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Executive wrote:

You will become sexually frustrated

nah bro, i will get married but not in my early 20s

mid to late 20s

best thing is the tax credit

Executive wrote:

FAH1223 wrote:

HELWAA wrote:
I guess it's better to be single walle...kolombo was right.......MARRIAGE sucks.

finally you see the light

sucks is not the term, OVERRATED is the term

You will become sexually frustrated

huuno marriage is more than a sexual sanctuary. overrated is this inflated sex to marriage correlation.

FAH1223 wrote:

Ismahan123 wrote: Dude you are yet to kiss a girl, marriage maxaa ka ogtahay.

* Sorry

thats not a diss, thats a compliment

helwaa, then whats the point?

No it wasn't a diss. Just a perception of how little you know of something that can be a blessing for you and someone else.

Ismahan123 wrote: No it wasn't a diss. Just a perception of how little you know of something that can be a blessing for you and someone else.

and you somehow know more?

Well I'm not discouraging it or being negative about it. You can't "overrate" something that is suppose to be half of our iman.

Executive wrote:

FAH1223 wrote:

HELWAA wrote:
I guess it's better to be single walle...kolombo was right.......MARRIAGE sucks.

finally you see the light

sucks is not the term, OVERRATED is the term

You will become sexually frustrated

Well EX you can satisfy ur needs in other ways my friend........how about a good chocolate cake or shopping


Zuli

KU fahmay

Ismahan123 wrote:Well I'm not discouraging it or being negative about it. You can't "overrate" something that is suppose to be half of our iman.

i understand that but there isn't a single Islamic literature anywhere that says it is compulsory to get married and have kids.

it is strongly encouraged and a sunnah but if you dont do it and you avoid sin, there isn't any problem either

Z, i agree. nimaan firfircooni u dhalan kama keeni kartid saad yeeshoba.


runti, qofka siduu yahay waa in aad ku qadataa, waayo naftaada ayaad been u sheegi hadaad tiraah "inshallah, wuu is badali ama wee is badali" because in reality only those who want to change themselves....can be changed.

then again, life is not just about a man providing for his family. there is more to life then money, food, and a place to live. nolosha qiimo ma yeelaneyso hadii intaa uun lagu koobo.

people always argue that education doesn't make a person, but when someone seeks knowledge not only are they going to be successful, but even everyday life will have more meaning. an educated person is determined and hard workin. am i sayin the average laborer isn't? no.

Yeah, I do know many unmatched marriages, I am surprised how they met at the first place thou,it seems one of them lied the other one, there are times in my head I said “Oh that girl would have been perfect to be my wife and she didn’t get the right husband” and there was times I said “thanks god that girl is not my wife” only god knows what is best for us

This is what I noticed, certain people both males and females, when they lack the social norms of keeping honesty and respectable stance toward their partners, they start depending on persuasive stories that promise hypothetical things, like I will be good person this time, I will be good wife, I will love you to death, I will never lie you ever, I will never hide any secrets from you, I will I will I will…..

I don’t see the complain if the person knew the habit of their partner before they married, there is no excuse there, but how about to get surprises after you married that was intentionally concealed from you, those types of secrets are unislamic and heart breaking and it happens all the time, therefore guys and girls be honesty of who you are at the first place and don’t give up on marriages even if you were victimized that way, Marriage is the only way you can have a healthy sex life, allah said in the Qur’an “ laa taqsuu birahmatilaah= do not give up on god’s mercy it will come even when you can’t imagine it”

HELWAA wrote:Demand to much? what if the guy doesnt know what is best for him and hang out with the wrong crowd and he doesnt want to take any advice from u...and as understanding xalimo you always been patient...never complained to ur family...always been there for him.

Horta aduunkan maxaa qof kasta oo wanaagsan qof xun ku soo hagaajiya?

Waa cajiib walle

helwaa i guess asking your husband to be A HUSBAND is too much demand baryahan. gurigaaga dhaqo, ciyaalkaaga korso, naagtaada lajoog oo lashaqee is apperently too much demand!

If there is something wrong with your partner than there is a great likehood that theres something wrong with you. I don't buy that most decent people end up with qof xun.

not true. how many good women do we see that end up with bad husbands or visa versa. calafku qofkaad rebtid markasta kuumagaynayo.

A lot of these women complaining about their husband behaviour or habits such as qaad are women who have told the government boyfriend ayaa ciyaalka iga dhalaay so that they could get more benefits. I'm not saying everyone does it, its just something that is very common.

no women has ever known to do that without her husbands' consent. how many women did i translate were the women even gives the DSS her husband' phone numer and where abouts, and yet he hides from them. she has no choice to cliam benefit if the her husband is not willing to work or works but not willing to come farward.

As long as she can keep her mouth shut, she will make great wife. Don't talk to me when I'm watching the game and please lasocarar glass ka biyaha.

S-D-M wrote:As long as she can keep her mouth shut, she will make great wife. Don't talk to me when I'm watching the game and please lasocarar glass ka biyaha.

WTF that is like sooooooooooooo lame

zulaika

I thought you leave somalinet??

mahdi01 wrote:Yeah, I do know many unmatched marriages, I am surprised how they met at the first place thou,it seems one of them lied the other one, there are times in my head I said “Oh that girl would have been perfect to be my wife and she didn’t get the right husband” and there was times I said “thanks god that girl is not my wife” only god knows what is best for us

This is what I noticed, certain people both males and females, when they lack the social norms of keeping honesty and respectable stance toward their partners, they start depending on persuasive stories that promise hypothetical things, like I will be good person this time, I will be good wife, I will love you to death, I will never lie you ever, I will never hide any secrets from you, I will I will I will…..

I don’t see the complain if the person knew the habit of their partner before they married, there is no excuse there, but how about to get surprises after you married that was intentionally concealed from you, those types of secrets are unislamic and heart breaking and it happens all the time, therefore guys and girls be honesty of who you are at the first place and don’t give up on marriages even if you were victimized that way, Marriage is the only way you can have a healthy sex life, allah said in the Qur’an “ laa taqsuu birahmatilaah= do not give up on god’s mercy it will come even when you can’t imagine it”

brilliant

mahdi01 wrote:Yeah, I do know many unmatched marriages, I am surprised how they met at the first place thou,it seems one of them lied the other one, there are times in my head I said “Oh that girl would have been perfect to be my wife and she didn’t get the right husband” and there was times I said “thanks god that girl is not my wife” only god knows what is best for us

This is what I noticed, certain people both males and females, when they lack the social norms of keeping honesty and respectable stance toward their partners, they start depending on persuasive stories that promise hypothetical things, like I will be good person this time, I will be good wife, I will love you to death, I will never lie you ever, I will never hide any secrets from you, I will I will I will…..

I don’t see the complain if the person knew the habit of their partner before they married, there is no excuse there, but how about to get surprises after you married that was intentionally concealed from you, those types of secrets are unislamic and heart breaking and it happens all the time, therefore guys and girls be honesty of who you are at the first place and don’t give up on marriages even if you were victimized that way, Marriage is the only way you can have a healthy sex life, allah said in the Qur’an “ laa taqsuu birahmatilaah= do not give up on god’s mercy it will come even when you can’t imagine it”