A Girl's reputation!

[ms.naliaa]

lol thats not true...
given that somali boys sleep with everything (no offence)...you are more likley to know someone who has...esp if its one of those girls that are 'into somali boys'

Not true I wouldn't sleep with a lot of women and what do you mean by those into 'somaliboys?

Good for you.

I meant there are some femalse (who are not somali) that like to date somali guys for some reason or other.....

[Abdi_westldn]

lool I know a few matter of fact why do you assume its sexual maybe just maybe they like us for who we are.

[yunis09]

leila people always look at ur reputation and the angels and god look at ur character... but remember ur character is what sets ur reputation...

But as a woman society judges my reputation according to my sexuality unlike men. Not whether i am honest, kind, generous, forgiving.

true people see those things a weak nowa days but i found out being humble, modest stops you doing alot of things....

[ire.]

I think there's more to a girl than whether her hymen's intact.

Feel free to label me a deluded, liberal b-tch.~

[ms.naliaa]

lool I know a few matter of fact why do you assume its sexual maybe just maybe they like us for who we are.

lol (no offence) but somali guys (most) dont really date non-somali girls for their intellect

[peace-]

a girl reputation is her greatest assert and if she can even maintain that then she is not worth anything

[AbdiWahab252]

Militant,

A woman's reputation is everything. If she has a bad one, it will bring dishonor and shame to you. This is why there is a difference between the woman you date to date and the one you wifey.

Wifey material = well mannered, good in her diin, lives with her family, and has good self respect for herself and her honor


Girlfriend material = no requirements except she be good looking, and fulfills your carnal desires


What kind of Farax would want to marry a woman whose business is all over town ? No matter how much she repents, its not going to pass muster with your female relatives who will do a more thorough background check than the FBI.

[AbdiWahab252]

lool I know a few matter of fact why do you assume its sexual maybe just maybe they like us for who we are.

lol (no offence) but somali guys (most) dont really date non-somali girls for their intellect

NAlia,

We date them because they don't annoy Farax with 24/7 discussions of settling down At the end of the day, white girl is going to end up with a white fellow from a similar societal background, buy a splendid house in the suburbs, become a soccer mom and if you are lucky, you might get an invite to the wedding.

[Crazy Cat Lady]

Militant,

A woman's reputation is everything. If she has a bad one, it will bring dishonor and shame to you. This is why there is a difference between the woman you date to date and the one you wifey.

Wifey material = well mannered, good in her diin, lives with her family, and has good self respect for herself and her honor


Girlfriend material = no requirements except she be good looking, and fulfills your carnal desires


What kind of Farax would want to marry a woman whose business is all over town ? No matter how much she repents, its not going to pass muster with your female relatives who will do a more thorough background check than the FBI.

Dont you care about your reputation?, someone who you describe as 'wifey material' would never marry a male sharmuuto

[Abdi_westldn]

lool I know a few matter of fact why do you assume its sexual maybe just maybe they like us for who we are.

lol (no offence) but somali guys (most) dont really date non-somali girls for their intellect

Uhuh just like you to go and generalize. Well theres two faults in your comment 1. your assuming all somali girls don't sleep around so a somali man would need to look out which is just wrong and 2. That foreign women have nothing to offer a somali man. And let me tell you on both accounts your wrong my dearest of friends foreign girls can be a lot of things.

[AbdiWahab252]

Crazy,

She will.

Trust me even the most picky chick has a biological clock ticking away.

I may not be the most attractive Farax when you are 21 but hey I become Denzel when you are 28, single and desperate.

[Militant]

I think there's more to a girl than whether her hymen's intact.

Feel free to label me a deluded, liberal b-tch.~

I was talking about how society will view her.

Her aspirations, achievements, ambitions, etc are not in question here. You can't quel age-old beliefs at the snap of your fingers. And considering we come from one of the most ignorant communities out there, its easier for people to dwell over the state of a girl's hyment than it is over anything else she does for herself. This is why girls must take all the necessary cautionary steps to secure their reputation and not get all washed up in Western values.

[Leila25]

I think there's more to a girl than whether her hymen's intact.

Feel free to label me a deluded, liberal b-tch.~

Now with hymenoplasty and fake hymens on sale which squirt blood, a woman can always opt to get her hymen intact, it doesnt have to be natural. Honestly women do not care about hymens or virginity, it is men who want to control women's bodies and thus feel good about themselves.

[ms.naliaa]

lool I know a few matter of fact why do you assume its sexual maybe just maybe they like us for who we are.

lol (no offence) but somali guys (most) dont really date non-somali girls for their intellect

NAlia,

We date them because they don't annoy Farax with 24/7 discussions of settling down At the end of the day, white girl is going to end up with a white fellow from a similar societal background, buy a splendid house in the suburbs, become a soccer mom and if you are lucky, you might get an invite to the wedding.[/quot]

lol speaking from exprience boo?

[Crazy Cat Lady]

Crazy,

She will.

Trust me even the most picky chick has a biological clock ticking away.

I may not be the most attractive Farax when you are 21 but hey I become Denzel when you are 28, single and desperate.

When a wadaad chick is desperate she heads to the nearest salafi mosque to pick up her revert hubby, she doesn't say yes to the first male love farax that promises her babies