Why women stay with men who abused them?

[Shirib]

Ms.Nalia, first of all welcome, how you been?

Second of all, huge chunk of girls actually love to get beat and be dominated, that's my experience. They might not like it, but secretly they don't mind getting beat

1) thanx

2) Do you have some telpathic powers that we dont know about? or were you a woman in a past life and somehow regained some warped idea that women like to be beat. If your gonna speak on behalf of a group, you better make sure you actually fall into that catagory before you start rambling about likes and dislikes. Take it from me, you do NOT want to hi a woman. They dont want and they sure as hell dont enjoy it.

MJ-Prides women do. He was tellin us how he beats his chicks and they love it

[Captain24]

Ms Nalia, Well that's your opinion, and certainly you don't speak for most ladies. A lot of girls got that brain dead mentality of being submissive

[Air Canada]

Waraa Captain, if what you are saying now is true then why did you say you'd go after your dumaashi if he hit your sister?

Keep in mind sxb, your sister, too, is a woman.

You are absolutely right now but you were wrong about the situation earlier.

[Basra-]

Oh please.



A lil violence or 'abuse' is not bad of a thing for a relationship. In fact, a man abusing a woman is directly linked to enhancement of a great relationship or sex if you will. And we all know --sex is everything in the relationship. I think biologically- the more a man is abusive, a jerk, an abuser-- the more the woman would be highly interested and of course 'en love'. (Not to mention the more the man is sexually aroused following the abuse, and therefore resulting in a very fantastic climax of sex. An ingredient that makes the woman go back to her abuser, again and again)


Niceness does not belong to primitive act of relationship -which is the relationship between a real man and a real woman. Now--let me be PERFECTLY clear. I am not saying that i like abuse or allow abuse. What am saying here is-- a man and a woman have to establish their 'roles' in order for the relationship to be healthy, happy and long lasting. A man has to be a real man, and a woman has to be a real woman.Fahamtu? Niceness is not synonymous with a man.(abdiwahaab take note) And NO- i dont mean Nice guys are bad. I like Nice guys, they are the best of best friends.But i know they dont want to hear this truth, ma ha? The moment a man makes "Niceness' out of habbit, the sooner the woman would be frustrated and dump him.

A man being a jerk, and an a$$ hole- is directly linked to his libido or his sexual gravitus.He needs to feel dominant, overpowering the feeble woman, and you know making his lil abdi firm and effective, and consequently-- making her 'submit'. The real woman needs to assume the position. No--- i dont mean that position.... I mean, she needs to know her role position. Her place if you will. Timidness, sweetness and submision to her husband is her God given right. She needs to understand she is not a whole humanbeing, not necessarily is she less important than the man human.(she is made out of adams rib, do u get my 'wholeness' point?) She needs to know her role, she needs to please her man. And how else does a naturally inclined egotistic man feel better? By the woman to shut up, say --yes sir and yes sir... and submit to his needs. (*which are very simple needs, i have to say. Men are not complicated, they are stupid if you want me to be blunt.)


A woman needs to understand the man is her superior. I mean, that her husband is her superior. She can abuse other men if she wants loool - but her hubby needs to be her master. Simple as that. I mean, even Jane Austen is quoted in Pride and Prejudice. Elizabeth- the heroine of the book is warned by her father-- he basically tells it like it is. He warns his daughter NOT to marry this rich, amazing Mr. Darcy if she wont respect him. (but respect is over-rated, he meant fear him, thats the right way to put it). He said-- basically, she has to understand that he is her superior. That she has to have a high opinion over him or forget it, dont marry him, stay here with me. (She was his favorite daughter)

He is the quote of a father--(MR Bennett) warning his daughter....Elizabethe...aka Lizzy...



"But let me advise you to think better of [your marriage to Mr. Darcy]. I know your disposition, Lizzy. I know that you could be neither happy nor respectable, unless you truly esteemed your husband; unless you looked up to him as a superior. Your lively talents would place you in the greatest danger in an unequal marriage. You could scarcely escape discredit and misery. My child, let me not have the grief of seeing you unable to respect your partner in life. You know not what you are about.''




Now here clearly-- the great Jane Austen-- who is mostly mistaken to be a feminist is saying the man needs to be SUPERIOR.



The violent errupts when the woman refuses to submit-- but in away, a woman going back to her abusive man --can be seen as 'Submiting' to a superior.

[Air Canada]

Niceness does not belong to primitive act of relationship -which is the relationship between a real man and a real woman. Now--let me be PERFECTLY clear. I am not saying that i like abuse or allow abuse. What am saying here is-- a man and a woman have to establish their 'roles' in order for the relationship to be healthy, happy and long lasting. A man has to be a real man, and a woman has to be a real woman. Niceness is not synonymous with a man.(abdiwahaab take note) The moment a man makes "Niceness' out of habbit, the sooner the woman would be frustrated and dump him.

Basra

Nobody tells the truth way you do

[surrender]

A woman needs to understand the man is her superior. I mean, the husband is her superior. She can abuse other men if she wants loool - but her hubby needs to be her master. Simple as that.

i got your game now basra!

[Basra-]

[quote="Air Canada"][quote="Basra-"]


Niceness does not belong to primitive act of relationship -which is the relationship between a real man and a real woman. Now--let me be PERFECTLY clear. I am not saying that i like abuse or allow abuse. What am saying here is-- a man and a woman have to establish their 'roles' in order for the relationship to be healthy, happy and long lasting. A man has to be a real man, and a woman has to be a real woman. Niceness is not synonymous with a man.(abdiwahaab take note) The moment a man makes "Niceness' out of habbit, the sooner the woman would be frustrated and dump him.

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Basra

Nobody tells the truth way you do [/quote]


Air Canada Aka Qansa



I thank for your truth as well.

[Basra-]

surrender loool

I am glad u see my game.

[Navy9]

Oh please.



A lil violence or 'abuse' is not bad of a thing for a relationship.

Define what little means?

[Niya]

It is either low self esteem, being insecure, being financially dependent and being unaware of what her options can be is what makes a woman stay with an abuser.

[muslim-man]

Even muslim-man agrees all women prefer men who treat them very rough than a masaakin that treats them well

[Basra-]

Navy


The size of the abuse is not important. The important thing is- when it happens, he apologizes, and they learn to know what the other wants.Its simple as that.She needs to respect her man and he needs to be a man. The moment one stops being a man or a woman---- then the relationship will go no where.

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Insecurity and lack of self awareness!

[Oxy-]

A man being a jerk, and an a$$ hole- is directly linked to his libido or his sexual gravitus.He needs to feel dominant, overpowering the feeble woman, and you know making his lil abdi firm and effective, and consequently-- making her 'submit'. The real woman needs to assume the position. No--- i dont mean that position.... I mean, she needs to know her role position. Her place if you will. Timidness, sweetness and submision to her husband is her God given right. She needs to understand she is not a whole humanbeing, not necessarily is she less important than the man human.(she is made out of adams rib, do u get my 'wholeness' point?) She needs to know her role, she needs to please her man. And how else does a naturally inclined egotistic man feel better? By the woman to shut up, say --yes sir and yes sir... and submit to his needs. (*which are very simple needs, i have to say. Men are not complicated, they are stupid if you want me to be blunt.)

loooooooooooooooooooooooool LMAO

Basra Tell it like it issssss !!!

[Keyse_0208]

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