I want to divorce him!!!

[Mad May]

Would you as a woman support a law that permits you unilaterally be able to divorce your husband without his consent and approval?

You can put that into your contract, if you had any sense you would

Many misunderstand the purpose of the contract. Its purpose is the write down the dowry only. Many girls suggest that they put into their contract that her future husband will not marry other woman while they are married How can someone forbid what allah made xalaal that's beyond me walle

She can do this, its obviously haram to outlaw the practice, but a woman can tell her future hubby that if he tries that, she's divorcing him.

With regard to the woman stipulating that the husband should not take a second wife, the opinion of some scholars is that this condition is permissible, and if the husband breaks it, the wife has the right to annul the marriage and take her dues in full.
Ibn Qudaamah (may Allah have mercy on him) said:

If he stipulates that he will not take her out of her house or her city, or that he will not travel with her or will not take another wife, then he is obliged to fulfil that, and if he does not do so, then she has the right to annul the marriage. This was narrated from ‘Umar, Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqaas and ‘Amr ibn al-‘Aas (may Allah be pleased with them).

You men are so funny wallahi
Any part of the religion that curbs your benefits is suspect

[Mad May]

assumptions are haram, your not a woman living in Saudi Arabia; you don't know if the women of Saudi Arabia are opressed and i don't either so lets not throw accusations as such around so lightly (don't tell me about what the western media has fed you)

now, if the there is a case such as the one you described then she can still get a divorce; Islam allows that and Muslim women have rights

I've been to SA, have family there, know Saudi's, I know its not like those princess books (To kill a princess?), but I know its not somewhere I'd live as a woman.

[1nemansquad]

I've been to SA, have family there, know Saudi's, I know its not like those princess books (To kill a princess?), but I know its not somewhere I'd live as a woman.

how much respect do you have for the laws of Islam? am not asking you who implements that law, am only asking you the law it self; how much respect do you have for it? and is there any aspects of it that you disagree with?

[abdalla11]

Would you as a woman support a law that permits you unilaterally be able to divorce your husband without his consent and approval?

You can put that into your contract, if you had any sense you would

Many misunderstand the purpose of the contract. Its purpose is the write down the dowry only. Many girls suggest that they put into their contract that her future husband will not marry other woman while they are married How can someone forbid what allah made xalaal that's beyond me walle

She can do this, its obviously haram to outlaw the practice, but a woman can tell her future hubby that if he tries that, she's divorcing him.

With regard to the woman stipulating that the husband should not take a second wife, the opinion of some scholars is that this condition is permissible, and if the husband breaks it, the wife has the right to annul the marriage and take her dues in full.
Ibn Qudaamah (may Allah have mercy on him) said:

If he stipulates that he will not take her out of her house or her city, or that he will not travel with her or will not take another wife, then he is obliged to fulfil that, and if he does not do so, then she has the right to annul the marriage. This was narrated from ‘Umar, Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqaas and ‘Amr ibn al-‘Aas (may Allah be pleased with them).

You men are so funny wallahi
Any part of the religion that curbs your benefits is suspect [/quote]

I didn't know that there was a difference of opinion about that. All i know is that you can't forbid what Allah made Xalaal, look at the story of our prophet when he said 'i will never drink honey anymore' Allah rebuked him for that, because if was xalaal for him to drink honey. Lakiin i will ask a shaykh about the contract

[Mad May]

I've been to SA, have family there, know Saudi's, I know its not like those princess books (To kill a princess?), but I know its not somewhere I'd live as a woman.

how much respect do you have for the laws of Islam? am not asking you who implements that law, am only asking you the law it self; how much respect do you have for it? and is there any aspects of it that you disagree with?

Big questions
I have a lot of respect for Shariah, I get angry when it is interpreted in a cynical manner, thats all.
Abdalla, who's forbidding it? Marry as much women as you like, just dont expect to stay married to a woman who doesn't like to share

[abdalla11]

I've been to SA, have family there, know Saudi's, I know its not like those princess books (To kill a princess?), but I know its not somewhere I'd live as a woman.

how much respect do you have for the laws of Islam? am not asking you who implements that law, am only asking you the law it self; how much respect do you have for it? and is there any aspects of it that you disagree with?

She says that stoning to death isn't islamic, she has the same view as dr yalaxow i.e not not accepting some ahadeeth, it's pointless walle

Madmay, if a woman says don't marry another or i will leave you, then she is forbidding it.

[Mad May]

I've been to SA, have family there, know Saudi's, I know its not like those princess books (To kill a princess?), but I know its not somewhere I'd live as a woman.

how much respect do you have for the laws of Islam? am not asking you who implements that law, am only asking you the law it self; how much respect do you have for it? and is there any aspects of it that you disagree with?

She says that stoning to death isn't islamic, she has the same view as dr yalaxow i.e not not accepting some ahadeeth, it's pointless walle

Madmay, if a woman says don't marry another or i will leave you, then she is forbidding it.

But this is prior to marriage, telling each other what they wont put up with, if he understands this and then says f.ck you I'll marry a more laidback woman, whats the beef?
The stoning thing, I'm sceptical about, there's debate here.

[zulaika]

Would you as a woman support a law that permits you unilaterally be able to divorce your husband without his consent and approval?

um don't we already have that? waxaan maqley naag baa ninkeedi iska fasaqdey.. yep you can divorce him huuno if it comes to that...u can leave.

if he don't measure up to his duties...you can walk....if you don't like the way he looks, you can walk..etc etc etc.

[abdalla11]

Waa yahay, you don't get the point

As for the stoning to death, you can't be 'sceptical' about it after the evidence has reached you, you either accept it or you don't, the islam doesn't have 'fifty-fifty'. As muslims we are supposed to submit to the rules of Allaah ( the rules mentioned in the qur'aan) and the rules of his Prophet ( that are mentioned in the ahadeeth), it is easy as that

[ModerateMuslim]

honestly, this is ridiculous. feminism has ruined somali women (not that were anything good to begin with). now they are even rebelling against something as basic as no divorce without a reason... whats next? women can marry multiple men, more than one? subhanallah, may allah keep us on the firm path....

[Navy9]

In Somalia, long time ago a women could seek divorce on one condition and she had to prove it. That case was erectile dysfunction lol, two aged male relatives from the husband side would come to the house and ask both of them to undress and do the deed, if the husband did not meet the expectation. It was an automatic divorce.

[Siciid85]

Would you as a woman support a law that permits you unilaterally be able to divorce your husband without his consent and approval?

You already can in the Islamic sharica.

[Navy9]

Would you as a woman support a law that permits you unilaterally be able to divorce your husband without his consent and approval?

You already can in the Islamic sharica.

Only few women practice that right when writing down the marriage contract, the majority do not know that and in most cases as the norm is men are automatically given the right of divorce!!

[HELWAA]

Navy

Oo maleen maayo inu nin iskuka dhadhajinayo hadaad tiraahdid ifur...Marba hadi la is naco ma hadal baaba mesha yaala. Intey ceebtiinu banaanka imaan lahayd si sharaf leh ina lagu kala tago wax ka wanaagsan ma jiran.

Sheeko xun ba bari magaaldeyda ka dhcadey..the wife asked for divorce and the guy refused so her family got involved and they asked her the reason why she want leave her husband...waxay ku tidhi ninkan waxba mesha kuma hayo ee ha iskakey fasaxo....walaahi ninki naxdinti he ended in a mental hospital...he could't handel the truth about his tiny thing..subxanallah.. ...damn the whole town still talk about him.Ilaahy ceebteyda astur.

[Narcissistic]

Isn't it always up to the husband to declare the divorce....?