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OliveOil wrote: Maybe KOW is right...maybe he is saying it cause he is tired of living in Minnasota and wants to make sure I'm safe since I'm his favorite cousin

Haye abbayo if that makes you feel better lakiin im not so sure plus he can't live with u he aint ur muhram.

But he is my cousin!!! What made me shaki about him is because he said "amma convince eedo and adeer so u can move!"


Anyways....acuudubilaah that will NEVER happen...I'm staying away from my clan let alone my freaking family ufff

That was inappropriate of me.

Then you just like to jump on the bandwagon so ma ahan?

OliveOil wrote:Then you just like to jump on the bandwagon so ma ahan?

No. I edited.

You can not marry your first cousin As your mother and her mother are siblings. If the parents who are siblings are of the same gender it's not allowed.

union wrote:That's disgusting.

how about your gay friend? sweet???

damn ass ignorants!!! some people are so damn and brain washed that they don't even know what the heck they are talking about. we are in a time when homesexuality is being celebrated and the first thing you do is to forbid yourself from something allah made halal for you. i think the westerners have done their homework and the naives amongst us have made it easy for them. nowadays, homesexuality is seen as normal in many parts of the western world, and in the same time you are being told that causin marriage is a bad thing. how damn are you!!!

a dozen or states have already enacted laws, the latest being new york, legalizing two men or two women to marry and you are running away one of your best traditions and the tradition of the prophet (saw). these guys thing distancing themselves from causin marriage is ilbaxnimo and reer magaal. what a losers!!!

wallahi you guys are not even worth responding to!

the thread poster,

forget about these lowlives. it is perfectly find to marry your first causin and any causin that comes after. if you like her, i say marry. i am 100000000% ready to marry my first causin if she's good-looking and we can get along.

CORRUPTION wrote:You can not marry your first cousin As your mother and her mother are siblings. If the parents who are siblings are of the same gender it's not allowed.

Why? Is it not the same both cases they are ur cousins.

barakaboy10 wrote:

union wrote:That's disgusting.

i think the westerners have done their homework and the naives amongst us have made it easy for them. nowadays, homesexuality is seen as normal in many parts of the western world, and in the same time you are being told that causin marriage is a bad thing. how damn are you!!!

barakaboy10, both homosexuality and first cousin marriages are banned in most parts of the United States. Homosexuals pose a public health hazard because of their high HIV/AIDS rates, and first cousin marriages pollute the genetic pool by producing deformed/mentally deficient offspring. The constitutionality of laws forbidding homosexuality are being questioned, but first cousin marriages will remain banned because everyone agrees that they pose a greater risk to soceity than any other type of union. Before you post another ramblings tirade about the virtues of cousin marriages, I suggest you look up the genetic problems associated with them.

Advo wrote:It's perfectly halaal but because it's halaal it doesnt mean I have to and I dont have a choice, I would much rather prefer to marry from a new line.

Pretty much this.

Also, what if it doesn't go so well? That's family we're talking about. Things can get sour and this isn't a problem that time or talk can simply fix.

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You can not marry your first cousin As your mother and her mother are siblings. If the parents who are siblings are of the same gender it's not allowed.

Not allowed, as in haraam?

marrying a cousin is scientifically known as inbreeding. chances to give birth tn deformed kids rise by 60%

It is completely unhealthy.

The offspring will lack genetic diversity, and will be prone to getting recessive diseases which otherwise would just be dormant due to elevated runs of homozgygosity.

I knew this Banadiri man (he's dead now AUN) who married his first cousin (maternal) and they had 10 kids, 6 were born deaf, 1 died at childbirth.

Tell your mother "NO thank you."

I won't even consider my third cousin, let alone my first, I know it's xalaal and all, but ewwww.