I have a question for the forum..

[qoraxeey]

To cut a long story short, ditch the husband. Marry the friend.

[Ayeeyo Xilwa]

Male friend ? never had one

[BlackVelvet]

Iida how close could you possibly be to a man you are not related to Asking for trouble imo

To answer the question, hypothetically, I'd tell him to go screw himself, I don't like ultimatums in personal issues.

[HaileyBailey]

A major component in marriage is TRUST, the ability to trust your husband/wife. I personally don't believe that men and women can be just "friends", a man is always looking to for something more, it's just the way men are. However, you can't have your husband dictating who your friends are, this is supposed to be after all a relationship of mutual respect and trust.

[Yareey]

To cut a long story short, ditch the husband. Marry the friend.

[1-Londoner]

I don't know I neither have wife or friends . !

Ah, that explains it.

[Madaxweyne]

never dump your old male fiends walalo. You still don't know if one them will be your nexr husband or boyfriend. Follow your heart ina adeer and don't listen what these dudes are saying. Good luck

[Samatr]

Just a hypothetical question, would you dump your childhood friend who happens to be a male because your husband/boyfriend doesn't feel comfortable with you having male friends period and gives you an ultimatum, either the friend or him, maxad sameen laheed in this situation?

rag iyo dhumarku saaxibo ma noqon karaan, and if does happen the male is either a clown (most don't know they are until it's too late) or they are gay.
there's always an ulterior motive.

Suppose the friendship is strictly platonic, there is no attraction or anything of that sort, and let's assume he is not gay or there is no an ulterior motive, what if that is the case.

That's not a possibility, ask any guy here if he has a girl as a friend not to be mistaken with a girlfriend
they will tell you ma nacas baan ku la egahay?

[kambuli]

Maya

[SummerRain]

Male "friend" vs my HUSBAND...mmmm I wanna go to Jannah so screw the "friend". Besides any services I'm bound to receive from him can easily be attained from the hubby.

[Murax]

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That's not a possibility, ask any guy here if he has a girl as a friend not to be mistaken with a girlfriend
they will tell you ma nacas baan ku la egahay?

You're damn right. No offense but most of the "male friends" I've seen as girls have many feminine attributes.