Would You Let your Wife Do this

[GacanSareeye]

The consensus i am getting here is that its okay for a woman to work in a lone office with completely male occupants. and i am the only one who sees something wrong with this, or that i am even insecure, gotcha ya

if i am the only one who believes that i got alot of catching up to do

[ms.naliaa]

I dont see what the big deal is.

Shes working in an office.

He's worried she'll get carried away and photocopy her jilbaab in the office Christmas party.

lol if you cant beat em...join em!

[Paddington Bear]

The consensus i am getting here is that its okay for a woman to work in a lone office with completely male occupants. and i am the only one who sees something wrong with this, or that i am even insecure, gotcha ya

if i am the only one who believes that i got alot of catching up to do

She can work in an all women office and still get hit on by the security guard or the bus driver on her way to work. The number of men around her is not that important. The fact she is the only woman is also not that important. What you really need to be asking yourself is; should women be allowed to leave the house?

P.S.
I am male, my friend. I can provide several female witnesses who will vouch for me.

[GacanSareeye]

Gacan Sareeya,

Now you are making fun of us...

What environment are we talking here? Everyone is sitting on his desk in his office..Dadku ma dushey iska fuulayaan...

Or is there some insecurity issue here? You don't have an office job right?

Balaayo anagaa aragnay...

kambuli, i am going to pursue here, but i believe in you. i believe you possess the uncanny ability to reason, which is rare in these days, plus your long live, which is always handy.

Kambuli, the work enviroment. i am not talking about a multicultural office, or an office that is currently helping welfare recipients, or for that matter a busy office. i am talking about an off-shoot small firm that is very internal that deals or prepares reports and cases. i am just not sure if any muslim woman would be secure, in its broad definitions, in that insular enviroment. its just my take or i am more old school than yourself

[ms.naliaa]

The consensus i am getting here is that its okay for a woman to work in a lone office with completely male occupants. and i am the only one who sees something wrong with this, or that i am even insecure, gotcha ya

if i am the only one who believes that i got alot of catching up to do

She can work in an all women office and still get hit on by the security guard or the bus driver on her way to work. The number of men around her is not that important. The fact she is the only woman is also not that important. What you really need to be asking yourself is; should women be allowed to leave the house?

P.S.
I am male, my friend. I can provide several female witnesses who will vouch for me.

Saqajan

[GacanSareeye]

P. Bear i dont even care if she works in a big furniture office, factory, chicken or turkey kabaab, i am saying with the rate of infidility in America, combined with our religious obligations is that the right enviroment for that particular sister. I am not talking about woman rights and work and so on. trust me, i am only interested in woman that can get up and get going, i would never date or even look at those soap opera or Nollywood/Bollywood types that are watching and setting all day. that is one reason i love america, the freedom to intermingle, but sometimes even the player is gotta ask the tough questions

[ms.naliaa]

P. Bear i dont even care if she works in a big furniture office, factory, chicken or turkey kabaab, i am saying with the rate of infidility in America, combined with our religious obligations is that the right enviroment for that particular sister. I am not talking about woman rights and work and so on. trust me, i am only interested in woman that can get up and get going, i would never date or even look at those soap opera or Nollywood/Bollywood types that are watching and setting all day. that is one reason i love america, the freedom to intermingle, but sometimes even the player is gotta ask the tough questions

A woman will never cheat on her man unless he gives her a reason to. As long as you pa attention to her and give her all that range she needs in the relationship...she'll stay loyal. Unliek men-women are emotional and if any cheating is going to happen its going to be because theres a communication breakdown in your marriage.

Now if you start freaking out about her work and try to contraint her...she will be outa there.

[GacanSareeye]

ms.naliaa i loved that you used 'range' out of many words and dont ask what came to my mind

thanks for the input. that is all i am looking for; answers to pending questions. i am not worried about cheating, but you also dont want to facilitate it, and that is my biggest concern with this particular scenerio.

[ms.naliaa]

ms.naliaa i loved that you used 'range' out of many words and dont ask what came to my mind

thanks for the input. that is all i am looking for; answers to pending questions. i am not worried about cheating, but you also dont want to facilitate it, and that is my biggest concern with this particular scenerio.

Im sure I can muster up an idea.
She wont cheat-if your a good man...she wont. Trust me on that one.

[GacanSareeye]

i will tell the hypothetical to believe that

[Paddington Bear]

Gacan,
The real worry you should have is when your woman starts talking about you to these other five men. If she badmouths you, you're going to have five men laughing at the joke of a man that you are. If she praises you, you'll have five men cursing you and telling each other how sick they become at the mere mention of your name. It's a fact of life that whilst women are not too fond of cheating they most certainly are fond of TALKING about themselves and their lives.

(Break her legs. It's the safer option).

[GacanSareeye]

P. Bear you cant break the legs of someone who brings 70% of the income

[kambuli]

Gacan,

Waad nagu ciyaareysaa sow maaha

Nothing is wrong working with men Even if she has to go to the moon as the only female astrounat. I personally prefer to work with men...I have worked in small groups, I work now in bigger groups..Nothing have changed...I am who I am and I will be who I am...

So my honest advice for you is:

Gabadhaa iska fur intey goori goor tahay..Waayo waxaa kaa muuqda Masayrow inaad tahay...Masayrowguna waa khatar...Mid aan albaabka ka bixin oo maxajabad ah soo guurso..Not that I can give you a warranty that this Maxajabad won't do a bad stuff if she lacks morals..

[Paddington Bear]

Kambuli,
remind me never to ask for your advice if I have had marriage problems. Iska fur bad i odhan.

[GacanSareeye]

Kambuli, this is not me, really, its my ideas which could be construed as being me, but it is not.


Kambuli, waxaan leeyahay marka runta la fiiriyo waa arin diini ah, you dont have to agree with it, but its out there. islaamka waad ogtahay in uusan ogaleyn gabadha in ey baxdo muxram la'aan, why is that, what is the purpose behind it, why cant she travel all alone and hang around, and have fun. why is hijab prescribed, why not just wear jeans and so on. all i am saying is those same things could be applied to this situation, and it would be the same ruling. another good one is not allowing woman to stay in a room with man alone. so i am not talking about anything new, i tend to me more liberal than that, and dont mind alot of stuff.

Kambuli, xikmadaadii ma waxay noqotay gabar ku fur maxaa yeelay waxay ku wiidiisay in ey meel saas ah ka shaqeyn karto iyo in kale, wale in aan wax danbe ku wiidiin, hyper baad isku caqli noqoteen