90% of Somali Marriages fall short..

[Goljano Lion]

^ ni99a plz


your Obsession with me... is kinds creepy

Hey dont worry this guy even quotes himself sometimes..

cawar duqa sxb u sheeg

[Cali_Gaab]

@ this topic.

The one thing i noticed was that all the guys that have replied to this thread are one of the most femenin guys on the forums, no wonder...look at who posted this thread.

[Cadeey]

Squad,you should have choosen a bride from your own qabil lol, keep it in the qabil Then there would be no interference since you will become one of their "own". Couldn't your family find you one from buuhoodle or boromo isn't that where your mother is from??? I get warsangeli and gadabeerso mixed up lol.

[Dhaga Bacayl]

..because of family interference, especially the females family

..now, what i don't understand is why break your daughters family up?

Does that mean we have 90% divorce rate in Somali community at large?

Don't U think that is little too much? I would say less than 30%....

[Cadeey]

Dhaga are you serious 30% , I beg to differ The divorce rate is about 48% roughly. Somali women divorce the same rate they buy dirac, it's ridicoulous. My arab freinds were quit amazed.

[Dhaga Bacayl]

Dhaga are you serious 30% , I beg to differ The divorce rate is about 48% roughly. Somali women divorce the same rate they buy dirac, it's ridicoulous. My arab freinds were quit amazed.

48%....precisely

[HELWAA]

Wax kasta waa qadar horta laakin waxa soomaalida furitaanka ugu wacan waa samir la'aan balwad iyo lacag.

[Dhaga Bacayl]

Wax kasta waa qadar horta laakin waxa soomaalida furitaanka ugu wacan waa samir la'aan balwad iyo lacag.

Waa runtaa SAMIR la'aanta laakiin blawada iyo lacag la'anta markii hore laysku guursaday maxaa keenay inay sobob u noqoto furiinkooda?

[zulaika]

..because of family interference, especially the females family

..now, what i don't understand is why break your daughters family up?

i say most marriages fail because of the proverbial "moster-in-law" aka mother in law. and the most vicious ones are the husbands mom's who think the wife has stolen her son away from her.

[SummerRain]

..because of family interference, especially the females family

..now, what i don't understand is why break your daughters family up?

i say most marriages fail because of the proverbial "moster-in-law" aka mother in law. and the most vicious ones are the husbands mom's who think the wife has stolen her son away from her.

If any of you girls are not up for drama and playing games with her just move the opposite side of the world from where she resides.

[zulaika]

..because of family interference, especially the females family

..now, what i don't understand is why break your daughters family up?

i say most marriages fail because of the proverbial "moster-in-law" aka mother in law. and the most vicious ones are the husbands mom's who think the wife has stolen her son away from her.

If any of you girls are not up for drama and playing games with her just move the opposite side of the world from where she resides.

loool..move away from the monster-in-law eh...then she will put out an amber alert for her son..

*****"inankeygii bey la carartey..inkaarheshada"******

[SummerRain]

i say most marriages fail because of the proverbial "moster-in-law" aka mother in law. and the most vicious ones are the husbands mom's who think the wife has stolen her son away from her.

If any of you girls are not up for drama and playing games with her just move the opposite side of the world from where she resides.

loool..move away from the monster-in-law eh...then she will put out an amber alert for her son..

*****"inankeygii bey la carartey..inkaarheshada"******[/quote]


Sounds like a personal problem to me.

[zulaika]

i say most marriages fail because of the proverbial "moster-in-law" aka mother in law. and the most vicious ones are the husbands mom's who think the wife has stolen her son away from her.

If any of you girls are not up for drama and playing games with her just move the opposite side of the world from where she resides.

loool..move away from the monster-in-law eh...then she will put out an amber alert for her son..

*****"inankeygii bey la carartey..inkaarheshada"******

Sounds like a personal problem to me.[/quote]

personal? naa i am not having problems with my mother in law.

[SummerRain]

Not your dee....her personal problem, not yours.

[Ikhlas]

Why is it people in here are so quick to generalise on simple matters? not all marriages fail. Everything is a test accourding to our deen right?, the few marriages that fail doesn't mean that there was something wrong with one of the couples, why blame somebody,I think its better to accept that nothing lasts forever....marriages in this generation fail perhaps beacuase we don't follow the sunnah of the prophet (PBUH), somali ladies need to accept their husbands marrying a second wife...and the man need to be examples of men of piety. People need to stop following the kufar mentality e.g. huge weddings, guy goes out with his hommies and wife goes to aroos with her groupies whilst married, Why is it hard to follow the way of our deen...

Most people regard the inlaws and especially the mother of the groom as the terminator