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LoDoon wrote:I heard of this man who married this lady and divorced after just under 2 years. Before the process to terminate the marriege began he went to her family and told them of his intentions. When asked what has she done? or on what grounds? His reply was that my wife is everything i had ever wished for a wife to be and more, she cooks, cleans, never argues with, she gives me sound advice on financial matters, when i'm happy she is happy, when i'm not she feels what i feel and she comforts me. And at that point the father of the wife intrupted him and i had once dream about such wife once and i thought it didnt exist. but get to the point and tell us the problems. he instructed him. I have just told youwhat the problem is with you daughter adding '' dee nimanyahow qoftu waa RAALIYO''. he was told he was one lucky man and to keep his and keep it secrete. To cut a long story short, he insisted on the divorce and his reason beign that if he keep this women he feared that WALLEE ALLEH WAA IGU CADAABI RAALIYO EE INTEE GOGGOORTAHEY'' basically the man feared that Allah will punish him for not treating his wife 'raaliyo'' as good as she had treated(giving her due). he wanted a bad woman or much lesser women so he wont be expected to give her much back in return.( In terms of good deeds and gratitude).
So taking lessons from this story amonsgt many others plus a very li'l experience I would Deffinetly not want a raaliyo, i would want a woman who treats me just as i treat her not more nor bettter. because i maynot pay her back in kind in dunya or aakhira. I have one woman who i will never be able to pay back the debt that i owe not even a little and whome Im indebted to for eternity, i would not, i ccould not have another one.
udun wrote:Education with good Islamic moral values ==> Yes.
Education without Islamic moral values, lack of respect, materialistic, mean-spirited, and constant insults? That is typical babygirl type. Who wants such a woman? There is no doubt she will go thru so many divorces and will spend all of her time insulting men constantly. A woman like this would hate when she sees a Somali couple that is very happy.
LoDoon wrote:I heard of this man who married this lady and divorced after just under 2 years. Before the process to terminate the marriege began he went to her family and told them of his intentions. When asked what has she done? or on what grounds? His reply was that my wife is everything i had ever wished for a wife to be and more, she cooks, cleans, never argues with, she gives me sound advice on financial matters, when i'm happy she is happy, when i'm not she feels what i feel and she comforts me. And at that point the father of the wife intrupted him and i had once dream about such wife once and i thought it didnt exist. but get to the point and tell us the problems. he instructed him. I have just told youwhat the problem is with you daughter adding '' dee nimanyahow qoftu waa RAALIYO''. he was told he was one lucky man and to keep his and keep it secrete. To cut a long story short, he insisted on the divorce and his reason beign that if he keep this women he feared that WALLEE ALLEH WAA IGU CADAABI RAALIYO EE INTEE GOGGOORTAHEY'' basically the man feared that Allah will punish him for not treating his wife 'raaliyo'' as good as she had treated(giving her due). he wanted a bad woman or much lesser women so he wont be expected to give her much back in return.( In terms of good deeds and gratitude).
So taking lessons from this story amonsgt many others plus a very li'l experience I would Deffinetly not want a raaliyo, i would want a woman who treats me just as i treat her not more nor bettter. because i maynot pay her back in kind in dunya or aakhira. I have one woman who i will never be able to pay back the debt that i owe not even a little and whome Im indebted to for eternity, i would not, i ccould not have another one.
LoDoon wrote:I heard of this man who married this lady and divorced after just under 2 years. Before the process to terminate the marriege began he went to her family and told them of his intentions. When asked what has she done? or on what grounds? His reply was that my wife is everything i had ever wished for a wife to be and more, she cooks, cleans, never argues with, she gives me sound advice on financial matters, when i'm happy she is happy, when i'm not she feels what i feel and she comforts me. And at that point the father of the wife intrupted him and i had once dream about such wife once and i thought it didnt exist. but get to the point and tell us the problems. he instructed him. I have just told youwhat the problem is with you daughter adding '' dee nimanyahow qoftu waa RAALIYO''. he was told he was one lucky man and to keep his and keep it secrete. To cut a long story short, he insisted on the divorce and his reason beign that if he keep this women he feared that WALLEE ALLEH WAA IGU CADAABI RAALIYO EE INTEE GOGGOORTAHEY'' basically the man feared that Allah will punish him for not treating his wife 'raaliyo'' as good as she had treated(giving her due). he wanted a bad woman or much lesser women so he wont be expected to give her much back in return.( In terms of good deeds and gratitude).
So taking lessons from this story amonsgt many others plus a very li'l experience I would Deffinetly not want a raaliyo, i would want a woman who treats me just as i treat her not more nor bettter. because i maynot pay her back in kind in dunya or aakhira. I have one woman who i will never be able to pay back the debt that i owe not even a little and whome Im indebted to for eternity, i would not, i ccould not have another one.
That was deep stuff, and true story. The man was an Imaam, and very respected Caalim. He divorced most and best Riyaalo women of this Zemen.
Define him, with a beautiful past story that you heard from our old generation and why you want Baari?
define him??... nah, i don't want to do that now, but i want my future husband to be just like my dad. .
You are lucky you have a good role model. Could you elaborate some of the traits of the respected dady? Flex your fingers, and make them type as the other snet girls take note.
with a beautiful past story that you heard from our old generation and why you want Baari?