Can Men and Women just be friends?

[blitzkrieg]

I don't know. I mean, on one hand, I want to say that it's entirely possible, but on the other hand, all of my male friends have called me attractive/had some sort of odd pseudo-crush on me at one point or another, which is why I'm tempted to cut back on heterosexual male friends (because the gays will never blindside me with a, "Blitz, you're hot. I U.")

Now, I never develop feelings towards my male friends because they're all unattractive. I don't befriend attractive (straight) men; they're useless to me.

[Shirib]

This topic has been rinsed. Yes you can, as long as the girl keeps it boderline professional (no touchy feely ish) and he sees her like a sister.

You can't and shouldn't be friends with a pervert.

the only people i see like a sister....are my sisters

U can keep it professional, u can keep it platonic, but truth of the matter is, if u told the guy hey lets mess around, he would be down for it. Or he would want to but keep himself from doing it.

Its just the way the male brain works, and that's fact.

[Adali]

it's possible if it's a professional friendship, like you can go watch movies with your class mate or work friend, it's no biggie, the problem is women will feel comfy with you and the more you stop yourself from hitting on her the more she will start making these submisive gestures infront of you, licking her lips, leaning up against you, it's so fucked up, i use have some great gabdho friends when i was 9-14 we use to go bowling and play sports, enjoy ourselves. NO MORE !!