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Bleachedhime wrote:Didn't he marry me so that i would cook, clean, take care of the kids etc for him in the first place? Markaan kitchenka isaga ku xaraynayo, maxaan anigu ku maqanahay?
Hadaay gabadhi gurigeeda maamulkiisa ka soo bixi kari waysay, then obviously markeedii horeba waxay ahayd goonbaar baali ah.
may all girls be as smart as you bleacheka.
miskeen86 wrote:I i'm not home, she cooks. if she is not home, then we buy take-out. got thatTeAmo wrote:I don't think cooking and cleaning for your husband is a choice unless you want to get divorced
But we will take turns when I'm not home he does it when I'm home I do it. But if your a housewife you got to do it all since ur a housewife but occasionally he has to help out.
no hun, we are not talking about affording a maid, but the wifey maid...the one that would treat her husband like a KING...for a king's ransom of course.Sagaashan wrote:shouldn't you be asking how many girls can afford maids in the first place. unless one marries a chef, i don't see this as an option in the Somali world
you're right, sharing of household chores is definitely abstract and subject to each couple and their dealings with each other, if she wants to cook for him, good if he wants to cook for her, even better.....but what i have a problem with is women who refuse to afford this issue a spec of rational thought and use the argument to polarize her value as a woman and her equal taking in the relationship. its like getting a man to cook for her is the pinnacle of her feminist endeavor cuz she's got career and can bring home the denereos...feminism is reverse psychology at its best to get more females heads to levy in the workplace.Jam Street wrote:
zulaika
Walaahi there seem like there is a big misunderstanding. These ghetto women are so used to seeing good for nothing men, whether it is their former husbands or fathers who do nothing other than chew khaat the whole night and sleep on the day so they are led to believe all men are like that. Hence they saying the household work should be shared equally. In that regard they are right, it should be shared but if a guy is capable of financially providing for his family you can't expect him to wear your baati and get him in the kitchen.
u missed the point...againSagaashan wrote:and when did suqaar, and 15 min bariis and baasto become the dinner of a king
Zulaika, I'm sorry that you're a middle aged housewive but you don't have to try and convince ever young, girl online to do the same as you did.zulaika wrote:i see u are a work in progress...in many ways.Areesa wrote:Since I'm going to have a career, I will sometimes cook for him. But don't expect me to slave in the kitchen after work. I would rather take a bath while he cooks dinner and feeds me afterwards massage my feet.
good luck with the career.
she's probably like 5 years older than youhipsterrunoff wrote:
Zulaika, I'm sorry that you're a middle aged housewives but you don't have to try and convince ever young, girl online to do the same as you.
Jam Street wrote:There is hope as long as we have women who have the same mindset as you do. But i have to stay the situation looks bleak because the ratio of dumb/disrespectful xaliimos and good/raaliyo ones is very disproportional in favour of team caraweelooyin.
Aren't you an oday? How long are you waiting for this so called raaliyo, good girl? Take my advice, abti. Log off snet asap and go to Somalia. You will find your reer badiyo queen there. Why do u usually get so pumped abt what women want or do? Bisinka. U sound like a heart attack waiting to happen.Jam Street wrote:There is hope as long as we have women who have the same mindset as you do. But i have to stay the situation looks bleak because the ratio of dumb/disrespectful xaliimos and good/raaliyo ones is very disproportional in favour of team caraweelooyin.Bleachedhime wrote:Didn't he marry me so that i would cook, clean, take care of the kids etc for him in the first place? Markaan kitchenka isaga ku xaraynayo, maxaan anigu ku maqanahay?
Hadaay gabadhi gurigeeda maamulkiisa ka soo bixi kari waysay, then obviously markeedii horeba waxay ahayd goonbaar baali ah.
zulaika
Walaahi there seem like there is a big misunderstanding. These ghetto women are so used to seeing good for nothing men, whether it is their former husbands or fathers who do nothing other than chew khaat the whole night and sleep on the day so they are led to believe all men are like that. Hence they saying the household work should be shared equally. In that regard they are right, it should be shared but if a guy is capable of financially providing for his family you can't expect him to wear your baati and get him in the kitchen.
FAH1223 wrote:she's probably like 5 years older than you
Fah, I don't think so. I'm 19 years old. Meaning, I was born in the 90s. I don't think this chick is 24 years old (24 year olds don't talk like this). Better yet I don't think anyone here except for maybe you, me, areesa, abukar s and a couple of others are under the age of 30. Andddd, that's being generous.i guess i dont have to act young any morehipsterrunoff wrote:FAH1223 wrote:she's probably like 5 years older than you
im seeing people with ancient names, and writing gabayo and heeso i never witnessed, listened, or even heard about. the 'waxaan u soo joogay' is becoming more evident nowadays, maybe i am young afterall 
hipsterrunoff wrote:FAH1223 wrote:she's probably like 5 years older than you
19? i thought you were 23
