So, some of you said “if he is not willing to send the money every month she should ask divorce” is that a solution or you just exacerbating it? Which one the Islam gave priority the spouse or the relatives?
First of all $200 or even $1000 that is given to brother inlaw is not a problem, but when it becomes routine every month, and it starts effecting my budget, yes I will raise a question and that will be simply “
we will send to your brother whatever our budget allows for”
You have to remember after all there is no hadith or verse in the Qur’an says you have to give such and such your inlaws every month or year, this is Somali culture thing and even our closest people the Arabs and muslim Africans don’t resort it. It is not gacan adeyg, So adinkana Gabdho bal nimanka u aayara, dhibkii ayaad ka badiseene kii fiicnaa ee shaqeysanaayey ee ilmihiisa iyo reerkiisa dhaqanaayeyna ma waxaa dusha laga saarayaa howl uusan awoodi karin
