Women are about to cheat after watching this film

[BlackVelvet]

^^Basra has finally learned how to qoute

[Basra-]

BB

I loved the Shakespeare poem u posted in the poem thread. What made u post that taloow? Were u being sarcastic? I enjoyed reading it. I had the faintest idea Shakespeare must been talking of a 'male' mistress when he wrote the poem. In those days, boys acted in female roles in the stage.

[BlackVelvet]

I heard it was a black woman

[Advo]

he went straight to her husband and said she gonna get got if sh!t aint returned.


Husband was like can't control her breh


I'm like

He was legit gonna body her?

He would cuz he kept on talking about its the principle lmao but I told him its not worth it, put that thang away.

Knowing him I am eager to see how this plays out even though she's copping pleas

[Lillaahiya]

Dad waalan. It's karma, I guess. Cheating w/ a married woman, only to go to her husband afterwards.

[Basra-]

BB

u maybe right. It could be a black woman. Wire hairs and her breast being 'dun'. (meaning of color brown lol)

But I think he loved her despite her lack of the classic beauty of anglo Saxon, that he was used to. In the end of the poem, he basically said-- he loved her, though he also spoke for her when he declared his love must have been the best she ever 'belied'.

[blitzkrieg]

Really?

Hollywood and the societal norms I SEE has made it acceptable for a woman to cheat.

They're the victims when they cheat. The man is a good for nothing and is ALWAYS at fault no matter the situation.

The "standards" your male privilege and general sexism allow you to see, rather. But please go on with your shallow statements and ridiculous emoticons. "I've witnessed it, ergo it must be indicative of society's treatment of women."

Please show me the next time a cheating man is referred to as a temptress, a home-wrecking whore. Society treats a woman who cheats as a victim? A victim of what? Women who have consensual sex with their boyfriends are labeled as sluts, and you're honestly attempting to make me believe that society states that a woman who cheats on her husband is a victim?


In addition, how often is the man the woman cheated with villainized? Is he referred to as a "home-wrecker", as the "other man" the way women are commonly referred to as the "other woman"? Do you agree that home-wrecker is essentially a gendered term? If so, isn't it indicative that we don't f-king coddle women when we even slur the complicit partners in the cheating, while men aren't typically labeled as home-wreckers?

So if I were to cheat on my boyfriend, I wouldn't be known on campus as the slut who broke her guy's heart? I'd be a victim? People would pat me on the back and comment on how he must have been a terrible man to begin with?

Yeah, o.k.

[BlackVelvet]

Basra search for Marlowe I think you'd like him, especially the shepherd one with the bed of roses

[FAH1223]

The "standards" your male privilege and general sexism allow you to see, rather. But please go on with your shallow statements and ridiculous emoticons. "I've witnessed it, ergo it must be indicative of society's treatment of women."

Please show me the next time a cheating man is referred to as a temptress, a home-wrecking whore. Society treats a woman who cheats as a victim? A victim of what? Women who have consensual sex with their boyfriends are labeled as sluts, and you're honestly attempting to make me believe that society states that a woman who cheats on her husband is a victim?


In addition, how often is the man the woman cheated with villainized? Is he referred to as a "home-wrecker", as the "other man" the way women are commonly referred to as the "other woman"? Do you agree that home-wrecker is essentially a gendered term? If so, isn't it indicative that we don't f-king coddle women when we even slur the complicit partners in the cheating, while men aren't typically labeled as home-wreckers?

So if I were to cheat on my boyfriend, I wouldn't be known on campus as the slut who broke her guy's heart? I'd be a victim? People would pat me on the back and comment on how he must have been a terrible man to begin with?

Yeah, o.k.

Look at hollywood and TV, thats exactly whats going on

I'm not going to argue that there has always been a gender imbalance with regards to cheating. I'm not arguing against home wreckier being a gender term or that men aren't scrutinized as much... they still are and they are scrutinized when THEIR women cheat. Cause they were the problem for whatever reason.

However! What I'm observing is this tilt to where women can go ahead and cheat based on whatever desires she has and be seen as a victim. Thats just as wrong as a nigga cheating.

[gurey25]

Its amazing how if a man cheats, he is seen as the worst thing ever but if it a woman cheats, her "needs aren't met" and other bullshid instead of her being called out like a man would be.

Women should be held to a higher standard.
Why?

Its because cheating goes against their nature, women are nurturing and tend to concentrate on one partner at a time,
while a man is programmed to spread his seed, i.e fuck anything that moves .
A civilized and religious man would have built up a strength of character and will power by the time he is an adult, education and culture plays a part. All this helps to stop succumbing to the natural urges every man is born with.

To make it short, a man has to consciously act to control his natural programming to screw as many women as possible,
he has to will himself to ignore the program that is running 24/7 in the background, no matter how much he loves his spouse and is devoted to her.

A women on the other hand has to consciously think about cheating, she doesnt have a program running her in her head 24/7 telling her to get banged by as many men as possible, the idea is alien to her, but they have urges and needs like everyone else.


This is why it is a far bigger deal when a women cheats..


but i dont blame the women for this though, i blame men.
allot of men do not know how to satisfy a partner sexually and emotionally,
you would be surpised how many women in a marriage that never had an orgasm.

[Lillaahiya]

^ Men are socialized to never refuse an invitation for sex before marriage, then are expected to stay monogamous when married. I think cheating is simply an extension of the lifestyle one led before settling down.

[gurey25]

^ Men are socialized to never refuse an invitation for sex before marriage, then are expected to stay monogamous when married. I think cheating is simply an extension of the lifestyle one led before settling down.

no it is far far deeper than that, it has become more socially acceptable today yes, but even the most religious man who is chaste before mariage with a strong character and will power will feels it, its always there, it is a quite whisper for some easy to ignore. You need to be a man to understand.
Allot of men are either too weak to ignore it, or dont see any need to do so in the first place.

[gedo_gurl]

^^^ acuudibillahi! I had no idea that qooq was so strong its become a custom to some. Alxamdulillah that I am a woman.

[BlackVelvet]

^^^ acuudibillahi! I had no idea that qooq was so strong its become a custom to some. Alxamdulillah that I am a woman.

So how does a man function if he's on heat 24/7

[gurey25]

^^^ acuudibillahi! I had no idea that qooq was so strong its become a custom to some. Alxamdulillah that I am a woman.

So how does a man function if he's on heat 24/7

Its easy you need willpower and charecter, those who cheat are simply weak.