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^^Don't promote Divorce it is better 2 be unhappy than have divorce.

The Prophet (saw) said: The lawful thing which Allah hates most is divorce. This hadith shows divorce is among the legal things that are Halal but not good. It is Halal because sometimes the situation is so complicated that a man is compelled to divorce, when it is reasonable and there is no way out. Divorce is not good because it is a cause of enmity and also a cause of Satans delight. The commonly quoted hadith, Marry and do not divorce for verily divorce causes the arsh (throne of Allah) to shake, is a fabricated and daeef (weak) narration deserving no consideration. Before delving into the key areas of divorce, it is worth pointing out that Divorce is a serious matter with no room for mockery or treating it lightly. The Prophet (saw) said: There are three matters in which it is not permissible to joke: marriage, divorce and emancipation (of slave).

Bulletz wrote:^^Don't promote Divorce it is better 2 be unhappy than have divorce.

The Prophet (saw) said: The lawful thing which Allah hates most is divorce. This hadith shows divorce is among the legal things that are Halal but not good. It is Halal because sometimes the situation is so complicated that a man is compelled to divorce, when it is reasonable and there is no way out. Divorce is not good because it is a cause of enmity and also a cause of Satans delight. The commonly quoted hadith, Marry and do not divorce for verily divorce causes the arsh (throne of Allah) to shake, is a fabricated and daeef (weak) narration deserving no consideration. Before delving into the key areas of divorce, it is worth pointing out that Divorce is a serious matter with no room for mockery or treating it lightly. The Prophet (saw) said: There are three matters in which it is not permissible to joke: marriage, divorce and emancipation (of slave).

lol, i wasn't promoting it. I was just pointing it out.

The best wedding is the one where u invite two of your freinds as witnesses, a not so greedy sheikh and a cell phone to ask her next of kin for her hanf. trust me, the babies Wouldnt ask u "dad, why did u bring us to the world on de cheap or why was mummy given a low profile weddinh"?

BlackVelvet wrote:If you're too broke to rent your own place or buy furniture you shouldn't get married.

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rule numero uno

¡¡That rule is invalid bcoz a woman can b married in her house n with her furniture. saxix bukhari

ciyaal_warta wrote:

BlackVelvet wrote:If you're too broke to rent your own place or buy furniture you shouldn't get married.

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rule numero uno

The only nin rag on here so far

lol@ the guys now making this about "independent women". I didn't say don't get married without a flashy car or flashy wedding, I said a house and furniture that my dears is one of the basic human needs. So just to make it clearer, don't get married if you can't afford food or clothes either.

Really are you guys that broke or just baqiil?

If you're broke don't get married, if you're baqiil, don't get married either.


ps; There's a reason why Somalis say ninkaa aa guursadey, gabada waa la guursadey - if the girl is paying for the wedding, technically speaking ayadaa aa ku guursatey. From a feminist point of view that's a refreshing phrase but dhaqan wise that's foolxumo. The girls side generally contribute but for the girl to be the primary cost payer is an early sing of incompatability.

BlackVelvet wrote:If you're too broke to rent your own place or buy furniture you shouldn't get married.

That's a CODE RED. You said it beautifully.

Indeed Bv..mashaqeyste sariir yar iibsan karen battry man ba dhaama.

Ninka ayuu ilaahy masuuliyada reerka saarey, for those of you who argue this, go back to madrassa bakhylin yahy kala madaxa kuusan.

HELWAA wrote:
Ninka ayuu ilaahy masuuliyada reerka saarey,

Aqalii xuuma !

They want to wear the pants in the relationship when it suits them, but say that Allah has given responsibility of the family to the MEN.

night of walac

Walaalo aniga cadhuuftada ha ila so doonan.wa ku sidee.


As for the responsibility part:

Diintaada so baro.

HELWAA wrote:night of walac

Walaalo aniga cadhuuftada ha ila so doonan.wa ku sidee.

HELWAA wrote:Indeed Bv..mashaqeyste sariir yar iibsan karen battry man ba dhaama.

Ninka ayuu ilaahy masuuliyada reerka saarey, for those of you who argue this, go back to madrassa bakhylin yahy kala madaxa kuusan.

Helwaa I missed you man.

Missed you to dear

Baryahan meshan waan ka mashquuliye..maxaa i dhaafey?

What you've missed: Nobleman is getting married - I made a topic "official Nobleman is getting married thread" and it got deleted. Warsan and I were wondering why, I thought the bride was Firefly (turns out not) or Londoner but apparently it's his cousin, is Londoner his cousin? Other than that, Fah and Xamuud gave themselves another dose of women's oh and Nabeela is the new head admin! Ciyaal and L2S are still shukaansing and Qoraxeey is now officially hot, Fah asked her to pm her photo...another SNet aroos? Oh and speaking of all this gossip, waryaa mentioned something about a gossip section being made

Oh and you should check out OliveOils thread on what kids say to teachers, had me in stitches.

loooooool Bv..i had no idea Nobleman finally found the one..mashallah ilaahy khayr ha uga dhigo.Whoever it's she's lucky.
But why did they delete ur thread?

Wow Nabeela is the new admin,, thats great..hada nimanki qoorta lagaga istaageya dumarka isku xariifin jiray.

ciyaal warta and l2s are married to eachother..ta ma ogid bv? they love to play hide and seek in SN.
loooooooool@ Qoroxeey is finally hot..i want see the pic too.

As for the new section, i cant wait...i have many stories to share.