Girls in here demanding $$$ for a wedding;Exactly what are u

[Alphanumeric]

Despite the numerous threads dedicated to the costs of weddings, there's still a couple mehers every weekend with dowries ranging from 5 to 10 stacks If you ain't paying, next man will.

ive come to conclude a girl can ask for whatever she wants. 10k over two or 20k mehr over four years is reasonable, if she's worth it, with obvious clauses.

but a 20k party? ...id walk away

[Hyperactive]

the mahar is an agreement, she asks you agree and pay or disagree and walk away! simple. why complicating?

wedding on other hand, i only agree to feed poor people and get dua. but inviting well off people and spend $$$$$ sorry. they can come to my house and get lunch and some home made sweets.

[sahal80]

just duco in the Masjid, I won't be wanting to do such an expensive thing for a random girl that lives in the west wich I don't know where her mouth has been to. she can pay it if she needs to.

[Hyperactive]

lol would you marry random girl who you supposed dont trust where her mouth was, to begin with?

[FAH1223]

and people wonder why the divorce rate is high

[sahal80]

lol would you marry random girl who you supposed dont trust where her mouth was, to begin with?

she could be merely a somali goddess(lol) but this thing is unnoticeable.

[Alphanumeric]

lol would you marry random girl who you supposed dont trust where her mouth was, to begin with?

how do you trust anyone?

[Nanees]

normal people free from electrolyte and chemical imbalances of the brain have the emotional capacity necessary to trust others, with some aggressive therapy you can too!

[Hyperactive]

lol would you marry random girl who you supposed dont trust where her mouth was, to begin with?

how do you trust anyone?

when you dont have another choice and you have to deal with. the only way is by trusting God and just do your part. the good thing is a wife you can just leave her but the problem is when you cannot stop dealing with people you cannot cut them off.

[Alphanumeric]

lol would you marry random girl who you supposed dont trust where her mouth was, to begin with?

how do you trust anyone?

when you dont have another choice and you have to deal with. the only way is by trusting God and just do your part. the good thing is a wife you can just leave her but the problem is when you cannot stop dealing with people you cannot cut them off.

i mean, how can you be certain she's honest about her past

normal people free from electrolyte and chemical imbalances of the brain have the emotional capacity necessary to trust others, with some aggressive therapy you can too!

please, easily said by the emotionally vacant

[Nanees]

im not emotionally vacant, i just believe in independence in a relationship and have a pervasive fear of 'clinginess' .

[Alphanumeric]

you'll have separate homes..... with an ocean between em

[Nanees]

you'll have separate homes..... with an ocean between em

dont be so extreme, we'll just have two twin beds with wheels we can roll together when its time to act married

and then push back apart when its time to go to bed.

[Hyperactive]

you cannot certain, that where trust comes whatever she says take it or leave it. no other way you can verify otherwise.

and it's same for her about you. so goes either way. i think best about the people and prepare to be other wise. or until they prove you wrong. life is easy that way. or you will live like me, with no friends, no social life maybe no wife. lol

[Alphanumeric]

you cannot certain, that where trust comes whatever she says take it or leave it. no other way you can verify otherwise.

and it's same for her about you. so goes either way. i think best about the people and prepare to be other wise. or until they prove you wrong. life is easy that way. or you will live like me, with no friends, no social life maybe no wife. lol

i love this dude

but bro, i can sit on a ledge when it comes to trust. im either all in, or not at all. if she breaks it, i might start lighting shit on fire

you'll have separate homes..... with an ocean between em

dont be so extreme, we'll just have two twin beds with wheels we can roll together when its time to act married

and then push back apart when its time to go to bed.

you joke, but i see some truth in there