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There are pple who help eachother my friend, if both work he have no choice.Laakin naag house wife ah waxa laga caawinayo anigo ma fahmin.Ninko hadu maanta oo dhan soo shaqaynayey ina hawsha guriga lala sugo maaha.Ilayen maanta oo dhan bad guriga iska raaxaysaneysaye.

HELWAA wrote:There are pple who help eachother my friend, if both work he have no choice.Laakin naag house wife ah waxa laga caawinayo anigo ma fahmin.Ninko hadu maanta oo dhan soo shaqaynayey ina hawsha guriga lala sugo maaha.Ilayen maanta oo dhan bad guriga iska raaxaysaneysaye.

Waa ruunta, Helwaa.

I don't understand why some women complain about doing chores? I enjoy doing chores, and if he helps me out, Alhamdulillah. But if he doesn't ha so shaqeeysto.

Indeed Firfly..The mans first priority is to provide for his family and take care for their needs therefore he deserve to come home to clean house and good meal.

I have OCD in terms of cleaning. I'm obsessed.

Why are you guys acting like married women and men are enemies. Some guys are just selfish and some girls are just jealous fitna creators, They are not even married and they are talking about how somali men don't help around. Get a man first then complain......

I would treat my wife with respect and help her and I obviously expect her to cater for me....

Folks,

There are few realities at the ground:

1. There are women(wives) who even though they don't work at all, even though they are stay-home moms, still demand from their husbands to share the house chores with them. They are wrong. She should be able to handle the house chores unless she is sick...

2. Women who have a job just like their husbands and when they both come home tired, ask her husband to help her with house chores. They are right.

3.Men who have a job and understand that their wife is just like him and that he has responsibility in his family..Therefore is willing to help with house chores etc etc He is righ

4. Men who don't work at all and at the same time expect women to be bread winner and a house wife..She can't be a bread winner and a full-time housewife..They are wrong. I hate those...

P.S...Raising the kids is the responsibility of both...If they don't help each other their kids will fail..

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FAH1223 wrote:I have OCD in terms of cleaning. I'm obsessed.

I hope u get OCD in terms of COOKING also.

Each wife is doing extra work when i am there to get more attention,so i don`t raise a finger thanks to the second.