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But we are not like Arabs or TurksWarsan_Star_Muslimah wrote:Okay I get you now.
I understand what you mean. Somalis are really truly nomads, even in mentality, they do everything harsh. At the mere sight of anything 'softness' they'll find it disgusting.
I heard frightening stories in Somalia of abuse (Wife beaters, females being abused) Very sad too wallah. Ladies who because of the beating have skin peeled of a side of their face.
) Anyways he took the kid (their son) from her and back to his lands. 
The_Patriot wrote:To tell you the truth both blame is on Farax and Xalimo.
some Farax's are xayawaan. There was this farax in London that brought a lady from the region, this guy was like hitler he restricted her from socialising with other even calling her parents and at times he came home and started smashing utensils and beating the shit out of her and forcing to do things without even proper instructions like "Naya meshan dumarka wey adegan ee push chairka ilamaha kurix oo adheyg doon.. how the F*k could she know what a shop resembles or how pampers look like or differentiate btw dog food and Tuna? ". this continued for long and the tolka saw and did nothing.
then one day as part of his routine he bit the shit out of her and it did spill outside into the verenda as it did happen the neighbours had been witnessing this incident. One neighbour an cadan guy heavily built seeing this guy beating his wife like an animal could not withold himself and he beat the crap out of this Farax and called the police who then came and this guy given a ban on ever visiting the wife's house and not to go within a mile radius.
if you know what i meanWarsan_Star_Muslimah wrote:I know Arabs are violent just because of their musalsal, from the begining of the shows song, it's all fighting, guns, slapping, more slapping with ladies getting it most, ladies hair being pulled, man getting killed, waa wada violence.
Turkish-ka want to enter the EU, so watching their shows you wouldn't think their a violent bunch. Laakinse my mum was telling me of this Somali lady who married a Kurdish/Turkish guy in Saudi Arabia. After the daily beatings and abuse he used to give her, she had enough and went back to her family, I swear to you what he did to hear is so SICK akhas calyek, I don't even know who thinks of such disgusting stuff (but I think you guys will laugh at her
The moral of the story for my mum was don't marry ajnabi.
Dumarka qurbaha jooga farsad bay iska lumiyeen!HELWAA wrote:SALAAM
Dumaro markaad nimankiina is qabsataan plz dont pick up the phone and call the police.
Waad na ceebaysen, waxan dhaqan uma lihin ina nin isaga oo macwistiisi sita aqalkiisi laga jiido.
sharci doon ladies
Markaad diyaarda sida uga soo dagtid ninka runta oo sheeg, inaadan dan iyo muraad toona ka lahayn...inaad just rabaty uun wadankan gaalada ku soo gashid.Waxba poolis ha dalban oo wu i cadaabey oo wuu dilay toona ha oran.
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Kibirleey ladies
Hadii aad ninka heshiin waydaan isaga tag...inaa kolba poolis la isku qaraaco ma wanaagsana.Bal ajnabiga wax is haysta arka oo banaanka la kala jiidayo.walaahi ceebteeni ba badatay.Maalin kasta nin ba maxkamda la saareya uun bad maqalaysa.
what happend to us....maxaa dhaqanki iyo diinti looga tagay iyo xishoodki?
Surrender,surrender wrote: you know i can never imagine myself marrying an arab or black! man!!! so far all i hear is their violent! i know this lady who was our neighbour who told us that her previous husband-an Arab was very violent man. she said the first day aan aqal galnay and he made made clear that he runs the show here. she said i didnt know how serious he was being untill aan todoba baxnay, than i started my normal SOMALI life, i joined hagbad, went to a wedding my friend invited me, visited my friends, and when he find out markaas baan arkay how serious he actually bieng. not only did he beat her up, but took all her bank cards. hagbad? that was out of the question, and forget about weddings and visiting friends, i was literaly locked in the house, except when i followed him like a sheep to the GP or an Affice we had an appointment. basically she was warning us young somali girls to stay the hell away from ajnabi, and from what i have seen, and read honestly somali brothers must be the most liberal minded, easy to get along and the nicest muslim men in the world! we should say alhamulilaaah as somali women at least to that..
