divorced within weeks? etc, Why dont they just throw the money down the drain that's more useful.

20K thats nothing Luv.
50k pluss.. is what my husband is going 2 spend..
or else u know where the door is

nivea_xx wrote:20K thats nothing Luv.
50k pluss.. is what my husband is going 2 spend..
or else u know where the door is

I doubt anyone will even spend 50 cent on jamaican left over.

Clearly not a Broke somalian

have u seen the wedddings of the non-somalians?

I never really understood why people waste so much money just for one night. I'd prefer it if it was a small nikax with just family members, nothing big and extravagant. As a tradition it's the guy that pays for everything, and i wouldn't want to put him in a situation where he ends up miserable because he can't afford it. It's enough that the guy i love and respect has asked me to be his wife, that in itself is what really counts.

she'll get a McDonald's meal from me...supersized if she's worth it


for da ring, it'll prolly be made of onion too

Madd_Scientist_ wrote:I never really understood why people waste so much money just for one night. I'd prefer it if it was a small nikax with just family members, nothing big and extravagant. As a tradition it's the guy that pays for everything, and i wouldn't want to put him in a situation where he ends up miserable because he can't afford it. It's enough that the guy i love and respect has asked me to be his wife, that in itself is what really counts.

true dat angry scientist

Mr Youngnfresh-

Cheap skate

cheap= somalian boys
broke= somalian boys

And it's Madd, Madd_Scientist 8)

Ladies Ladies Ladies.


After the wedding, if am allowed to dhuuqo dhuusadiina from your azz..........you can get everthing you want

[quote="Firefly"]Asalamu Alaikum Nobleman.

I also think it's ridiculous wasting so much money on one night and it's not good to imitate the disbelievers. Think about it, you'll have half naked men & women dancing together, music & white dress, that isn't exactly starting off on the right foot. How can a couple expect Allah (swt) to bless their marriage when they engage in haram? And you'll also start the marriage of on a huge amount of debt which isn't exactly clever. There's nothing better than a simple wedding & segregated gatherings based on gender. I want my wedding to be really simple Insha-Allah. No extravagance, no show, and definately no wasting money. Allah (swt) blessing is far more important than what people will say about your wedding.[/quote]


I agree 100%, probably the reason why i wont attend.

nivea_xx wrote:cheap= somalian boys
broke= somalian boys

It's not " somalian" it's SOMALI! And if you think they're "broke' and "cheap" that's your problem, there are plenty of Somali sisters who respect their Somali brothers, regardless of their bank balance, coz what counts is their integrity & their Islamic etiquette. If they're not up to scratch for you, perhaps you should look elsewhere, and stop disrespecting our brothers in Islam.

Firefly wrote:Asalamu Alaikum Nobleman.

I also think it's ridiculous wasting so much money on one night and it's not good to imitate the disbelievers. Think about it, you'll have half naked men & women dancing together, music & white dress, that isn't exactly starting off on the right foot. How can a couple expect Allah (swt) to bless their marriage when they engage in haram? And you'll also start the marriage of on a huge amount of debt which isn't exactly clever. There's nothing better than a simple wedding & segregated gatherings based on gender. I want my wedding to be really simple Insha-Allah. No extravagance, no show, and definately no wasting money. Allah (swt) blessing is far more important than what people will say about your wedding.