wich one will you love more your siblings or your spouse?

[Adali]

My wife is more important to me than my Bros, I think they understand that, I still love them though, my sisters and my wife are a draw even after they get married, I could never choose, and above all my parents have unconditional love and so do my children.

[KimJongIllest]

I recall walking along a lake with my cousins and their mother in the early 2000s. One of my cousins said "Hoyoo, who would you save first drowning in that lake. You only have one option: Would it be Mohammad (her 5 year old son), Abo (husband) or Layla (her older sister)? She said "of course my sister". They asked if she was joking and she replied "that's my sister. we have history. we share the same mother. we share the same father. we knew each other since birth. what is there to joke about?". Their mother is the laid back hoyoos which is why he was comfortable in asking such a strange question to her.

And I suspect that would be the answer for most people.

Let's say your brother/sister or your wife/husband were drowning in a lake, would you really go and save your wife/husband before your brother/sister? I am not talking about the brother/sister you cut off or have bad relations with but the brother/sister you have normal brotherly/sisterly relations with?

You have to honestly question the level of love people have for their spouses. Yes, there is love between them both but is it really that strong as we tend to believe? There is a reason why divorce rates/marriage failures are well over 50%.

[Barwaaqoiyobashbash]

^^ Are you effin serious>??
I'd save my bro/sis ina heart beat,even If I hated them,my wife is replaceable but not my fams.
Plenty of fish in the sea brah,so I ain't gotta worry.

[KimJongIllest]

^^ Are you effin serious>??
I'd save my bro/sis ina heart beat,even If I hated them,my wife is replaceable but not my fams.
Plenty of fish in the sea brah,so I ain't gotta worry.

Just as I thought.

[QaaliDumar]

Walaalahay ma kala go'ayno laakin nin berri ka maalin waan kala tagi karnaa....

Walaalahay wax kastaa way igu qadanayaan nin se ma hubi.


I hope that answers your question.

[Hyperactive]

wife has rights and silat ra7m have rights. God gave is guide lines.

having said that, depends the culture, my self the only women "most" love no matter what, is my mom, sisters and my daughters. any one else depends. wife can go and come. her rights is to respect and ra7mah toward her. love is optional and changeable.

[Tuushi]

Why even compare apples and oranges.

[ManD333q]

Two different things and also depends on how you define love.
as I see it love for your spouse is a selfish love; you'll love that person as long as they fulfill your needs. But love for your family is selfless and you'll love them no matter what.

[MujahidAishah]

Jow nin haqaa naas maxa iga galay ... walalhey baa jiidh kayga

[greenday]

I asked the very same question to my siblings before and two said their spouse, their reason was f you didnt love them more why would you leave your family for them one could not decide while i said my family, because there is unbreakable bond, this is why i always find the concept of loving or siding with a stranger weird, this person was nothing to you before and could easily be nothing to you quickly.

The question came when my little brother said i would cook for my wife and i was like so why dont you cook for us

[TeAmo]

Is that mean you don't look like your mother?
I have three half siblings. I look like my dad even the voice, expressions, moods... Now my dad and his new wife have a two different phenotypes so there is no a middleground look that will dominate the kids, 2 look like her and one is a typical of my dad and me and I'm planing to take him in the future.
I'm careful to the one who I would marry because I want her to have nearly the same phenotype so all the kids would have some features of us.

I look like my mums sister, and my sister looks like my mum. My mums kids all look like their dad and my dads kids all like like him or their mums. So none of them look like me, except my little sister we could pass of as twins. Why would you want to marry someone who has the same features as you? What's the point of that? Insha'Allah I'm going to marry someone sexier than me

[TeAmo]

I asked the very same question to my siblings before and two said their spouse, their reason was f you didnt love them more why would you leave your family for them one could not decide while i said my family, because there is unbreakable bond, this is why i always find the concept of loving or siding with a stranger weird, this person was nothing to you before and could easily be nothing to you quickly.

The question came when my little brother said i would cook for my wife and i was like so why dont you cook for us

I remember doing the laundry for my brothers but refused to do their underwear and told them to do it themselves. Then my brother says to me you would wash your husbands underwear why won't you wash your ours, I was like thats different

[greenday]

^^how is that different underwear is underwear

[ElfRuler]

I asked the very same question to my siblings before and two said their spouse, their reason was f you didnt love them more why would you leave your family for them one could not decide while i said my family, because there is unbreakable bond, this is why i always find the concept of loving or siding with a stranger weird, this person was nothing to you before and could easily be nothing to you quickly.

The question came when my little brother said i would cook for my wife and i was like so why dont you cook for us

I remember doing the laundry for my brothers but refused to do their underwear and told them to do it themselves. Then my brother says to me you would wash your husbands underwear why won't you wash your ours, I was like thats different

The first mistake was doing their laundry to beginning with. I used to remember a friend of mine that use to clean her brothers' room. Like

[PrinceDaadi]

Elf: you will not clean ur brother's room?