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ire. wrote:

SahanGalbeed wrote: First ESCAPE

Rule numero uno from my childhood: If hooyo has a suun, you run like the f-ckin' wind.

I remember hiding under my bed and holding my breath

Xamud. wrote:Yeah I second that Shirib, lately she`s been on a waali trip talking about birth controll and moving out

kudos to hooyo for slapping you

shut up

Macaaney_1991 wrote:

ire. wrote:Don't complain; there are some children who are forced to endure REAL abuse.

As much as I am against corporal punishment, a little slap isn't much.

yh yh....still slapping/hitting is not the solution to everything

I agree.

Macaaney_1991 wrote:

Xamud. wrote:Yeah I second that Shirib, lately she`s been on a waali trip talking about birth controll and moving out

kudos to hooyo for slapping you

shut up

Don`t make put you over my leg and spank your booty like it aint no thang macaaney

Enlightened~Sista wrote:

ire. wrote:

SahanGalbeed wrote: First ESCAPE

Rule numero uno from my childhood: If hooyo has a suun, you run like the f-ckin' wind.

I remember hiding under my bed and holding my breath

I'd run straight out of the house.

She'd always end up catching me, though. Hooyo played basketball when she was younger.

ire. wrote:
I'd run straight out of the house.

She'd always end up catching me, though. Hooyo played basketball when she was younger.

lool my mom couldn't catch me cuz she could never run up the stairs faster than me before i locked myself in the bathroom
but hey my mom use to play basketball when she was younger in soomaalia too

SahanGalbeed wrote:I know people live in tight quarters and in small family units here in the West .
When I was a kid my mother would have to catch me FIRST before she could beat me up .
My startegy was very simple and very effective .
First ESCAPE then get somebody to speak on your behalf , aunt , uncle , sister , brother .

my mother is very short tempered. i let her have her way ,
wallah wan ka ilaliya iney e arooto intan karo, but she just gets mad at little things and i let her throw things on my way.
i just hide my face.lol

^^^^^^
Your mom never used the dacas? mine would trow the dacas after me if she couldent catch me and she would get me 99% of the time....once I was running away from her and she threw a big azz fargeyto after me and hit me in the head and I hit the floor ...knock out wallahi

I dont even remember the last time hooyodey i dishey. Mustve been primary school days...I never do anything that makes my mother that angry.

lol xamud, she just throws cell phone, book ,napkin box
any thing around her. mostly she gets upset because i always forget to pick up my siblings from school.lol

nomadicwarlord wrote:You should have turned the other cheek like Jesus.

Macaaney_1991 wrote:across the face It's effing embarassing

anyways do u got spankings as a child? and do you still get them...

Yes, at one point and time, everything at sight ayaa lagu xoori jirey throughout my teen yrs.
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Here's the catch, whenever parents do discipline you with beatings it's mainly waxaad ogtahay.

Salaamad, some people dadka jar bey ka si tuuran

Macaaney, Abaayo your mother is your mother- she can shout at you, beat you up, threaten you and yet again all she wants for you -is... nothing but the most excellent in this life and the hereafter!
Sis, best advice I can give you is don’t ever argue back with your mother. I realise this is always easier said than done except it’s really achievable. Despite the fact that she is telling you off, you should always attempt to soothe her... i.e. take her right hand and place it in between both of your hands, look down at all times... And don’t let pride ever get in between you and your waliid, learn how to say sorry/raali ahow more often.

Most importantly abaayo people are all prone to make mistakes including our parents as a result there are times we are wrongfully accused. Yet you must also remember that there is no smoke without fire! Something is triggering her off and whether that ‘something’ is something that you do consciously or unconsciously, intentionally or unintentionally you need to reflect and win her trust back essentially also remember your Hooyo owns you and your life (I seriously mean this) and she wants nothing but the best for you therefore you should give her. nothing but the best of you.

Umi Umi ma axlaaha, Abadan Abadan ma ansaaha...

There is reason your mom doesn't trust you. If you were straight, prayed regularly, never went anywhere she wasn't aware of, she knew you had good friends, she would never question you about the few times you are late. There is something f-king wrong with you, you need to shape up before you complain about the woman who had given birth to you laying her life on the line in doing so. f-king kids these days, waa useless.

You complainin' about a slap? Allah tan yaa ayeeydey u dhiiba