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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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The man is supposed to be bigger than the woman for protection but really most women just want a man who can carry them. :P
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WEARING HIGH HEELS IS HARAM

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Xaliimo. WEARING HIGH HEELS IS HARAM. This is something I have banned my wife from for a very long time.

Wearing high heels is not permissible because it exposes women to the risk of falling, and we are commanded in sharee’ah to avoid danger in a general sense,
as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“And do not kill yourselves”
[al-Nisa’ 4:29]

“and do not throw yourselves into destruction”
[al-Baqarah 2:195]


It also makes women look taller than they really are and makes their posteriors appear more prominent, and this is a kind of deception and showing the adornments which the believing woman is forbidden to show,
as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent (like both eyes for necessity to see the way, or outer palms of hands or one eye or dress like veil, gloves, headcover, apron), and to draw their veils all over Juyoobihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms) and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their husband’s fathers, or their sons, or their husband’s sons, or their brothers or their brother’s sons, or their sister’s sons, or their (Muslim) women (i.e. their sisters in Islam)”

[al-Noor 24:31]

From Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah, Majallat al-Buhooth, 9/46.


Moreover, it also makes a woman lean forward (maa’ilah ila al-amaam), so there is the fear that the warning issued to those women who walk with an enticing gait (al-maa’ilaat al-mumilaat) may apply to her too [in the hadeeth which says that such women will never even smell the fragrance of Paradise from afar]. It also harms the back, as has been proven medically. The heels also make a sound which attracts the attention of men and is a temptation to them. We ask Allaah to keep us all safe and sound.

HIGH HEELS SHOULD BE BANNED AND DISCOURAGED BY ALL MUSLIM WOMEN.
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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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WestLdnShawty wrote:
Beenaale_No1 wrote:Women are attracted to tall muscular men.

Just like niggas are attracted to that big Bantu booy :lol:
OOOH WOW.. You like big bantu boys.. :|
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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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IronSheik

People can like what they want. Women are attracted to tall men, its a turn-on for them. Waa caadi, its been like that since forever.

Men are attracted to certain type of women too.

We are humans.
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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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IronSheik wrote:
WestLdnShawty wrote:
Beenaale_No1 wrote:Women are attracted to tall muscular men.

Just like niggas are attracted to that big Bantu booy :lol:
OOOH WOW.. You like big bantu boys.. :|
'Laa Hawala Wala Qowwata Illa Billah
English or Soomali please?

Beenaale_No1 wrote:
WestLdnShawty wrote:
Beenaale_No1 wrote:Women are attracted to tall muscular men.

Just like niggas are attracted to that big Bantu booy :lol:
OOOH WOW.. You like big bantu boys.. :|
:|
Did I say something wrong.. I just quoted what you said..
Most women like tall muscular men... Which is Fact I suppose..

I then asked my brothers If they were attracted to 'Big bantu booy' and they gave me the 'WTF look'... Marka I came to the conclusion its only you who is attracted to big bantu boys.. :|
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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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....Runs with her high heels before they get confiscated....
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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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West

I meant big Bantu booty [female Bantu obvs]

Waad iga naxisey for a min lol.
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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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It is wrong to be attracted to tall muscular men that is falling to the sheydaans thinking and will make you marry for looks and put deen second place that is not the correct way to marry walaalayaal.
Westldnshawty? What do you mean english or somali? That is the words of the quran that is the most blessed language in the world waa af carabi! maxaa dhacay? Arabic is better than somali or english in ever way possible. How can you not know what 'Laa Hawala Wala Qowwata Illa Billah means. Ya allah!
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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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IronSheik wrote:
WestLdnShawty wrote:
Beenaale_No1 wrote:Women are attracted to tall muscular men.

Just like niggas are attracted to that big Bantu booy :lol:
OOOH WOW.. You like big bantu boys.. :|
'Laa Hawala Wala Qowwata Illa Billah
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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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WestLdnShawty wrote:Did I say something wrong.. I just quoted what you said..
Most women like tall muscular men... Which is Fact I suppose..

