Iga jaahil bixiya bal....

[suga_n_spice]

BG

the girlz family gets the most praise during buraambur. in fact, no one even brings up the guyz family and thats because they have no say! noo buuq no stress no praise. boooooooo


qansa,

nice of u to join us saxiib

[Shirib]

Just think how much work u gotta go through if ur pretty much the girl and the guys family

[Buhodle-Gurl]

lol@ no praise....


Suga, He's gettin married to a Dhulos chick. So its a win win situation.

[suga_n_spice]

ooooh, in that case nevermind 8)

[Babygirl-]

Its The Girls Nite That means what SHE wants Goes!! So who can do what she wants with out any questions and put in the their best effort?? the girls family & Friends... His Family suuro iyo Gossip beey so donayaan!! I want them to sit and watch the show 8) ..

[suga_n_spice]

^^ sayz who?!

i think both families equally want the best for their kids. it's not alwayz about suuro and show until there r other beefs involved.

btw........ it's his only night too. and he's payin for it so why can't he enjoy it huh?!

[Babygirl-]

My family will be praised 90% of the time others 5% his 5%.. FAIR!!

So he is marrying Me.

Its somali Culture for his family too back off or Dagaal badhacayo..

[suga_n_spice]

sheekooy ku nacay. abaay 5% ma igu filna. 40% and it's a deal

hadii kale, ilaahay naago wuu badiyey. wax "marryin me" la yiraahdo malahan

[TrophY-WifeY-]

horta, mar hadaan dad soomaaliya nahay, ma dhaqan baa markuu guurka dhacayo in ee gabadha reerkeeda kaliya ee meesha maamulaan?!

i mean the other day, my mom and i were having a discussion about weddings etc. and she said "it's the girls family whose responsible for everything" ...... of course not money, but u know? the usual things, food, dance, house decorations etc. laakiinse, waan yaabey markee tidhi "the guyz family has no input"

i understand if she chooses what kind of furniture she wants and so forth, but why not at least consider what the guyz family wants. his mother, sisters, aunts. i mean what r they suppose to do, dress up and just sit there?!

ayaan hore, adeerkee baa gursanayey and i was so excited cuz i was gonna get a chance to attend my uncles wedding and what not, until his wife to be was like "sorry, i'm not coming and sittin in front of all those ladies" i was pissed. i seriously wanted to dress her up and force her there, and my aunts were all like "it's her choice, and we can't say anything about it"

personally, i think the guyz family should have some kind of input not just follow the leader

guyz, wouldn't u want ur family to have a say?!

Not really....my sister got married two weeks ago.....her and her hsuband organised the reception.. and my family and / hist family had lil input here and there (its all about the groom anf pride) what they want to do...... or if they ask help.... you jump in.


and she gave the honor to my mum to organize the "shaash saarka" yeah it ws all good

[suga_n_spice]

see, TW that's good. mashallah. then again he wasn't somali right?!

dhibka dhan waa soomaalida

[Babygirl-]

He Doesn't have to know..

Who is gonna call him and say they are not praising us??

U just do it, and if they tell him after the honeymoon its not a big deal wa shuqul naago i didn't even know about it baby!!

Anyways I want Dhulbahante in laakala dhigdhigo.. oo 100 amaan dushaa laga saro.. darood the major names and somali..!!

Who has time for his family and if he is ciida well he is lucky..

[Kramer]

Somali weddings are a disaster! nobody should have input, no family relative of the girl nor the clan of the guy!
It should be handled by professional wedding planners with some input from the groom and the bride only!
All these aunties, grandmoms and mothers should be there to just kill some time, not plan and organize!

[suga_n_spice]

Kramer iska aamu ninyahow

nimanka waxaba ayaga looma dirsado. soo labista meesha imaada lee laga rabaa ayaga iyo lacagta bixi. that's it

[TrophY-WifeY-]

see, TW that's good. mashallah. then again he wasn't somali right?!


dhibka dhan waa soomaalida

yeah he wasn't

[Kramer]

Kramer iska aamu ninyahow

nimanka waxaba ayaga looma dirsado. soo labista meesha imaada lee laga rabaa ayaga iyo lacagta bixi. that's it

Do you expect me to sit there 2am in the morning while a fat woman and a couple kids dance in front of me all night and a bunch of ppl stare at me while eating my food?, plus you can't even get up and go to the bathroom! where if I had a choice, I would be at home by now, opening my new present!
that isn't planning ---that is torture against humanity!