Difficult to find Mr. Right?

[surrender]

Both girls & boys need to get out and about more and socialise with all sections of their community..Parents should also stop believing in this 'sharaf only if you stay at home' thing....they are hindering and holding back their daughters.

see there are countries/communities who have tried that. and what they got out of it? teenage pregnancy, single mothers and male wh0res. we are Muslim we dont need to socialise with the opposite sex because that will create fitnah.

what we need is quite simple really: ban qat, more guys into education, girls need to be realistic, the mr right they looking for only exist in tv, and we need to bring back bit of our old culture.

[Firefly]

Later on realising their endeavours have been all for nothing when they realise their biological clock has malfunctioned and they have been overlooked for promotion.

Education is never all for nothing. I find it ironic how it's usually Muslim men who deny women education when Islam teaches us (both men and women) to seek knowledge from the cradle to the grave. A woman's education is very important because she's raising the next generation. As the proverb goes: "Educate a man and you educate an individual. Educate a woman and you educate a whole nation."

Also, in today's technological world women can even access courses from the comfort of their own home. Why not? Some women even run businesses from their own home.

[Siciid85]

Not gonna lie somali women exceed me in education, career etc, which for most farahs is intimidating. Most guys from my experience want a yes wife, someone that challenges littles and does as she is told.

Lol typo I meant somali women exceed men, not me in particular

[*Nobleman*]

Both girls & boys need to get out and about more and socialise with all sections of their community..Parents should also stop believing in this 'sharaf only if you stay at home' thing....they are hindering and holding back their daughters.

see there are countries/communities who have tried that. and what they got out of it? teenage pregnancy, single mothers and male wh0res. we are Muslim we dont need to socialise with the opposite sex because that will create fitnah.

what we need is quite simple really: ban qat, more guys into education, girls need to be realistic, the mr right they looking for only exist in tv, and we need to bring back bit of our old culture.

Later on realising their endeavours have been all for nothing when they realise their biological clock has malfunctioned and they have been overlooked for promotion.

Education is never all for nothing. I find it ironic how it's usually Muslim men who deny women education when Islam teaches us (both men and women) to seek knowledge from the cradle to the grave. A woman's education is very important because she's raising the next generation. As the proverb goes: "Educate a man and you educate an individual. Educate a woman and you educate a whole nation."

Also, in today's technological world women can even access courses from the comfort of their own home. Why not? Some women even run businesses from their own home.

Couldnt agree more

[marcassmith]

Nobleman - Lets not resort to childish games of deleting my posts!

[Leila25]

If you equate education with a job then you are narrow minded.

[snoop12]

This is so true I know quite a few Somali women who are professionals and at the age of marriage but they just can't see any Somali guys they'd be interested in marrying. They then work harder for their careers, become more qualified and that apparently intimidates the few Somali men they do meet

Ah the cycle is vicious. I stick by my prediction that most of these girls are going to marry non Somalis with similar qualifications and form the Bristish Somali middle class. Nothing wrong with that, why they keep resisting Ilahaa og.

i think you should marry a White person, so there is a clear distinction between the rest of us and your offspring. we do not need Ayan Hirsi and "whats the others name ?" type, breeding the next generation of self hating somali-muslims with unethical feminism. atleast if you marry a whity we can say " its because he/she is half white " Lol


to the rest of decent Somali women who find it hard to catch a Farax on their level, my advice is look at the right places and give it time, also being ready for compromising is a realistic way of approaching a guy. rather marry a high school dropout who works as a bus driver, than a Gaal who earns more than the prime minister.

we need more conservative Somali families.

[The_Patriot]

Both girls & boys need to get out and about more and socialise with all sections of their community..Parents should also stop believing in this 'sharaf only if you stay at home' thing....they are hindering and holding back their daughters.

see there are countries/communities who have tried that. and what they got out of it? teenage pregnancy, single mothers and male wh0res. we are Muslim we dont need to socialise with the opposite sex because that will create fitnah.

what we need is quite simple really: ban qat, more guys into education, girls need to be realistic, the mr right they looking for only exist in tv, and we need to bring back bit of our old culture.

Boqoradh

[yunis09]

and when they do find mr right...they place 20k price tag on his head for one night event...walle women are the same whether educated or wadaad or ur typical xaliimo it all depends on the guy's willings to handle it.

[Ayeeyo Xilwa]

It has nothing to do with finding MR RIGHT but everything is qadar..waqtigi ilaahy ku qorey
uun bad guursan, hadi aad guursan waynidna waa amar alle...EVERYTHING IS WRITTEN, END OF D.

You can only say that if you have tried every avenue.You can't say it's Qadar Alle if you just seclude your self from society and potential husbands and make little or no effort.

Why try when ur destiny is already decided by Allah swt...ur whole life is already written..just put ur trust in Allah and hope for the best.

[grandpakhalif]

Educated faraaxs prefer women who are educated in deen and domestic engineering, I know most of em pick em up from the masjid or back home

[FAH1223]

No, I think somalis have a major social problems , somalis always complain about their girls marryig non-somalis but there is no where somali xijab girls can meet a like minded somali of her peers.

Every other community has social single communiy clubs where even the parents go with their childern to socializ with their own age from the opposit sex.

We have 90% of somali males not been able to meet a decent somali girl other then gaalo club of a dirty Ruwaayad. We have all the young ripe somali girls locked behind doors and well fed with all those calories from rich diet of bariis and basto unburned.

The old Shukaansi of somalia where the girl some how after months of scerecy and during her eveing trips to the market fetching sugar and gas for lambs brings a guy to her dad is over.

[Hyperactive]

No, I think somalis have a major social problems , somalis always complain about their girls marryig non-somalis but there is no where somali xijab girls can meet a like minded somali of her peers.

Every other community has social single communiy clubs where even the parents go with their childern to socializ with their own age from the opposit sex.

We have 90% of somali males not been able to meet a decent somali girl other then gaalo club of a dirty Ruwaayad. We have all the young ripe somali girls locked behind doors and well fed with all those calories from rich diet of bariis and basto unburned.

The old Shukaansi of somalia where the girl some how after months of scerecy and during her eveing trips to the market fetching sugar and gas for lambs brings a guy to her dad is over.

very good idea. also father,s should be proactive and look decent single guys for their daughter and ask them if they looking for a decent wivies and interduce to their daughters.

[54321]

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[*zabah]

these women are mostly delusional, There is No such thing as Mr.Right, they just need to find someone they can trust, enjoy spending time with, and have similar interests with, it's all about compromising......

for those of you, who like to stick to rose tinted daydreams,perhaps facing reality maybe your best bet.