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Bisinka iyo yasinka...the thought of marrying somone apart from my own discussts me...its funny how dem asians have been here for so long yet they still marry theyre own...and no matter how modernized they may look..they still follow theyre cast system, cos they dont wanna bring shame to their family...and look at us...we aint been here that long and our girls are marrying jareer and all sorts..i would tell them to accept whatever comes theyre...MAC SONKOR CALEEG...BIG UP ALL MY SOMALI MEN!!!

Spursman wrote:surrender what you on about walal thats his wife no body should stick up for her she ant dumb and knows what she got herself into ciyaal mahaa its not our business if it isnt our family.Family even should keep out between wife and husband but i feel sorry for the child that got raped paedophile should be murdered and ant a wadaad fake shaydan.

i know that spursman, but you have to realise when someone is need of help, you should help them regardless who they are. of course im not saying they were right in following them, but had they had better/stronger community to help them when they were "lost" maybe they would think about joining/marrying these people twice. i know this one girl who just started to come back to the deen, she stopped me and asked me where the mosque and if im going she could go there with me and i could show her how to pray. (remember she's somali). and when i said to her, sis im not heading for the mosque now, gotta meet up someone, but ill show u where it is, and at this time there are somali women in there they could show u how to pray. she was like no no, i dont want to ask a somali lady anything, last time i asked her they laughed at my face, and said naa soo ina hebel hebel matihid. they dont take me serious. they think im doing it as a joke.
Dude thats just mean, i felt so bad for her, i had to take her with me to my appointment just so i could show her how to pray and introduce her to the rest of the crew.

this is the kinda ^things that make me realise, our community isnt as strong and close together as they should be.

Firewall wrote:surrender why the fuk are u such a love sympathizer?

your always coming to their defense

are you a closet love?

if i hadnt known you better, i would say something, but hey thats ^ idiot for you.

loooooooooooooool about the threesome..mayn that is crazy..i cannot believe even the dumbest gal would accept...but i was wrong..why on earth would u marry a confused mixed breed..??? they look like sissi's .. big up my beautiful somali brothers uno 1 again

wastegal wrote:

Cisse Westlake wrote:
u do not know if they are dhilos or not so dont call them that... however they have made their bed so let time lie in it

I realised u chat xaaaaar

Ur sista married one dem ... this story is rather personal 2 you so mahaa...

did what i say hit a nerve

I have realised so i had to tell you. Thats all!

wastegal u know I have hit a nerve that is why you come out... what is xaar about "let those who make their bed lie in dem" it is a famous saying... applies to ur sista who married that adoon as well... so that is why you came out with xaar comment

Okay. Okay Sorry i was just bored.. I wanted to get u angry.

Tha Diva wrote:Bisinka iyo yasinka...the thought of marrying somone apart from my own discussts me...its funny how dem asians have been here for so long yet they still marry theyre own...and no matter how modernized they may look..they still follow theyre cast system, cos they dont wanna bring shame to their family...and look at us...we aint been here that long and our girls are marrying jareer and all sorts..i would tell them to accept whatever comes theyre...MAC SONKOR CALEEG...BIG UP ALL MY SOMALI MEN!!!

i know man!!! is annoying, the worst thing is, some of these girls have (or had) good life, way better than what they would have when they marry a revert. i dont know if u live in lodnon, but few yrs waxaa dhacay wax layiraahdo, revert fever. somali girls want to marry them revert all of a sudden. but what i annoyes me most, is the b'ham stories thats been happening lately, man these salafi are too extreme, they need to be stopped, someone should stand up to them. these girls on their own are powerless as well as brainless. every yr a miskiin girl who dont know jack about the religion will join them, thinking that she found everything they were looking for, love and diin all at once. little do they know what they getting themselves into.

Cisse Westlake allow her she is a safe miskeen gal as how she comes across but allah knows no point in that caadi mahaa.

Spursman wrote:Cisse Westlake allow her she is a safe miskeen gal as how she comes across but allah knows no point in that caadi mahaa.

No point in what mate??

wastegal am telling him to stop picking on you that you a nice girl.

Oh.. Thank you

Adan_1:- I think I know which Masjid you're talking about. I've heard a lot about these groups. They brainwash you and they prey on the weak and vulnerable, you're either with them or against them, there's no middle path. They're so extreme. There's no mercy and no sense of compassion - it's so strict. It's like a cult, and they have a cult mentality. I know of two Somali sisters who married one of these people, and I can't write here want they went through - it's just unimaginable.

You guys think these girls are silly and naive, but you don't know what it's like until you've been through it, once they got you, they got you. Nothing else makes sense to you.

Surrender lol @ revert fever..the silly thing ive also noticed is that when a girl gets divorced from a somali boy she want her second husband to be ajanabi..i know of a few that have married white after divorcing...its tragic man..and nah am not from london..but that shit happens everywhere..over here too..i havent heard of them salafi ppl before doe...does that make me ignorant??? anyways i have this friend who just came out of a divorce..and she wants to go white lol..she cannot stand somali men anymore..and thinks a white man will solve all her problems..am gonna have to let her know bout whats going on and crush her dreams ...muhahahahah (evil laugh)

Tha Diva wrote:Surrender lol @ revert fever..the silly thing ive also noticed is that when a girl gets divorced from a somali boy she want her second husband to be ajanabi..i know of a few that have married white after divorcing...its tragic man..and nah am not from london..but that shit happens everywhere..over here too..i havent heard of them salafi ppl before doe...does that make me ignorant??? anyways i have this friend who just came out of a divorce..and she wants to go white lol..she cannot stand somali men anymore..and thinks a white man will solve all her problems..am gonna have to let her know bout whats going on and crush her dreams ...muhahahahah (evil laugh)

lol, tell me about it

i know this somali lady that got divorced from her somali husband...married a white guy and now is divorced again