What is the key to a good marriage?

[The_Emperior5]

emperior the only reason you want another wife is cause you're too lazy to cook and clean for yourself sxb

just get a maid

lacag maan oo haya maid sxb while a wife is one time investment meherkaasun baad bixinaysa waanu ku siinay Gurigaga ayaad ku xaraysanaysa uun.

[The_Emperior5]

kolombo said it all for me.
also no magic thing to solve it.
first of all choose carefully, personality and family wise.
watch out her family and how they treat each other.
her mother how she trets her husband and how the father treat the old lady and his kids!

how they conduct the neighbours and people around them, what people say about them?
islantu dadka mala dirirta, bad mouth others, ma habaran ta when she gets ungry? most somali older lady course out. that's dangerious sign, ka faqow her daughter intad ka fogan kartid.

tan kale adigu judg your self, what is your weakness, strength and your shourt comings.
improve your self and how you conduct with others, salat ko dadal, if you can fast twice a week mnday and thrusday. that would keep your mind clear and always in state of taqwa and remembering Allah. hence you think twice before you wrong others and disobey Allah.

are you realy 18 yarkani fariidsana

[Hyperactive]

lol emp. than you bro.
im eldest one and they say eldes got all the attention so became wise.lol

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

A firm backhand

[Firefly]

A firm backhand

Nacas!

I'd say a lot of patience, good communication, and trust.

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

Nacasad! I'd only beat her cuz I care.

[Firefly]

She'll leave you in no time, nacasyahow..

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

I'll find her, nacasadyahay.

[Firefly]

lol, bal arka nacaskaan? Yeah, you'll find her with the divorce papers.

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

I'll beat the crap out of her if she tries that with me...and not the "cuz i care" kinda beating either

[MzunguMweusi]

Communication, Respect, Understanding, Patience, Compromise, the list is long but as long as there's these ones, the rest are covered.

[Firefly]

I'll beat the crap out of her if she tries that with me...and not the "cuz i care" kinda beating either

[RebelLion1]

Marriage should be looked at as a business, and in business, it's not about compromise, but compartmentalization. Everyone take of care of their duties, and there should be one CEO, who makes the final decisions.

That being said, who the fock knows, no one knows how life turns out, just move with the punches and see how things work out. You live once, enjoy life.

You can always get a maid that focks. lol

less headache, and no responsibilities.

[American-Suufi]

patience, communication and trust needs time for building. since most somalis spend so much money in weddings and they barely have left any savings as soon as the honeymoon finishes, she will be pregnant and both lack the means or the strategies to deal with raising a family. a recipe for disaster. buddy dont do it.

dont breed for the first 5 years. achieve what both of you want to achieve, saving money, education, building patience and trust. this must happen before you breed, also this will give you time YOU MUST BUY your own home and raise your family away from the ghetto.

[FAH1223]

patience, communication and trust needs time for building. since most somalis spend so much money in weddings and they barely have left any savings as soon as the honeymoon finishes, she will be pregnant and both lack the means or the strategies to deal with raising a family. a recipe for disaster. buddy dont do it.

dont breed for the first 5 years. achieve what both of you want to achieve, saving money, education, building patience and trust. this must happen before you breed, also this will give you time YOU MUST BUY your own home and raise your family away from the ghetto.

this is the only time musika man makes any sense WTF