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Posted: **Wed Feb 23, 2011 10:07 am**

Mr Alfaas weey ku kacday

Posted: **Wed Feb 23, 2011 10:52 am**

Advo wrote:@ the end of the day a girl will marry a guy that she falls in love with regardless, ilaahey muu ahaado mexican.

I have lived long enough for this point to be proven to me on number of occasions.

I went to high school with a isaaqist girl who wore sland shoe laces and wrist band to school daily, she would say she would marry an Issaq lad, she hated majeerteens but few years later, she married a majeerteen guy , I have cousins that also married from random qabiils even madhibaan because they fell in love.

I agree. I use to think why the older generation where so big on marrying within their qabil, but its all about recognition, so that if the marriage turns sour then they have a link with the family to resolve the situation.

The way I see it as time goes on qabil will become obsolete.

Posted: **Wed Feb 23, 2011 11:14 am**

Personally no Somali girl I've ever asked me my qabiil nor seemed to care, even girls that were relatively fresh. You're delusional if You think gabdho will start chosing guys based on clan, thats the least of their concerns.

Posted: **Wed Feb 23, 2011 11:34 am**

Murax wrote:Personally no Somali girl I've ever asked me my qabiil nor seemed to care, even girls that were relatively fresh. You're delusional if You think gabdho will start chosing guys based on clan, thats the least of their concerns.

There's view good men left, I doubt we can afford to to discriminate along qabil lines, when a girl see's a good Somali Muslim man, I say run with it

But having said that, I don't think would marry a man who I considered a qabiliste & was anti my own qabil no matter how much I was in love with him...

Posted: **Wed Feb 23, 2011 12:54 pm**

*Nobleman* wrote:
Advo wrote:@ the end of the day a girl will marry a guy that she falls in love with regardless, ilaahey muu ahaado mexican.

I have lived long enough for this point to be proven to me on number of occasions.

I went to high school with a isaaqist girl who wore sland shoe laces and wrist band to school daily, she would say she would marry an Issaq lad, she hated majeerteens but few years later, she married a majeerteen guy , I have cousins that also married from random qabiils even madhibaan because they fell in love.

I agree. I use to think why the older generation where so big on marrying within their qabil, but its all about recognition, so that if the marriage turns sour then they have a link with the family to resolve the situation.

The way I see it as time goes on qabil will become obsolete.

Exactly, most Somali parent now days will be happy the daughter brought home a decent guy, they're more scared of ajnabis and shid lol. But just like qabiil isnt as important as the generation before us, it will be non-existing in the near future. Let's be honest do you really think majority of the youth in the west specially girls give a dammm about the next man tol?

Posted: **Wed Feb 23, 2011 1:30 pm**

I was asking in regards to the women back in Somalia/Somaliland. Not in the West.

Posted: **Wed Feb 23, 2011 1:32 pm**

I dont know i mean the clans who live next to each other fight but iyaga na ugu wasmada badan, its not a bad thing
and walahi they love eachother the most eventhough they fight sidasan u qaatay anigu

Posted: **Wed Feb 23, 2011 7:08 pm**

The_Emperior5 wrote:I dont know i mean the clans who live next to each other fight but iyaga na ugu wasmada badan.

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