Why dont somali Men Lighten their skin?

[AyanTu]

Mr.V though i think it is VERY important to maintain a healthy and fix physical standard, i don't think it's nessary to bleach one's skin....thou we women do a lot for the pleasure of a mans eye and the standards are lower for me. Dressing nice, keeping ones hair and oder pleasing is all i need....dark and lovely or light and bright it makes nooo difference to me.

[Ureysoo]

Lol, How can anyone be so open-minded about this matter?. Would any femme want a man sharing her shaving creams, lotions and cosmetics with her?. Lord!!!. I'll feel so threatened, and the thought of my man competing with me in my own field can put me on pins and needles!. It's like a girl growing a beard and mustache to put her chap in a competition.

Imagine a dude with feminine-like face due to excessive facial-treatment, full make-up coverage and entirely shaved body trying to embrace you?. This feels so wrong, and can appear anyone as a homosexual. I'll tell u how it feels – it feels like hugging another woman. “Lesbian-Alert” should go off at that instant. Men should be so unsmooth, and the hairlines around their body parts got to poke you like an “Acupuncture needles”. Hell to all that, their armpits should have a bad reek (way worse than mine), and the body got to look roughened like a piece of hardwood.

What makes it even worse, this creature called VALENTINO coming across like a fruity asking brothers to do constant facial-treatment!!!. What the FU.CK!!!. Why would you bleach your face if you are so CONFIDENT? Nacala, even women should not carry on such an action. Where's the logic fallacy in your argument Soft-Thingy?. I tell u what – won't you go and pierce your belly too. You obviously contrasting yourself with girls, therefore, fight dirty and wear their clothes furthermore.

Washing your face, brushing your teeth, and combing your hair are ordinary things. Nevertheless, starring at the mirror more than your own female and naming every cosmetic on the shops shelves means one thing --- YOU are in touch with ur FEMININE-SIDE, and need to adjust yourself urgently buddy.....

[valentino]

Ureyso stop exagerrating and twisting things, did i say put on make-up or your girlfriends cosmetics, or shave your hair, all am saying is if people get dark they should lighten them selves, nothing about bleach, damn your ignorance is so overwhelming i feel sorry for you..

every person should look after them selves, who mentioned anything about the bull-crap your on about, your paranoide stick to the point.

the point is your not openminded at all. and about men been hard like wood, and strong and i think thats almost impossible as most somali men, are fat, very soft body, or too skinny and not hairy like asians. they also dont excercise much.

[Ureysoo]

Look at this scatterbrained moron, so lightening one's skin is a good thing to do?. In actuality putting on a make-up is a lesser offense than using lightening creams. Again, lightening your skin is a degree of bleaching, given that, you making your skin complexion modify by using certain methods (shifting it to lighter scale). Do I have to break it all for you to comprehend it fool?. It's wrong for women to do such a thing, so imagine a man?. Men should not brag on about beauty or go the extreme way to skin-whitening processes. WTF is wrong with your head?. Are you a woman dropped inside a man's body?. Plus, you didn't distinguish two things – taking care of one's physical appearance and changing your appearance are 2 dissimilar points. Why do you want to change what Allah gave you?. Why are you not content with your skin-complexion?. Do you have a low self-esteem and think modifying your skin-color will amplify the level of your attractiveness?. What's next? Plastic surgeries?.

As 4 the rest of points I stated above – They all come in package, 1st you will modify your skin-color slightly, and cross the extra mile to the other steps because you have no boundaries at all. Additionally, who said being “rough as a hardwood” necessarily means being muscular?. It means the outer skin texture being roughened and not the physical composition/shape/size. Waxaan Dabaalsana, Wuba Isla Sii Fiicanyahay!!!....

[valentino]

is like arguining with a cat, just shut up and face the music, and stop talking like a nomad, you obviously live in the west ever heard of been a metrosexual man, perhaps david beckam, a very good looking man, who has taste and looks after himselve, see you will never understand anything because your whole mindset is so backward in thinking and you cant see anything else except for the ignorant and dumb way you've been raised to view things.

Go back and look around the world, the world is changing, theres now the same products for men, cosmetics, makeup etc, they're been made because of the demand, and men and women are realising the fact that men need to look good as well, and its certainly not fruity or gay. let me guess little xalimo girl never goes out or has somali circle of friends and doesnt even experience or adapt to society which she lives in. wake up fool smell the coffe, worlds different now we'r not in the dark ages anymore.

ps i never said change the way god made you, i said lighten your skin if you'v gotten darker through years due to sun damage, which is fact.

[Lil_Cutie..]

I am all for men taking care of themselves, keeping clean and grooming themselves-to an extent. Our body is an amanah from Allah and we must look after ourselves, keep clean as cleaniness is half of the deen. Yes look good, because as it is mentioned in a Hadith that Allah is beautiful and Loves beauty!

As for the lightening your skin. If it contains chemicals (the so-called bleach), then men as well as women should stay away from it. But if it's the sort that you may find in some cosmestics nowadays like facial washes/scrubs 'renews your skin..' then thats normal.

[valentino]

As for the lightening your skin. If it contains chemicals (the so-called bleach), then men as well as women should stay away from it. But if it's the sort that you may find in some cosmestics nowadays like facial washes/scrubs 'renews your skin..' then thats normal.

Lil_Cutie thanks a bunch atleast we have one openminded person with abit of aaqli in this place, thats what am trying to tell these people, not bleaching your skin, but using normal products too look after your skin and maintain your complexion. but people like uureyso are living in dark ages they think that men even looking in the mirror or talking about qurux is forbiden.

[Advo]

This topic gives me jokes walle.......(the mental image)


I'm very comfortable with my skin and would never try to alter it however, I always wanted to apply Diana on my xininyo (yes it's already smooth enough), just that unholy area and nowhere else though, after the desire results were achieved, my mission would've been going balls-out (literally) by creating a lil exposure patch on my jeans.

I'll be walking down the street and people would be complimenting me.

"great balls sir"

"They look absolutely adorable"

"anyone ever tell u, the color of your balls bring out the color of your eyes"

[Hyperactive]

i know advo for sure wo is adeyey.

few month ago i was lighter than him 1 shade and now he is 6-7 shades lighter.

[Advo]

What's with the qarxis man......but there's an explanation here, someone replaced my lotion with a skin changing one and I usually avoid mirrors so I never noticed any difference, but oneday while I was driving, through the rear view mirror, I saw a white person in my car and I panicked, almost crashed, but before I called the cops, I decided to apprehend the bastard, than I looked at my skin only to discover it was me all along, next thing I remember was, I was at a white only party and was screaming Hail Hitler!

[Hyperactive]

What's with the qarxis man......but there's an explanation here, someone replaced my lotion with a skin changing one and I usually avoid mirrors so I never noticed any difference, but oneday while I was driving, through the rear view mirror, I saw a white person in my car and I panicked, almost crashed, but before I called the cops, I decided to apprehend the bastard, than I looked at my skin only to discover it was me all along, next thing I remember was, I was at a white only party and was screaming Hail Hitler!

[military-mind]

bleach u know lol

Naag..Naag ku dhashaay

[Oxy-]

Valentino - Most women prefer darker skinned men, so your argument is slightly pointless... dont u think

[Ka darag]

THAT IS GHEEEEEEEEY

[BaasAbuur]

There is nothing more UNattractive than a man who bleaches his skin...its all the rage in Eastleigh Nairobbery. And due to their acne and black lips....I feel sick thinking about it.

That is some focked up picture you put in my head.