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Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 4:33 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Nabeela,

Just to be sure she doesn't flip the script on me. Shiid, imagine bringing her all the way here and she does an Abdi Bile.

But if she is carrying Jr. the risk is reduced because garoobs with kids are a tougher sell than garoobs with no kids.

FAH1223,

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Adeer, Somalinet has made u wise the ways of Somalis :up:

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 4:35 pm
by SummerRain
FAH1223 wrote:
Nabeela wrote:Abdi, why the imported wife has to be heavily pregnant?
Because they think as soon as she hits the shores she will run after the first man she sees, effectively dumping the dude and using him to come to America
18yrs old and already been through the experience eh? Xabaashi girl perhaps? :?

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 4:39 pm
by FAH1223
Ismahan123 wrote:
18yrs old and already been through the experience eh? Xabaashi girl perhaps? :?
:lol: No, but I actually know this one Somali guy in DC who has a xabashi friend...so his friend has a girlfriend back in Addis, turns out she has a little sister and he is interested. The girl sent him letters, picture, all that... and hes thinking of going to immigration to get her here :lol: but he told me he is prepared if she leaves him

Man, there is this one Oromo girl who keeps following me. Every semester I have a class with her, following me just everywhere, (and shes not attractive :down: )

Not cool, not cool, not cool!

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 4:41 pm
by AbdiWahab252
FAH1223 wrote:
Ismahan123 wrote:
18yrs old and already been through the experience eh? Xabaashi girl perhaps? :?
:lol: No, but I actually know this one Somali guy in DC who has a xabashi friend...so his friend has a girlfriend back in Addis, turns out she has a little sister and he is interested. The girl sent him letters, picture, all that... and hes thinking of going to immigration to get her here :lol: but he told me he is prepared if she leaves him

Man, there is this one Oromo girl who keeps following me. Every semester I have a class with her, following me just everywhere, (and shes not attractive :down: )

Not cool, not cool, not cool!
FAH,

Adeer, Why are u saying that ?

Such women are known as Confidence Builders Basically your training wheels :up:

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 4:42 pm
by FAH1223
AbdiWahab252 wrote: FAH,

Adeer, Why are u saying that ?

Such women are known as Confidence Builders Basically your training wheels :up:
:down: :down:

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 4:44 pm
by AbdiWahab252
FAH,

:lol: :lol: :lol:

If she was hot, what would u do ?

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 4:45 pm
by Nabeela
:lol: Fah

If you ask me importing a spouse from back home reeks of desperation, no offense.

Abdi, the Abdi Bile thing actually happened to my Uncle years ago, when he imported a young wife from Somalia to Saudika, miskiin he had vowed that he would never repeat the same mistake again, markaa the trap errrrrrrr pregnant angle makes sense and it might work for some folks like Koronto, I hope he doesn't end up with mid reer baadiyo ah. :lol:

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 4:46 pm
by FAH1223
AbdiWahab252 wrote:FAH,

:lol: :lol: :lol:

If she was hot, what would u do ?
being hot doesn't mean anything

demeanor and carrying one's self is, she is just annoying in that regard

smh

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 4:49 pm
by The_Emperior5
When iam 40 my daughter will be gashaantii naag weyn when i am 40 i have to get another wife second round
i got to stay young naaga yar hadana aan guursado that will be then the same age as my duaghter :mrgreen:

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 4:50 pm
by FAH1223
The_Emperior5 wrote:When iam 40 my daughter will be gashaantii naag weyn when i am 40 i have to get another wife second round
i got to stay young naaga yar hadana aan guursado that will be then the same age as my duaghter :mrgreen:
thats sick, pedo

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 4:50 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Nabz,

Sorry for your uncle.

When importing, you should go for a woman whose family you know well & are related to. Someone whose family will exert pressure for her to not do an Abdi Bile. Also one should not become too greedy like: being 40 and seeking an 18yr old. That makes no sense. 40 should go for a 26-30yr old.

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 4:57 pm
by Nabeela
I have seen 60-18. :(

Abdi, there are alot of desperate families back home, and when someone who's from the west approaches those families in need, and ask for their daughter's hand in marriage, chances are they don't even ask him his age let alone his background, basically they are selling their daughters, which is really sad.

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 4:58 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Nabeela,

I know and I am opposed to those kinds of marriages.

If I do import, I will go for my abti's daughter. She is well educated, has a nice job and is very good looking & over the age of 25 :up:

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 5:04 pm
by Nabeela
Abdi, garabo guur is a bitch, good luck. :lol:

Re: Marriages Of Convenience:

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 5:05 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Nabeela,

Waxa ka fiican ma jiirto. No need to explain her family, preapproval guaranteed, conversations can occur without any discomfort in her presence :up: