Lone child. .

[BlackVelvet]

I thought you would say something like - every Thursday night husband and wife must go on a date

[Beans]

I knew it! I feel like i have been on a solo marriage counselling.

U r not very far off.

[BlackVelvet]

Throw out some ideas, who knows I might end up with an only child.

feel like i have been on a solo marriage counselling.

I know what you mean

[Beans]

The floor is all ur`s now.

I am taking notes.

[BlackVelvet]

[Beans]

U could make a great therapist.

[salool]

lool@ sound proved walls.Beans way si diyaar garoobday

As long mother inlows dont interfere in the children livs i think it can work out, laakin somali beynu nahay oo wax kasta shanta la galna oo xuduudkena baynu so dhaafna.

[BlackVelvet]

Beans thank you

Salool walaleey, I think the best thing about having one of your mothers there is the free babysitting service and all the advice, especially at the beginning

[salool]

Bv, qof kula jooga laazim faaido wuu leyahy laakin ogow there will be some disadvantages as well:

-No space, One minut ur husband breathing on ur neck and the second ur mother inlow.
-She will interfere on how you raise children, why you're not having anymore kids, why you're working
- whenever you're late, all the silly Q, if you talk to long on the phone, who was it, maxa so kordhay. Eas dropping whenever you've friends over etc etc etc.I tell ya you will feel like a prisoner in ur own home.
But i guess it all worth it for the kids sake

[BlackVelvet]

Okay that would get annoying.

I think you might be able to get past that hadii wax kale ku mashquulisid. Keep her busy with other stuff and activities that way she won't have the time or energy to be all up in your business.

Can you imagine fighting with your mother in-law? That would be awkward.

[salool]

I dont think any women would disrespect her mother inlow like that.But i've heard some crazy stories where the sister-inlows got into fights with the wives. The husband should keep his family on check.

As for keeping her busy, what els would she do adiga shaqo ka dhiganeysa.

[Beans]

Walle Salool ayaa war keentey.

No space, One minut ur husband breathing on ur neck and the second ur mother inlow

I dont know why that made me laugh hard.

[salool]

Beans, i know how much you hate talking all the time, imagin islaan halka ku so fadhida oo sheeko ka rabta.
The idea is beautiful, laakin when you see the pple who living it they change ur whole view.Realty is diffrent

[BlackVelvet]

Get her on a sewing class or cooking class or introduce her to the local islaamo (this might backfire)

In-laws in general are weird, the relationship is a bit like modern warefare meets coldwar meets the UN.

[Beans]

Crap! I didnt think of that.

I can listen for a while adding hmm yeah but it is not very long before i start reciting "shut up shut up" in ma head.


Modern day cold war.