Is it Haram to Love your Ex-Wife

[BlackVelvet]

Start writing gabay maybe you'll be the next Elimi Bodari

I wrote gabay before. Not about jacayl but about infertility.

awlaadu waa qaar kamida qanimadii eebe,
asagaa uqaybiya dadkoon lala qorshaynayne,
qofkuu rabo ayuu eebahay qac uga siiyaaye,
qofna looma qoro oo allaa garan qisaadkaase,
qiiro iyo japaan luguma helo wiilal qayr badane,
qaliin iyo dadaal luguma helo wiilal qayr badane,
qibrad iyo aqoon luguma helo wiilaal qayr badane,
qushuucii allaa lugu helaa wiilal qayr badane,

Dhaloow iyo soo koris laguma helo wiilal qayr badane

On the bright side, maybe you would have ended up with all girls, that is why this burden is less for you to bare. Or perhaps your kids would have been huge disappointments or maybe your son would have tried to kill you or maybe waa la duufsan lahay and they would have ended up gaal. Everything happens for a reason. Maybe you're supposed to go on to do something amazing without the burden of having to provide for children

[ElfRuler]

This reminds me of Ibn Hazm's amazing statement when he said "Love is neither disapproved by Religion nor prohibited by Law, for every heart is in God's Hands".


You're better than some married Somali men who can't even love their wives properly.

There is no haraam about your love for your ex-wife.

[MrKutiiiriye]

Your not alone Cabruye..My ex is with another man as we speak right now but I dont give a fcuk cause all his getting is my left-overs, I anyways got tired of her dam complaining cause she couldnt handle me, you know what'm saying... dude just date more and just keep in mind waxu waa naag dhiig ka daato, ilaah baa nin kaa dhigay

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Talk about undying love...i feel ur pain walal. Please occupy urself as much as u can. Spend more time with ur friends ,read,..go out ... exercise and do some self improvements. U will eventually move on..but it takes time.








Ps: Don't jump into another relationship..untill u get urself together.

[Navy9]

You are perfectly normal, take your time and let your wound heal...and don't rush into a new relationship without first closing this chapter.

[Twist]

Still, I think this caburiye person is trolling.

[Hyperactive]

twist i believe he is just disrupted guy. him and sahal, (if they are not the same person)only late nights they write these things. i believe wa iska lonely people.

[Lillaahiya]

^ Cabudiye, hadday dhab ka tahay, waan ka naxa.

[Brobaganda]

Still, I think this caburiye person is trolling.

He ain't trolling.

IT'S JUST THAT THE THIRST IS REAL. THIRST ASS NIGGAS

[Ina-Geel_Wase]

nin weyn calaacalaya

kill urself adeer.

[caburiye1]

twist i believe he is just disrupted guy. him and sahal, (if they are not the same person)only late nights they write these things. i believe wa iska lonely people.

Hyperactive,

Maya wallaahi. I am not trolling. No one oo allah kujisaaro or complain about having difficulty in fathering unless its true. Remember allah can hold you for your words and make it real. Waxaas oo kale Kaftan maaha. I am actually an open book full of truth. Everything that I say about my real life is truth and nothing but the truth. I only flap when I am talking about qabil and politics. I don't give a damn who becomes the president or who looses. I am also multi-clan byproduct which means you would throw a stone to any somali qabil and it would heat my eedo or adeer or ayeeyo or cousins.

Also, I am not a loner. I am very outgoing and very loveable guy in real life. I am very outspoken and so many people love me. I am just in love with my ex who left due to this infertility and I still live in our old home with so many memories of her. Everywhere i look, I see her memory. Its like she hasn't left. By the way, her and I are not enemies. She is still on the lease and her papers still come to the appartment. I would even be getting her tax papers.

[caburiye1]

nin weyn calaacalaya

kill urself adeer.

Ina-Geel_Wase,


Sxb abahaa Geela nuucee wasi jiray? awrta mise Nirgaha? I know this reer waqooyi guy called Ina lax wase.

[Alchemist]

nin weyn calaacalaya

kill urself adeer.

Ina-Geel_Wase,


Sxb abahaa Geela nuucee wasi jiray? awrta mise Nirgaha? I know this reer waqooyi guy called Ina lax wase.

[Alto]

This reminds me of Ibn Hazm's amazing statement when he said "Love is neither disapproved by Religion nor prohibited by Law, for every heart is in God's Hands".


You're better than some married Somali men who can't even love their wives properly.

There is no haraam about your love for your ex-wife.

So, you read "The Ring of Dove" By Ibn Hazm? " Someone in somalinet reads Ibn Hazm's books . That quote is beautiful and speaks to the nature of love. We don't own our hearts and prophet mohamed pbuh himself used to say something along those lines fearing that God would make him accountable for his heart's preference to one of his wives. And the prophet was the best among men who lived the best example a human can live.


If what Caburiye says about himself is the truth, he has my sympathy.

[Twist]

nin weyn calaacalaya

kill urself adeer.

Ina-Geel_Wase,


Sxb abahaa Geela nuucee wasi jiray? awrta mise Nirgaha? I know this reer waqooyi guy called Ina lax wase.