Would you guys’ advice...

[surrender]

bad idea for girls. good idea for guys.

Expand please.

yh do explain plz!

[BaasAbuur]

Those who go back home for guur, is ma hubaan lol

i don't know girls but for it is more about not having any confidence in somali girls in the west.

[Advo]

I actually know someone who went back home and married a local upthere, she brought him here and they are doing ma'shallah walle, he goes to work, comes back and they spend the rest of the time together, u would never imagine this guy is from so and so and is a recent arrival. So sometimes it works and other times it doesnt.

[Nabeela]

Qansa, why is that though, that is the thing I don't get.

[The-Screw]

lol i don't think that its fair for naag kibir badan from the west to marry a poor geeljire from somalia. i mean, if a woman gets an edge on you its all over.

but on second though, the geeljire might just beat the sh!t out of a xalimo kibir badan.

[surrender]

or maybe she's a husband beater lol. there is lotta of 'em around these days. now i know why!

[The-Screw]

a husband beater aah? waa wareey, there is only one place that i'm willing to get hit by a woman...

[surrender]

not that kinda beating lol.

[The-Screw]

lol

[Babygirl-]

bad idea for girls. good idea for guys.

I agree gabar hada tahay nin Africa jooga daan kumaa aha..

[surrender]

apperently is good for the soul babyG

[LaQaNyO]

I think it just depends on whatever rocks your boat... Although it doesn’t make sense to me, why? Maxa ku kalifaya? Is there a reason.. i.e has she already met him?

[Cushticutie]

I would advice the sister to pray salatul istikhara, nothing better than turning to the almighty and asking him to guide you to the right decisions.

[Phd in naago kudis]

marrying someone back from home only works for guys I think
girls raised in the west could possible never understand a freshie from back home.
whilst man have no problems with dealing with freshies