LD,
None of them will tell you what they really want.
Notice how people say: "Women don't know what they want..."? Well, guess what? They do. Women are very intelligent & adaptive beings. Whereas we mostly rely on our physical strength and social status, women have no other option but to rely on instinct & good-judgement. I noticed the reason why most women are unwilling to say what they really want is out of fear of being judged and for fear of losing someone, "oh, he's gonna think I'm a slut now", "oh, I shouldn't have said that, now he's going to think I'm a dumbass", etc . I've only met a handful of girls in my adult life who weren't afraid to speak their mind and say what they truly wanted, majority went along with what they thought was expected of them. I also noticed very few women have loyalty, most of them are in it as long as it benefits them, the moment shit hits the fan, she'll be packing her bags. Men value loyalty, women don't see its value, its a survivalist attitude.
Of course, there are exceptions to any given scenario, but I only stated what I observed. Its about personal interests first, then other notions follow. The whole "dating" phase is a facade, but its a facade women want & expect. Why? Because they have sub-conciously accepted it after a lifetime of societal expectations & peer pressure. Walahi I could make a list of the sort of man most of these girls want and 99.9% of them will silently nod their head in agreement.