sex is a commodity protected by rule of law

[Lord Diplock]

Somali men are actually very scared of women's empowerment, as it is evident to this day they are still advocates of FGM. And will find any text to proof it is "halal" when it isn't.


Is it low self-esteem or something else?

You and Somali men? what do you have against us?

No rationale Somali man would advocate FGM and all that crap, it is old ladies who do it mainly. lol@ low self-esteem? why? if you don't like Somali men, it is your problem. Let me play the world's smallest violin for you.

[Alluring]

No where did it ever say I do not like Somali men. That is all I prefer, I am stating cold hard facts.

Ask any man here if they advocate FGM and they do. There is no Somali man who wants to have a daughter, I bet for Ramadan most of their prayers consisted of "please no daughters ALLAH (SWT) I do not want her to be born in a western society, amiin"

[Voltage]

Horta I don't think Men rape out of sexual pleasure. I mean How can a Man possibly enjoy Himself with a girl kicking, screaming, crying etc.


The only Guy who wouldn't mind all that, has to be someone who is pretty cold/wicked inside to begin with and just doesn't give a damn what the girl is going through.

That is why they are called rapists.

[Lord Diplock]

No where did it ever say I do not like Somali men. That is all I prefer, I am stating cold hard facts.

Ask any man here if they advocate FGM and they do. There is no Somali man who wants to have a daughter, I bet for Ramadan most of their prayers consisted of "please no daughters ALLAH (SWT) I do not want her to be born in a western society, amiin"

Alluring, I don't most men make such a dua

FGM is disgusting practise and should be banned everywhere.

[xoogSADE14]

Alluring

Maybe you know more about me than I do but as I know now, I have nothing but love for Somali women. I don't support FGM as it is unislamic, I don't support forced arranged marriages or hold boys above girls.

Now did I write all that just to get a cyber pat on the back from you?

It is true that rasing a daughter in the west comes with a particular set of challenges compared with boys but that doesn't mean that it can't be done as thousands of Somali parents do it everyday. And the proof is that there are more Somali females in colleges and universities than somali males.

[Ina-Geel_Wase]

I have fantasies about being gang raped or to just be raped all night by Somnets female members.

[HalfDzed]

Alluring,

Stop with the simplistic over-generalizations. Most men find FGM repulsive and out-dated. Not to mention all the other accusations you're pulling out of your purse. Insecure men who are either uneducated, poor or under-achievers fear womens advancements. At the end of the day, it all comes down to education or lack of it. Ignorance is what plagues our people and that's why you see many distasteful things like the ones you mention, plus a culture of impugnity and encouraging ignorant traditions.

[Voltage]

If your woman doesn't want to have sex with you, it's either because she can't do it or she doesn't want to do it. If she can't do it, that's a valid reason but she doesn't want to do it, I firmly believe the guy should level the blame on himself. Women are lustful licentious creatures which is why they get puberty before we do, can get multiple orgasms and still keep going on, and are even encouraged to get them to marry young as a deterrent. If your wife doesn't want to have sex with you, why take the anger out on her and force when you just aint pleasing her right?

[Murax]

Xoogsade/Lord Diplock,


Dee what I meant is, its amazing how the Guy can block out all the chaos, and just focus on the sex and eventually climax. I mean dude, isn't even thinking about Her going to the police or anything like that?

Alluring,

You're wrong on this. Most Somali Men (In the West), I meet are against FGM and would never even want to marry a girl who's been through that because it takes all 'Intimacy, romance' out of the marriage.

[Alluring]

If your woman doesn't want to have sex with you, it's either because she can't do it or she doesn't want to do it. If she can't do it, that's a valid reason but she doesn't want to do it, I firmly believe the guy should level the blame on himself. Women are lustful licentious creatures which is why they get puberty before we do, can get multiple orgasms and still keep going on, and are even encouraged to get them to marry young as a deterrent. If your wife doesn't want to have sex with you, why take the anger out on her and force when you just aint pleasing her right?

[Alluring]

Xoogsade/Lord Diplock,


Dee what I meant is, its amazing how the Guy can block out all the chaos, and just focus on the sex and eventually climax. I mean dude, isn't even thinking about Her going to the police or anything like that?

Alluring,

You're wrong on this. Most Somali Men (In the West), I meet are against FGM and would never even want to marry a girl who's been through that because it takes all 'Intimacy, romance' out of the marriage.

Some old Somali mothers just died after they read "would never even marry a girl who's been through that" Home boy, are you saying you aren't going to marry a woman whose been though something so she could in turn PLEASE you? Get the hell out of here with that!

[Ina-Geel_Wase]

naag bilaa kintira her flower siduu qoyaa ma sahlana, hadaad ku qabato isagoo dry ahna way kugu cabaadi.

[Basra-]

ok weird thread and topic. What Zuli on? Is this some form of chauvinism gloating reversed role or just a stupid philosophical musings? I am not commodity of anyone! No one wants to rape a fat Gabi Sidabeey form, heck i am bound to sit and crush one of his two brains. (the head not the penis, u dirty people)

[Enlightened~Sista]

[AhlulbaytSoldier]

Such woman married him just to piss the guy off by denying him any sex
I would give her two options: making more soldiers or divorce