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Temo

ka waran walaaley Qudbo siro.....ready miyaad u tahey

TeAmo, you may not realize it, but you are still young in the big scheme of things. Why worry about polygamy, marriage, etc, when you have so much time and you don't have to rush into things. Just enjoy the moment and take it day by day, cross that bridge when the you get there.

Cunaaye25 wrote:Temo

ka waran walaaley Qudbo seero.....ready miyaad u tahey

What's that?

Perfect_Order wrote:TeAmo, you may not realize it, but you are still young in the big scheme of things. Why worry about polygamy, marriage, etc, when you have so much time and you don't have to rush into things. Just enjoy the moment and take it day by day, cross that bridge when the you get there.

Who said I'm rushing into anything? I'm just stating my opinions and feelings on the matter -___-

it's not even a big issue, the percentage of polygamist marriages especially for those under 30 I wouldn't even say it's 5 %. It's not like you are dealing the chances of it at 70% or higher. And you still hopefully have many years before you reach marriage, and by then you will be so different and better insha'allah

Based wrote:

TeAmo wrote:this man might be the reason why I enter Jannah.

I really have got to become more religious.

Perfect_Order wrote:it's not even a big issue, the percentage of polygamist marriages especially for those under 30 I wouldn't even say it's 5 %. It's not like you are dealing the chances of it at 70% or higher. And you still hopefully have many years before you reach marriage, and by then you will be so different and better insha'allah

Meaning?

TeAmo wrote:

Perfect_Order wrote:it's not even a big issue, the percentage of polygamist marriages especially for those under 30 I wouldn't even say it's 5 %. It's not like you are dealing the chances of it at 70% or higher. And you still hopefully have many years before you reach marriage, and by then you will be so different and better insha'allah

Meaning?

I was being genuine and not condescending. I meant more mature, better practicing, and closer to Allah insha'allah

Perfect_Order wrote:TeAmo, you may not realize it, but you are still young in the big scheme of things. Why worry about polygamy, marriage, etc, when you have so much time and you don't have to rush into things. Just enjoy the moment and take it day by day, cross that bridge when the you get there.

TeAmo has always come across to me as the type of person who thinks either rationally or extreme. In this case, she's thinking extreme once again. And, everybody knows ain't nobody got time for that.

TeAmo wrote:

Cunaaye25 wrote:Temo

ka waran walaaley Qudbo seero.....ready miyaad u tahey

What's that?

marriage contract with a woman, secretly 100% halal

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hipsterrunoff wrote:

Perfect_Order wrote:TeAmo, you may not realize it, but you are still young in the big scheme of things. Why worry about polygamy, marriage, etc, when you have so much time and you don't have to rush into things. Just enjoy the moment and take it day by day, cross that bridge when the you get there.

TeAmo has always come across to me as the type of person who thinks either rationally or extreme. In this case, she's thinking extreme once again. And, everybody knows ain't nobody got time for that.

To me, it feels like there is too much societal/religious pressure for girls to be trying to grapple with this issue, when even much older women have a harder time. I find it strange when in religious conferences young girls always bring up this issue. I find it a bit sad, since polygamist marriages are not even the norm or even close to it. Also, marriage is already hard enough, and our communities are quickly catching up with this societies divorce rates of over 50%, why even complicate it more?

Perfect_Order wrote:

hipsterrunoff wrote:

Perfect_Order wrote:TeAmo, you may not realize it, but you are still young in the big scheme of things. Why worry about polygamy, marriage, etc, when you have so much time and you don't have to rush into things. Just enjoy the moment and take it day by day, cross that bridge when the you get there.

TeAmo has always come across to me as the type of person who thinks either rationally or extreme. In this case, she's thinking extreme once again. And, everybody knows ain't nobody got time for that.

To me, it feels like there is too much societal/religious pressure for girls to be trying to grapple with this issue, when even much older women have a harder time. I find it strange when in religious conferences young girls always bring up this issue. I find it a bit sad, since polygamist marriages are not even the norm or even close to it. Also, marriage is already hard enough, and our communities are quickly catching up with this societies divorce rates of over 50%, why even complicate it more?

Are you two trying to call me an extremist?

I never share my toys. That's how you get cooties.

Wixii ku qoran ma joojin kartid.

alimacan wrote:

Tuushi wrote:

alimacan wrote:da only options for somali girls in da west r bein 2nd anr 3rd wifes nothing else cus thy r cheap n clean right today my local mosque a white convert married a somali chick for $0.99 a meher $1 dollar

A lie should kinda at least pretend to look like the truth.

am serious i swear to god on da koran
also another iraqi boy married a somali chick wit pizza only