I then asked my brothers If they were attracted to 'Big bantu booy' and they gave me the 'WTF look'... Marka I came to the conclusion its only you who is attracted to big bantu boys..
Waryaa Beenaale, you gonna let this chick talk to you like that? :|
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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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Beenaale_No1 wrote:West

I meant big Bantu booty [female Bantu obvs]

Waad iga naxisey for a min lol.
I know I was pulling your leg.. :|
IronSheik wrote: Westldnshawty? What do you mean english or somali? That is the words of the quran that is the most blessed language in the world waa af carabi! maxaa dhacay? Arabic is better than somali or english in ever way possible. How can you not know what 'Laa Hawala Wala Qowwata Illa Billah means. Ya allah!
IronSheik - If I dont understand something obviously I'm ganna ask for the meaning in the languages I understand.. Dont come here to show off your knowlegde *that's how your coming across*.. If your here trying to 'educate' us marka.. Be sincere.. You're coming off as a show off *just saying* :roll:

Plus dont just assume someone knows the meaning.. And why didn't you type it in the ARABIC scripter rather than the latin one.. Since you clearly stressed its importance... :|
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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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BlackVelvet wrote:The man is supposed to be bigger than the woman for protection but really most women just want a man who can carry them. :P
hmm a farax carrying his wife? :?
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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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Mondey wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:The man is supposed to be bigger than the woman for protection but really most women just want a man who can carry them. :P
hmm a farax carrying his wife? :?
if she is overwieght and the farax is skiny then he wont be able to lift her
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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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Sorry walal cafis I am a intense person but some people need to be attacked to learn but it is a downside and a mistake cafis I didn't mean it. I am on a western keyboard I can't right arabic. But anyway read this my sister in islam:

The magnificent phrase lâ hawla wa lâ quwwata illâ bi Allâh is mentioned numerous times in the hadith (sayings of Muhammad) as being highly regarded and highly recommended by the Prophet Muhammad. The phrase is a part of daily prayers for many Muslims, and is a common phrase in ceremony and dhikr.

It is not uncommon to find the phrase lâ hawla wa lâ quwwata illâ bi Allâh translated simply as there is no power or strength except through Allâh. However that translation fails to capture the grandeur and deeper significance of this magnificent phrase.

Translating the word hawla simply as power is an over-simplification. The Arabic root h-w-l depicts all manner of change and transformation. The root h-w-l has led to a wide variety of words, but they all share this common thread of change and transformation. Certainly it is true that transformation and change require power, but power alone is not an adequate translation.... change and transformation are the keys to this magnificent phrase.

The phrase may be translated word-by-word as:

lâ = no, not, none, neither
hawla = change, alteration, transformation, movement, motion
wa = and
lâ = no, not, none, neither
quwwata = strength, power, potency, force, might, vigor
illâ = but, except, if not
bi = with, to, for, in, through, by means of
Allâh = Arabic name for the Supreme Being

Progress is only achieved through change and transformation... and spiritual progress requires the highest degree of change and transformation. We may wish to change, but we alone do not have the power to make such changes.

Such change and transformation can only occur through the tahwîl (transformation) of Allâh. That is to say, true change and transformation can arise only through the awesome and glorious powers of Allâh.

Here are some literal translations of the phrase lâ hawla wa lâ quwwata illâ billâh that incorporate the idea of change and transformation:

There is neither change nor power except by means of Allâh.

There is no transformation or strength except through Allâh.

There is neither progress nor might except through Allâh.

May Allah forgives all our sins and guide us all to the right path. Ameen
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Re: Why is it a taboo for a somali girl

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Mondey wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:The man is supposed to be bigger than the woman for protection but really most women just want a man who can carry them. :P
hmm a farax carrying his wife? :?
That's why you skinny buggers need to work out.
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