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Abaayo doqon ha iska dhigin( sorry, I know you're enlightened) but you should also know that if you see a good, successful marriage/family means a strong woman runs it. Should I say more?????? I believe a woman can make it or break it in a family...thats just ME.


Foxxy,

I think women in the west just want to get laid in a halal way. Their mothers I guess, b/c they see them as examples. Knowing your standards matters, wont you agree?

** I'm making lots of sisters pissed off maanta but whatever**

Xidigow,

I'm glad we agree. See, atleast I will make him work for his money ( I mean my money).

AW,

Qashinka iska foogay.

Ismahan,

Wa ruunta. Because I am the type who will choke a Farax who mistreats my female relative.

AW,

Your sisters are lucky to have you.

Ismahan,

Abayo, I also extend my services to you. If u do get married invite me to the doonitan.

Ismahan123 wrote:
Foxxy,

I think women in the west just want to get laid in a halal way. Their mothers I guess, b/c they see them as examples. Knowing your standards matters, wont you agree?

** I'm making lots of sisters pissed off maanta but whatever**

no you did not piss me off at all. Their mothers and standards? Well to be honest I am the way I am because of my father. If it wasn't for my father always repeating 'I am not raising a housewife!' and 'failure is not an option for you!' I don't know how I would be today. God Bless my father So I honestly believe a daughter needs her father and a son needs his mother. Am I making sense? A fact is kids need strong role models in their lives. How we are as adult is an example of how we were raised. Honestly speaking I sometimes wonder how these women think or even I would like to view the world the way they see it even for 10 minutes only. I don't think I will be able to handle it for more than 10 minutes.

I think this whole single parent or baby's daddy thing is a whole vicious cycle that needs to end at some point. Someone needs to break the chain. These women don't know any better I guess than living on the doll and having an excuse of a husband. I would say their behavior has a lot to do with their up bringing and the type of parental guidance or lack of parental guidance they had.

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Foxxy22,

Mothers can raise a son but can't raise him into being a man.

There are certain lessons only a man can teach a son.

such as? I would like to see the lessons... do tell. Look I am messing with you.. I have seen women that raised boys on their own and not because they were divorced but they were widows and Mashallah they have done a great job. These boys, well men now are actually alot better than those that had a father present. So my dear easy on judging mothers.

Foxxy,

There are always exceptions. But I do know that the boys here don't fear a mother like a father.

as a boy my self and a teen
i respect my mother more because my father since i was little boy told us
prophet wasa 3ala umahaat 3 times then a father.
but for learning and being a man outside the house
my father and may i add my uncle both did a great job
connecting me with a good people to hang around.

hyperactive wrote:as a boy my self and a teen
i respect my mother more because my father since i was little boy told us
prophet wasa 3ala umahaat 3 times then a father.
but for learning and being a man outside the house
my father and may i add my uncle both did a great job
connecting me with a good people to hang around.

HAA waa runta

you need both though

hyperactive wrote:as a boy my self and a teen
i respect my mother more because my father since i was little boy told us
prophet wasa 3ala umahaat 3 times then a father.
but for learning and being a man outside the house
my father and may i add my uncle both did a great job
connecting me with a good people to hang around.

connecting you with good people to hang around with? Wallahi Mashallah you is one special dude.

Hyper you simply fascinate me.. you and Alchemist are just something else. Good day off I go to bed

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Every young boy needs a father. I find it amazing that some men defer the raising of their children to their wives. A boy needs a male role model in his life and respects his father differently from his mother. A boy fears his father and backs down.

My nephews whose father (AUN) passed many years ago behave differently when I tell them to do something that their mother has already told them to do. They know that I am not kidding and will deliver the on my threats.

So to save our young boys, we need to all be better role models for them and take care of them.

i agree with you AbdiWahab252. mothers can only raise their sons up untill the age of 7. after that is the fathers responsibility. he supposed to teach he's son how to be a man, how to take care of the family and take over the father's responsibilites. its shame whats happening to our community. we have too many single mothers in somali community. my worry is where are the fathers? how come so many somali mothers are struggling?

hyperactive wrote:as a boy my self and a teen
i respect my mother more because my father since i was little boy told us
prophet wasa 3ala umahaat 3 times then a father.
but for learning and being a man outside the house
my father and may i add my uncle both did a great job
connecting me with a good people to hang around.

Mashallah, awoowe.

Plz teach Fah a thing or two before its too late.

Foxy,

Yes, GOD BLESS YOU FATHER. I agree with you, my own father did have an influence in the way I turned out to. SO we agree on the importance of both parents.

surrender wrote:

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Every young boy needs a father. I find it amazing that some men defer the raising of their children to their wives. A boy needs a male role model in his life and respects his father differently from his mother. A boy fears his father and backs down.

My nephews whose father (AUN) passed many years ago behave differently when I tell them to do something that their mother has already told them to do. They know that I am not kidding and will deliver the on my threats.

So to save our young boys, we need to all be better role models for them and take care of them.

i agree with you AbdiWahab252. mothers can only raise their sons up untill the age of 7. after that is the fathers responsibility. he supposed to teach he's son how to be a man, how to take care of the family and take over the father's responsibilites. its shame whats happening to our community. we have too many single mothers in somali community. my worry is where are the fathers? how come so many somali mothers are struggling?

Ismahan123 wrote:
Mashallah, awoowe.

Plz teach Fah a thing or two before its too late.

Foxy,

Yes, GOD BLESS YOU FATHER. I agree with you, my own father did have an influence in the way I turned out to. SO we agree on the importance of both parents.

JUST because i hang out with people of other races doesn't mean they are bad people

FAh,

Next thing I will see u smoking weed at the Prince George's Plaza Metro station with your homeboyz.