My mum is so negative on Somali girls. Gabadha Somalida waa wado cheap, saas ayaka aa is dhiga. NonSomali guys apparently say nagaha somalida waa cheap iyo clean and they don't have a family that runs after them or interfering . If a Somali man asks for their hand they ask for, Gold, money, hall, honeymoon etc If they marry nin non-somali 50 pound iyo xabad tufax is enough. Aniga I just laugh when she goes on one of her 'Somali girls analysing' talks.Warsan_Star_Muslimah wrote:Surrender,
Also my mums favourite, you'll never see your kids again. She also tells us, haasha nin carab mise revert, you can't see your family again, and even if you do his waiting for you 20mins outside, all the cayr money is transferred to him. Life-ka cariir oo naqa.
i was like, brother i dont do rooms i dont do clubs, pubs, lunches and men! and he like so what do you dolol, and im like hi and BYE, goodday. he didnt talk to me ever sinse, he hates me lol i think. wuu ihuruufaa markuu iarko! point to this story is black guys love somali girls, i know that. i've seen that. i dont know why tho! i dont think there is a somali girl in the UK who wasnt hit on by a black guy, but the probem is some of us act really desperate and cheap, and it really pisses me off! few months later he told on of my mates, that girl (as in me) must be one of the most stuck girl i came across, who she think she is, i can get any somali girl i want, i always meet them in the high street, they really lovely and nice. now! i dont know if he's telling the truth or not but have heard stories of cheap/clean somali girls! not good. 
The_Emperior5 wrote:Helwa my cousin got married in hargeisa and he let the woman come over to London she stayed with him for like six months and then she said adeer adiga kumaan iman eeh landan baan kugu imanaye oke but this guy he didn’t give a shit about her policeku uu sheegay ku yidhi naagta ana keenay Somaliland baan ka keenay waan soo guursaday naagtaasii haday is dhiibto kamay iiman xammar eeh wa from hargeisa isma dhiibi karto . imika naagtii maxkamad ba uu socotta they are going to send her back.
Well different strokes for different folks. Plenty of Somali girls like black guys. Plenty of black guys like Somali chickssurrender wrote:Warsan_Star_Muslimah wrote:Surrender,
Also my mums favourite, you'll never see your kids again. She also tells us, haasha nin carab mise revert, you can't see your family again, and even if you do his waiting for you 20mins outside, all the cayr money is transferred to him. Life-ka cariir oo naqa.
your mom got a point you know! some somali girls do realy give us bad name! when i first started uni, there was this black guy from one of them African countries. first day he saw us, (me, another somali girl, a bangoli a white and an indan) he asked us if he can join our group for the presentation, than at the end of the lecture he asked us if we can go to the library with him to get books-he's new to the country, didnt know much about how uni works here, tho he's really smart/clever. anyways we helped with he's books, and few days later we supposed to meet up for group work, after the group work he asked if i could go with him to the lib, i said i cant, and i really couldnt anyway, had a lecture in 10 minutes, needed to pray and get bite to eat before lec. but in the afternoon, i was in the library he came to me and said could you help me with the presentation, i dnt know what to do for my part, im not use to this kind of assement, in Africa things are done differently, i didnt mind, because is the lib, there are people everywhere, but as i was leaving hr later, he said you know i live in campus, you can come to my room, and help me further, i go printer as well, you can print all your work.
cheap and clean girlssurrender wrote:Warsan_Star_Muslimah wrote:Surrender,
Also my mums favourite, you'll never see your kids again. She also tells us, haasha nin carab mise revert, you can't see your family again, and even if you do his waiting for you 20mins outside, all the cayr money is transferred to him. Life-ka cariir oo naqa.
your mom got a point you know! some somali girls do realy give us bad name! when i first started uni, there was this black guy from one of them African countries. first day he saw us, (me, another somali girl, a bangoli a white and an indan) he asked us if he can join our group for the presentation, than at the end of the lecture he asked us if we can go to the library with him to get books-he's new to the country, didnt know much about how uni works here, tho he's really smart/clever. anyways we helped with he's books, and few days later we supposed to meet up for group work, after the group work he asked if i could go with him to the lib, i said i cant, and i really couldnt anyway, had a lecture in 10 minutes, needed to pray and get bite to eat before lec. but in the afternoon, i was in the library he came to me and said could you help me with the presentation, i dnt know what to do for my part, im not use to this kind of assement, in Africa things are done differently, i didnt mind, because is the lib, there are people everywhere, but as i was leaving hr later, he said you know i live in campus, you can come to my room, and help me further, i go printer as well, you can print all your work.
