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Unless someone is born in the West, most of the people who migirated to the West because of the wars in Somalia 1988-1990...They are mostly in their 30's

[quote="HalfDzed"]Helwaa,

You sound like me from a few years ago. I don't know, but lately, I'm beginning to accept more and more that marriage isn't for everyone and that a woman shouldn't be compelled to get married just because of her supposed "biological clock". Maybe its best if she didn't? Just like for people who are unable to conceive usually get obesessed with fertility, not realizing maybe its best that way? Maybe those kids they're trying to conceive will be their ultimate destruction or the ones who lead them to hell? Who knows?

Besides, this young lady you're describing sounds like an intelligent person, maybe she knows more about herself and has specific reasons as to why she still has not wed?[/quote]


Half, i am dying to know what is your "specific reason why u r stil not wed"



kambuli idiot.... do u know how to count abaay? Math is not your strong suit ma ha? 1988-1990 is 22 years ago. Anyone who came to the west at this time should be in their late 40s. No one comes to the west at the age of 8 to make it a perfect 30's.

Naa iska aamu afku ku go'ye uskag yahay Noloshaad ku qudhuntaye

Fariidnimada aad sheeganeyso ma nimanka forumka ku jira ee aad mid walba khaniis ku sheegeysaa?

Dadkan badankoodu reerkoodey la socodeen

kambuli


my deepest apologies for outing your age out. 48 sanood....miah tahay?

Shuush Waa maxay kashifku

Naa aamu afku ku go'ye

what i noticed is most of these 30 year old single somali women are the hottest and the most beautiful women in that town but are unmarried i think they are to picky and dismiss guys with small problems. but when she reachess the age of 32-33 she becomes so desperate she ends up marrying a low-life it happens alot

Nomand wrote:what i noticed is most of these 30 year old single somali women are the hottest and the most beautiful women in that town but jet are unmarried i think they are to picky and dismiss guys with small problems. but when she reachess the age of 32-33 she becomes so desperate she ends up marrying a low-life it happens alot

its like your talking about me now Allah, i think this is not a good time to be turning a small problem into a big one.

You don't need to get married to have children.

BlackVelvet wrote:You don't need to get married to have children.

say wallahi

HalfDzed wrote:Helwaa,

You sound like me from a few years ago. I don't know, but lately, I'm beginning to accept more and more that marriage isn't for everyone and that a woman shouldn't be compelled to get married just because of her supposed "biological clock". Maybe its best if she didn't? Just like for people who are unable to conceive usually get obesessed with fertility, not realizing maybe its best that way? Maybe those kids they're trying to conceive will be their ultimate destruction or the ones who lead them to hell? Who knows?

Besides, this young lady you're describing sounds like an intelligent person, maybe she knows more about herself and has specific reasons as to why she still has not wed?

She grew up here..she doesnt know anything about somali dhaqan and how important marriage is.I guess it's up to every individual how they want liv their lives but i wished for her diffrent life.

WestLdnShawty wrote:30 isn't old though..

A few weeks back a 34 year old lady got married for her first time, her husband was a first timer aswell and MashaAllah they were both successful..

Waa Calaaf, for all we know marriage might not even be in her books!

Indeed..wax kasta waa qadar.

BlackVelvet wrote:You don't need to get married to have children.

Are you talking about adoption...dont tell me you would go to a sperm bank

FAH1223 wrote:I don't understand this obsession with other people's lives.

i know

HELWAA wrote:How do you say nicly to someone you care about who refuse to grow up........

naa orodow guursow..you're not young anymore...stop acting like a child ...give ur parents some grandchildren before they hit dust

Any ideas

huuno, guurka waa iska calaf.... hadii alle u qorey guumeysnimo, she can't help it, she'll end up like that. hadaba inanta ka jooji dhibka dee..