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military-mind wrote:His name is CAWIL so why the fuck my son keeps calling him AABO

Because Cawil is hitting his hooyo and takes the time to be a father to your son.

Zabah,

Seeing, dating? These are some nigga shit but marriage is different. If she’s married to dude, which she should, and the kid lives with them, why not if they have that type of relationship?
I would rather have him called the guy ADEER. If I had my way of course.

Dhaga Bacayl wrote:Zabah,

Seeing, dating? These are some nigga shit but marriage is different. If she’s married to dude, which she should, and the kid lives with them, why not if they have that type of relationship?
I would rather have him called the guy ADEER. If I had my way of course.

Dhaga,

Why Adeer and not Abti ?

Again, always take your children when a divorce hits especially your sons.

AbdiWahab252 wrote:

Dhaga Bacayl wrote:Zabah,

Seeing, dating? These are some nigga shit but marriage is different. If she’s married to dude, which she should, and the kid lives with them, why not if they have that type of relationship?
I would rather have him called the guy ADEER. If I had my way of course.

Dhaga,

Why Adeer and not Abti ?

Again, always take your children when a divorce hits especially your sons.

Either one, just not dad...

The best way forward is to spend lots of times with your daughter or son , that will create a healthy and a strong relationship with her father or his father. But if u hardly see ur kid I can understand that he or her will need a father role in their live, But you just got to be there. If you and her got divorced and she got a new man fine but make sure u have a new wife 2 a nice house a real home , a place were the kids can call home I am going to aabo and edo sounds good. Instead of I am just going to aaboo.

Dhaga,

What about wives who call their hubbies: Aabo or Adeer (literally, he is their dad's 2nd cousin )

Abdi, if thats the case then he should call the D.S.S Aabo

MM,

Ask for custody now saxiib.

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Dhaga,

What about wives who call their hubbies: Aabo or Adeer (literally, he is their dad's 2nd cousin )

Call me dady in the heat of the moment kinda thing?

What about your mothers first cousin? Walaahi there is this guy I know who is married to his mother's first cousin. I mean there fathers are brothers.....imagine doing your habo? How did he start it the first night? WTF.

^ waxas wa fcked up

kid will only call another fella dad if your not around, therefore you cant complain.

My thoughts.... Not conclusive, but indicative...

The father/dad should be man enough to take the responsibility of having children onto his shoulders, whether they are his natural children or not.

When a man enters a relationship where children are already present he must understand that he is entering a family relationship which may and should if possible involve the children's natural father, and not a relationship as a couple.

He should not enter the ''family'' to replace the natural father but should build his own relationship and bond with the children in his own way and support the children in seeing there natural father and not see him as ''competition'' as some do.

Instead of just being a donor to another's life, commit to taking the time to know your child and let them get to know you no matter what the conditions.

With this in mind, you will be doing the most important job of your life and that is helping the life you created become a loving, well adjusted person who can pass these parenting traits down to the next generation.

After all, isn't that what being a dad is all about?

The_Emperior5 wrote:The best way forward is to spend lots of times with your daughter or son , that will create a healthy and a strong relationship with her father or his father. But if u hardly see ur kid I can understand that he or her will need a father role in their live, But you just got to be there. If you and her got divorced and she got a new man fine but make sure u have a new wife 2 a nice house a real home , a place were the kids can call home I am going to aabo and edo sounds good. Instead of I am just going to aaboo.

You forgot one thing...how ur new wife will treat ur kids....ma waxad oo malaynaysa inay gacmo furan ku soo dhaween doonto ...aayada ayaa aduunka ugu xun!

Helwaa u got issues walle

wouldnt U be nice to let say a man u married with kids ... adiga would u be evil towards them