Beans wrote:IronSheik wrote:Beans wrote:Everyone`s reason might differ from others.I know i personally hardly ever wear them and when and if i do is for a specific outfit that might need the height to stand straight with me having to trip over it.
I do understand it being disliked.discouraged but to totally call it haram?
Ukhtii a lot of women may wear them to look "sexy" get more attention from men. The taller a woman looks the more attractive she will be, also the clicking noise brings attention to you. Men will then apporoach you ukhtii. Maybe you will be attracted to this man and it will lead to bad things.
So someones reason for wearing high heels could be haram. I think its best to avoid wearing this sister a personal example is I asked my wife many questions and it made sense so she wears it no more and she hardly complains and doesn't care about not wearing it. So if you only wear it sometimes it is easy to stop ukhtii.
JazakAllah Khair.
I respect ur point of view.
Alhamdulilah for i dislike the pain associated with them.Thanks for the advice.
Alhamdulilah sister thanks for listening I only want to help. Ukhtii that is a good sign that it hurts it will make you dislike them and not wear them.
Its like when people fear a jinn is in there house they read quran every night and in turn learn a lot of surah so it was a blessing in disguise. MASHALLAH DEE ukhtii
