salool wrote:I said focus on how to become succesful and women will chase you.
But...
I am already successful.
Rabshoole wrote:Most people are probably looking in all the wrong places, I've seen my share who are deservant of marriage at the local masjid, perhaps people are fishing in a contaminated pond, expand your horizons a bit, you'll be surprised what you catch, needless to say nothing better out their than your own kind

Well, I am currently finding ladies in places I regularly go to, and one is masijd but then I think it's taboo to fish out ladies at that place and ladies at there wouldn't even listen to men and vice versa. :/
ummsalma wrote:haxxor wrote:Even harder when one you're looking for is clean (in terms of deen and sexual nature), and is not fat.
I'm considering to marry Jamaican revert, I hear they are easier to revert than most of other ethnic groups and girls are hot

1) "Whomever Allah guides, no one can misguide, and whomever Allah misguides, no one can guide." that's a well known ayah from the qur'aan.
2) There are many practising Somali sisters looking for halal marriages. It depends on where you look. Although i find it upsetting whenever i hear fellow Somali girls categorically stating they'd 'never' marry a Somali man. And likewise some from our men who state they'd rather marry a revert instead. It's at times best to stick with your own kid (Not that there's anything wrong with marry outside the community).
Then tell me, what is the best place to fish out for perfect/good Somali lady??
Somalis I've found at all places I went to, are either highly religious, good personality OR good beauty, never combined. I would be happy to choose the first two qualities or first and third qualities. It's damn impossible find one that has all three or has two preferable qualities, and the same goes for men but I dont care 'cause I am not gay.
It is seems so easy to find non-Muslim girl then revert her then marry her than find Somali girl to marry.